Today, we would like to talk about the differences between men and women. You might say that you’ve known about these differences for your entire life, but it’s not that simple. We are sure that we’ll be able to highlight a few facts you’ve never heard of before. And in the bonus section, you’ll find out where the fashion for high heels came from.
The length of fingers
Let’s conduct a short experiment. Place your hand on a flat surface and compare the length of your index and ring fingers. In general, in women, the index finger is longer. In men, the ring finger is longer. How can this be explained?
According to scientists, the length of these fingers depends on the level of male and female hormones that affect the fetus in the womb. So, the reason why the ring finger is longer than the index finger in men is testosterone.
The skin on the heels
Scientists have found out that women’s skin is more hydrated in the décolleté area and on the hands. Only the skin on their heels is dryer than that of men. So, in equal conditions, men’s heels will be smoother.
Breast
You might think, “Why would a man need nipples?” It might sound strange but every person was initially female. When an embryo begins to develop in the womb, the male Y chromosome doesn’t immediately start working.
During the first 5-6 weeks, development occurs only under the influence of the X chromosome, so the nipples have enough time to form. If the embryo is male, the Y chromosome “turns on” after this period of time, and a boy is formed.
Men can even produce milk. Lactation is activated under special conditions, for example, it may appear during treatment with the hormone prolactin.
Vision
Women are better at seeing colors, but men are good at tracking fast-moving objects. This is probably linked to our hunter-gatherer past when men were hunters and women were gatherers.
For example, an orange may appear redder to a man than to a woman. The grass is almost always greener for women because green objects appear more yellow to men.
Gaining muscle mass
Many women have to go to the gym regularly to have a toned body, while a man can just lift a barbell a couple of times to get a 6 pack. So, what is the “ingredient” responsible for muscle development? If you guessed testosterone, you’re right.
In women, it is also produced, but in much smaller quantities. So, it is easier and faster for men to gain muscle mass.
Hair loss
Going bald after the age of 50 is typical for around half of men (and for a quarter of women too). The reason for this is a widespread hereditary disease, androgenetic alopecia, which is also called “male pattern baldness.” Due to this condition, hair follicles shrink, and hair becomes thinner and shorter, and eventually disappears.
Follicle shrinkage can be caused by sensitivity to dihydrotestosterone, a by-product of testosterone. This means that the more muscle-building hormone a man has, the more likely it is that he will become bald.
Adam’s apple
Both men and women have an Adam’s apple, but it’s more prominent in men. Why? The Adam’s apple is the cartilage that protects our vocal cords. It is formed during puberty. Since adult men have larger vocal cords, their Adam’s apple is also more prominent.
By the way, the larger the Adam’s apple, the deeper the voice. There is a theory that our ancestors needed a low voice in order to scare away predators.
Brain size
A man’s brain is larger than that of a woman, but this doesn’t mean that men are intellectually superior to women. Also, some parts of the brain in both sexes are different in size and work differently. For example, the hippocampus, which is involved in learning and creating memories, is larger in women. And the amygdala, which is associated with experiencing emotions and remembering them, is larger in men.
Scientists conducted an experiment: they showed the subjects a video so that they could recall some personal experiences. It turned out that in men, activity was observed only in the right amygdala, and in women, only in the left one.
Beard
At first glance, it might seem that a beard doesn’t provide any benefits. So, why does it grow? There is a theory that the jawline looks more massive thanks to a beard, so its wearer looks stronger and more masculine. Perhaps, our female ancestors tended to choose men with a thick beard as their partners because they thought they would produce healthy offspring with them.
Bonus: Heels
Nowadays, high heels are one of the symbols of femininity, aren’t they? However, in the 17th century, Persian riders used to wear one-inch heels. And since owning horses was a symbol of wealth, heeled shoes also came to signify money and power. The Persians then brought their fashion to Europe.
The French king Louis XIV became a big fan of heels. He even issued a decree according to which only nobles were allowed to wear heels. The higher and redder the heel was, the more powerful the wearer was.
The Sun King only allowed those who he favored the most to wear red heels. But since the 18th century, heels have become a purely feminine attribute, although this didn’t stop rock stars like David Bowie and The Beatles from wearing them.
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My Rich DIL Invited Me to Dinner to Purposely Embarrass Me – I Taught Her a Lesson She’ll Never Forget
I never expected my rich daughter-in-law’s fancy dinner invitation to turn into a nightmare. But when she abandoned me with a $5,375 bill, I knew I had to teach her a lesson she’d never forget — I just didn’t know how it would end.
My name’s Ruth, and I’ve just hung up my chalk after 40 years of teaching. My son Michael’s wife, Veronica, invited me out to celebrate. She’s this hotshot lawyer, all designer suits and power lunches.
“Don’t worry about the cost,” she said on the phone. “It’s my treat.”
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I should’ve known better, but I was so touched by the gesture that I ignored my gut feeling. Little did I know, this dinner would change everything.
“That’s very kind of you, Veronica,” I replied. “Are you sure?”
“Absolutely,” she insisted. “You deserve it after shaping young minds for so long.”
The restaurant was the kind of place where the menu didn’t have prices. The maître d’ looked me up and down as we entered, her eyebrow arching slightly at my sensible shoes and department store outfit.
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We were seated at a table near the window, overlooking the city skyline. I felt out of place among the crisp white tablecloths and crystal glasses.
“So, Ruth,” Veronica said, perusing the wine list, “how does it feel to be retired?”
I fiddled with my napkin. “Honestly? A bit strange. I’m not sure what to do with myself.”
She nodded absently, then turned to the sommelier. “We’ll have the 2015 Château Margaux.”
We chatted about family, my old job, her work. For once, I thought we were bonding.
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“You must be glad to be done with all those unruly kids,” Veronica said, sipping her wine.
“Oh, I’ll miss them,” I replied. “Teaching was my life. Each student was unique — a puzzle to solve.”
She nodded, but I could see her eyes glazing over. When the waiter came, she ordered without even glancing at the menu.
“The usual,” she said with a wave of her hand. “And for my mother-in-law — ” she paused, looking at me expectantly.
“Oh, um, I’ll have the chicken, please,” I said, flustered.
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The waiter nodded and disappeared. Veronica launched into a story about her latest court case, barely pausing for breath.
I tried to follow along, but my mind wandered. I thought about my classroom, now occupied by a younger teacher. Would she care for it like I had?
“Ruth? Are you listening?” Veronica’s sharp tone snapped me back to attention.
“Sorry, dear. Just got lost in thought for a moment.”
She sighed. “As I was saying, the judge completely ruled in our favor. It was a landslide victory.”
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I smiled and nodded, not entirely sure what she was talking about. As the evening wore on, an uneasy feeling settled in my stomach. Something was off, but I couldn’t put my finger on it.
After we finished eating, Veronica excused herself. “I’ll just pop to the ladies’ room,” she said. “Be right back.”
Fifteen minutes passed. Then thirty. The waiter kept giving me the side-eye, his polite smile growing strained.
Finally, he approached. “Madam, are you ready to settle the bill?”
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My heart nearly stopped when I saw the total: $5,375.
“I — I’m sorry,” I stammered. “My daughter-in-law invited me. She said she’d pay.”
The waiter’s face hardened. “Perhaps you’d like to call her?”
I did. Straight to voicemail.
That’s when it hit me. She’d planned this all along. The realization felt like a punch to the gut. But as the shock wore off, a different emotion began to take its place — determination.
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I took a deep breath and smiled at the waiter. “It seems I’ve been abandoned,” I said calmly. “But don’t worry, I’ll take care of it.”
I handed over my credit card, praying it wouldn’t be declined. It wasn’t, but I knew I’d be eating ramen for months.
As I left the restaurant, my mind was already spinning with plans. I may be old, but I’m far from helpless.
The next morning, I called my old friend Carla. She owns a cleaning service and has a wicked sense of humor.
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“Carla, I need a favor,” I said. “How’d you like to clean the biggest house in town?”
“Ruth, what are you up to?” she laughed. “This doesn’t sound like your usual request.”
I filled her in on my plan, and she was more than happy to help.
“Oh, honey,” she said, “I’ve got just the team for this job. We’ll leave that place sparkling — and maybe hide a few surprises.”
As I hung up the phone, a small smile played on my lips. Phase one was complete, but I wasn’t done yet.
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Next, I called Charmaine, my lawyer friend from our book club. She’s always had a soft spot for me, ever since I helped her daughter pass her English exams.
“Charmaine, how much would it cost to sue someone for emotional distress?”
She chuckled. “Ruth, you’re not serious, are you? This isn’t like you.”
“Dead serious,” I replied. “But I don’t actually want to sue. I just need to scare someone.”
“Ah,” she said, catching on quickly. “Well, in that case, I think we can whip up something suitably terrifying. Pro bono, of course.”
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A week later, I invited Veronica over for tea. She waltzed in like nothing happened, her heels clicking on my linoleum floor.
“Ruth, how lovely to see you,” she chirped. “I hope you enjoyed our dinner out.”
I smiled sweetly. “Oh, I did. In fact, I have a little something for you to say thank you.”
I handed her an envelope. Her perfectly manicured nails tore it open.
As she read, her face went from smug to shocked to pale.
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“You — you’re suing me?” she sputtered, her composure cracking.
“Unless you agree to my terms,” I said calmly, channeling my best stern teacher voice.
She glared at me, her lips pressed into a thin line. “What terms?”
“First, you’ll publicly apologize for what you did. Second, you’ll reimburse me for the bill and any legal fees. And third, you’ll start treating me with respect.”
Veronica looked like she’d swallowed a lemon. “You can’t be serious. Do you know what this could do to my reputation?”
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“Try me,” I said, my voice steel. “I may be retired, but I still know how to deal with troublemakers.”
She stared at me for a long moment, then deflated. “Fine. I’ll do it. But this stays between us, understood?”
I held out my hand. “Shake on it?”
She did, her grip limp and clammy. As we shook hands, I wondered if I had pushed too far. Would this plan backfire spectacularly?
The next day, Veronica’s social media was ablaze with her apology. My bank account was suddenly $5,500 richer. But the best part was yet to come.
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Carla’s team descended on Veronica’s mansion like a swarm of cleaning bees. They scrubbed every surface, organized every drawer, and left no corner untouched.
And in the master bedroom, they left a beautifully wrapped package.
Inside was a list — every snide comment, every eye roll, every backhanded compliment Veronica had ever thrown my way. And a note: “A clean slate for a fresh start. Let’s treat each other better from now on.”
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I was sipping tea when my phone rang. It was Veronica. My heart leaped into my throat as I answered.
“Ruth,” she said, her voice thick. “I — I don’t know what to say.”
“How about ‘I’m sorry’?” I suggested, keeping my tone light.
There was a long pause. Then, to my surprise, I heard a chuckle.
“You really got me, didn’t you?” she said. “I never thought you had it in you.”
“Just a little reminder about respect,” I replied. “And never underestimate a retired teacher.”
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“I deserved it,” she admitted. “Can we — can we start over?”
I smiled, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. “I’d like that, Veronica.”
From that day on, things changed. Veronica started calling more often, asking for advice, even inviting me out for casual dinners — which she actually paid for.
Last week, she asked me to help plan Michael’s surprise birthday party.
“I need your expertise,” she said. “You know him best, after all.”
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As we sat at her kitchen table, poring over party plans, I couldn’t help but marvel at how far we’d come.
“You know,” Veronica said suddenly, “I never thanked you properly.”
I looked up, surprised. “For what?”
“For teaching me a lesson I’ll never forget,” she replied, reaching out to squeeze my hand. “You’re tougher than you look, Ruth.”
I laughed. “Well, I did wrangle middle schoolers for four decades.”
She grinned. “Remind me never to cross you again. I still can’t believe you pulled all that off.”
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“Let’s just say I had some practice dealing with troublemakers,” I winked.
As we went back to our planning, I felt a warmth in my chest. Sometimes, a little tough love is exactly what’s needed to set things right.
And who knows? Maybe one day, I’ll even tell Michael about our little adventure. But for now, it’s our secret — a reminder that respect isn’t given, it’s earned.
Even if you have to teach that lesson the hard way. I may have left the classroom, but I’m not done teaching just yet.
What would you have done? If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one for you about a woman whosebrother kicked their grandma out of the house because she had no money left.
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