In August 2017, Tony Alarcon’s phone rang unexpectedly.
Like many parents, he thought it might be a telemarketer. But this time, he answered the call.
Hearing from the school can be nerve-wracking for any parent. Tony immediately started worrying—was his daughter, Demetra, okay? Had something happened?
What he found out left him surprised.
It was a hot summer day in Northern California, with temperatures reaching 90 degrees. Tony had dropped off his 13-year-old daughter, Demetra, at school that morning. She wore a blue romper to stay cool in the heat, and neither of them thought the outfit would cause any issues.
Demetra, a student at Raymond J. Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos, California, had simply dressed for the weather.
Not everyone agreed with Demetra’s outfit. A teacher at her school said her romper was “too distracting” for the boys.
When the teacher told Demetra that her outfit was too short, her dad, Tony, rushed back to the school with a change of clothes—jean shorts and a tank top. But the school said those clothes were also inappropriate.
Tony was shocked. He asked Demetra to bend over and touch her toes in front of the school administrator. “Nothing is hanging out. There’s nothing inappropriate. I don’t understand this dress code rule,” he told TODAY.
Still, the school said her clothes were “distracting.” Since it was 90 degrees outside, Tony had no choice but to go to his car and grab a pair of leggings for Demetra to wear.
Demetra felt embarrassed.
Tony expressed his frustration, saying, “She’s just a kid. She’s only 13. She’s not trying to be a sex symbol. She just wants to be comfortable and attend class, but we’re not giving her that chance.”
This wasn’t the first time Demetra had been in trouble for her clothes. Just a week before, she was called out for a visible bra strap. “When I got dress coded last week, they said my bra strap was showing,” Demetra told the *San Jose Mercury News*. “Like, I’m wearing a bra—what’s the big deal?”
Tony, a successful investment advisor and father of two, didn’t let it go. Angry at what he saw as an unfair rule that mostly targeted girls, he took his complaint to social media. Parents from all over the country showed their support, agreeing that the school’s dress code was outdated and unfair to girls.
“Demetra’s not the only one. If you sit in the school parking lot, you’ll see that,” Tony said. “Lots of girls just want to be comfortable, but they feel forced to wear leggings even when it’s 100 degrees outside.”
Tony believed that parents, not schools, should decide if their children’s clothes are appropriate. He was also worried about how being told their clothing is a “distraction” to boys could affect young girls emotionally in the long run.
The story quickly got attention from the media, with major news outlets reporting on Tony’s efforts to change the dress code. While the school didn’t speak on camera, they did release a statement:
“The Los Gatos Union School District believes that appropriate dress and grooming contribute to a productive learning environment,” the district said. “Students are expected to wear clothes that reflect the core values of our learning community.”
Tony’s efforts made an impact. His push for change led the Los Gatos Union School District to reevaluate its dress code to make it fairer and less strict for all students.
Lisa Fraser, the school’s principal, explained that the dress code rules, called “Fashion Faux Pas,” apply to both girls and boys. Some of the rules include no hats or hoods indoors, no visible underwear, no inappropriate logos or words, and shorts must have at least 4-inch inseams.
“There has always been a dress code,” Fraser told a newspaper. “These are basic rules for appropriate behavior. I can set guidelines for the school, but I want them to reflect the community’s values.”
In the end, Tony Alarcon’s persistence started an important discussion about how school dress codes affect young girls — showing that one parent’s voice can truly make a difference.
What do you think about the school’s dress code? Have you or your children faced a similar situation? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!
Unlocking the World’s Greatest Mysteries
The world is an enthralling place full of mysterious things that never cease to amaze us with their appearance and, of course, their mysterious uses. Ultimately, not all issues can be resolved with a quick Google search, particularly if you’re not sure exactly what you’re looking for.
There are many mysteries in the world every day that pique our interest and compel us to solve. We have access to online communities of investigators that share our enthusiasm for delving into these mysteries, all thanks to the power of the internet. Together, we can delve deeper into untold tales and unearth surprising facts as we explore the world’s amazing tapestry. The quest for knowledge has crossed geographical boundaries, putting a multitude of knowledge and experience at our disposal.
But amid the amazement and astonishment, a common reality surfaces: most of the time, things are not as remarkable as they initially appear to be. These are six intriguing discoveries that raised questions and yielded surprising revelations.
Is It Trash or Something Else?
In their rubbish drawer, an original poster discovered an enigmatic item. They referred to it as a “scoopy doodad” and looked to the internet for support and guidance. It was described as being incredibly heavy, having no markings, and having a little hole on top, raising the question, “What could it be?”
Netizens found that the response was surprising. What appeared to be an object was actually the nozzle of a vintage Sunbeam Mixmaster juicer attachment. A little sieve to remove pulp was attached to the wire portion.
5. A Found Old Cabinet
One user found an object in an antique cabinet that was completely composed of glass and had small holes running the length of it. They posted a picture of it online, curious about its intended use, and hoped for answers.
Many individuals quickly realized that a flower frog was the solution. This glass item served as a vase support for flower arrangements. Foam and gels had rendered it obsolete.
4. A Bulky Glass Item
A photo of a hefty glass object with a narrow hole on top and no markings was published on Reddit by another user. They pondered over its identification and looked for explanations.
An oil candle turned out to be the unexpected solution, as one astute netizen discovered. Who would have thought?
3. The Mysterious Item Covered in a Bedroom Drawer
A Reddit member discovered an odd item with a suede or soft leather bottom while searching through their bedroom drawer. Perplexed, they looked to the internet community for clarification.
Many were surprised to learn that the solution was a nail buffer. The original poster admitted to not taking good care of their nails and was shocked to learn this.
2. What’s Underneath Those Flooring?
A user shared a picture of a silver-colored device that looked like an old-fashioned scissor and questioned what it was used for. It was concealed beneath the floorboards of a house built in the 1800s.
An interesting response was given by a helpful netizen: it was used to take the top off of soft-boiled eggs. The accuracy of the response was promptly confirmed by another user.
1. An Improbable Hotel Room Discover
One visitor found a vertical slot inside their bedside table while staying at a hotel. Their goal intrigued them, so they looked to the internet community for solutions.
It turns out that the purpose of the slot was to hold a tablet or laptop while it charged overnight. It wouldn’t take up much space on the nightstand in this manner. A user who had asked about it at their own hotel verified the response. The initial poster immediately acknowledged how similar the hotel was to the one in Philadelphia.
The internet has given us the ability to collaborate and decipher the mysteries concealed behind seemingly commonplace objects in a world full of riddles. A few clicks away, there’s always something waiting to be discovered. So embrace your curiosity and explore the mysterious wonders all around you.
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