When Hayley’s ex’s mom invites her to design a wedding dress for her big day, it seems strange, but nothing prepares Hayley for the truth. What follows is a confession, a second chance at love, and a surprise she never saw coming. Sometimes, life gives you the most unexpected twists…
It had been three years since Adam and I broke up, but I still couldn’t shake him. Five years of love doesn’t just disappear overnight. His sudden breakup was like a sucker punch with no explanation, no closure, just silence.
It was just done.
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Then, about a year ago, he started dating her. My former friend, Miranda. If betrayal had a face, it was hers, plastered all over social media with captions of the two of them:
When you know, you know, and The best thing that ever happened to me!
I told myself to block her, to stop looking, but I didn’t. Every photo, every grin, every comment about her “forever love” felt like salt in an open wound.
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I never stopped loving him. That’s the sad, honest truth. Pathetic, I know. I wasn’t able to date anyone seriously since him.
So when Adam’s mom, Lena, called me out of the blue last month, I thought I was hallucinating.
We never exactly got along. She had always been polite but distant, like she was sizing me up and always finding me lacking something or the other.
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After the breakup, I assumed I’d never hear from her again. But there she was, on the other end of my phone, her voice strangely warm.
“Hello, sweetheart,” she said. “I know this might be unexpected, but I have a favor to ask, Hayley.”
Lena told me that she was getting married. Married! And she wanted me to design her wedding dress. She gushed about how I’d become one of the most sought-after seamstresses in the city.
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“I’ve always admired your work, Hayley,” she said softly. “And I trust you. I know you’d create something perfect just for me.”
Trust? Admiration?
From Lena?
I nearly dropped the phone. I couldn’t figure out what game she was playing. My instincts screamed at me to say no, to hang up and block her number. And truly be done with that entire family.
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But she begged. And how could I say no? She said that no one else could do it justice and that she’d forever be grateful.
“Nobody else will do things that will suit my age and my figure! And make me something dream-worthy, Hayley. Please?”
I don’t know why I said yes. Maybe there was a part of me that wanted to feel close to Adam again. Or maybe I just couldn’t resist the curiosity clawing at me.
Either way, I agreed.
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Over the next few weeks, I poured myself into the dress. The fabric was like spun clouds, soft and ethereal, with delicate beading along the bodice. I stayed up late perfecting every stitch. Lena had wanted a lacy dress that made her feel like a princess.
“I know it’s foolish, darling,” she said. “When I married Adam’s father all those years ago, I wore a shapeless white dress that did absolutely nothing for my figure. I want to live my dream wedding dress now.”
Lena had given me her measurements, and oddly enough, they matched mine.
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I tried not to think about it. But it wasn’t a surprise. The entire time I had been dating Adam, Lena was always at Pilates or yoga or swimming with her friends.
The morning of the wedding arrived. I packed the dress into a garment bag, loaded it carefully into my car, and drove to the venue. It was a gorgeous country estate tucked away like something out of a fairy tale.
If I ever got married, I could see myself using this as a venue contender.
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The moment I pulled up, unease curled in my stomach.
Something’s wrong, I thought. But I shook it off.
Clutching the garment bag, I walked inside. Soft music drifted through the air, and guests milled about in suits and gowns, their laughter a low hum. But then I saw it.
A massive banner near the altar, shimmering under the soft light.
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It displayed the names of the couple getting married.
I froze right there.
It wasn’t Lena’s name.
It was Adam’s name. And mine.
Welcome to the nuptials of Adam & Hayley
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I blinked, my mind short-circuiting. My heart was racing so fast it felt like it might explode.
“What… what is this?” I whispered aloud.
“Hayley,” a voice said from behind me.
His voice, Adam’s voice, made me jump. I turned around, and there he was.
Adam.
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He looked older, his jaw sharper, his eyes softer. He wasn’t smiling, though. He just stood there, hands at his sides, looking at me like I was the only person in the room.
“What is this?” I demanded, my voice shaking. “Why is my name on that banner? What’s happening?”
He took a slow step toward me, regret written all over his face.
“Please, just let me explain.”
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I wanted to scream. I wanted to run. But I just couldn’t move.
“You’ve got two minutes,” I said, folding my arms tightly across my chest.
He took a deep breath.
“Three years ago, I made the biggest mistake of my life.”
Yeah, no kidding, I thought bitterly, but I stayed quiet.
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“I was going to propose to you, Hayley,” he said. “I had the ring. I had everything planned. And then… she showed me something.”
“She?” I whispered, already knowing who.
“Your… my ex. Miranda,” he looked away, his voice thick with regret. “She showed me a video of you all on holiday. Thailand, I think it was. And you were drinking and shouting that you didn’t want kids. She told me that it was recent, that you’d been lying to me about wanting a family. Especially with me. It crushed me, Hayley. I thought I didn’t know you at all.”
An angry woman | Source: Midjourney
The air whooshed out of my lungs. I remembered the video. It was years ago, we had been on a girls’ trip, and I was venting after a drunken spat with someone who assumed all women had to want kids. The same man who made his wife take care of their kids while he enjoyed his beer on the beach.
It had nothing to do with Adam and everything to do with wanting to be heard.
“You didn’t think to ask me?” I choked out. “You didn’t think that you could have taken five minutes to ask me about that video?”
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“I know, Hayley,” he said, shaking his head. “I was stupid. I was already vulnerable, and she got into my head. I believed Miranda. I believed everything she said. And I let you go. Then she admitted the truth.”
“What?” I gasped.
“Months ago. She slipped up during an argument. She told me the video was old, and she knew I’d overreact. She said that she wanted me for myself and couldn’t stand that you had me.”
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Tears stung my eyes. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. She’d destroyed everything we had, and he let her.
“I ended things with her that night,” he continued. “And I’ve spent every day since trying to figure out how to fix this. How to win you back.”
I shook my head, still completely overwhelmed.
“And this?” I gestured around. “What the heck is this?”
His lips curved into a small, nervous smile.
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“This is me not waiting any longer…”
Adam reached into his pocket and pulled out a small, black velvet box. Then he dropped to one knee.
“Hayley, I love you. I never stopped. I know I don’t deserve your forgiveness, but I’m asking for it anyway. Will you marry me? Right here, right now?”
I stared at him, my world spinning. Then, out of nowhere, it hit me.
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Lena.
She’d planned this. She’d asked me to make the dress because she knew.
And the truth? I still loved him.
So, I whispered my answer.
“Yes, Adam.”
Lena appeared almost instantly, carrying flowers and beaming like a woman who’d just pulled off the heist of the century.
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“You said yes!” she cried, hugging me tightly. “I’m so sorry for how I treated you before, Hayley. I didn’t see how much you meant to Adam until it was too late. Thank you for giving him another chance.”
Stylists and makeup artists seemed to appear out of nowhere. My parents showed up, looking both stunned and delighted. No one knew if I’d say yes, but they’d all been ready.
I changed into the dress I’d made with my own hands, realizing it had been meant for me all along.
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When Adam and I stood together at the altar, his hand in mine, I felt something I hadn’t felt in years.
Peace.
After the ceremony, the crowd had thinned, and the music played softly in the background. I stood on the balcony of the venue, the crisp evening air cooling my flushed cheeks.
My hands rested on the railing as I stared at the horizon, trying to process everything that had happened.
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“Hey.”
Adam’s voice came from behind me. I turned to see him standing there, tie loosened, the soft glow of string lights making his eyes look even warmer.
“Hey,” I said quietly, my lips curving into a small smile.
He stepped beside me, his arm brushing against mine as we both looked out into the night.
“Are you okay?” he asked.
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I let out a soft laugh, shaking my head.
“I don’t even know what I am right now. Happy? Overwhelmed? Still waiting for someone to yell ‘April Fools’?”
He chuckled, his gaze softening.
“It’s real, Hayley. I promise.”
We fell silent for a moment before he spoke again, his voice more serious.
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“I don’t deserve this. You. I know I messed up. I let someone else’s lies break something beautiful, and I’ve hated myself for it every day since.”
I turned to face him, my heart tightening.
“You should’ve talked to me, Adam. I would have told you the truth. You hurt me so much when you left.”
His face crumbled just a little, his jaw flexing.
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“I know. And I’ll spend the rest of my life making it up to you, if you’ll let me.”
I stared at him for a long moment, searching his face for any doubt, any hesitation.
But there was none.
“I’m here, aren’t I?” I whispered.
His lips curved into a smile, a mixture of relief and love.
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“Yeah, you are,” he said.
He took my hand and kissed my knuckles, lingering for just a moment.
“This time, I’ll get it right.”
I smiled back, the truth settling deep in my chest.
“This time, we will.”
“Come, love. Let’s go get some cake and champagne.”
But before we left the balcony, he pulled me into his arms, and for the first time in years, I felt like I was exactly where I was meant to be.
A wedding cake | Source: Midjourney
On the day of Mabel and Adam’s wedding, they’re stuck in a limousine as they crawl along the freeway, thanks to traffic. Instead of keeping her mother’s guests entertained, Mabel’s daughter, Amanda, takes over the wedding, stealing the limelight. Will Mabel retaliate at the wedding or just let Amanda learn her lesson another way?
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.
I had no idea
Have you ever wondered if you’re washing your pajamas too often—or not enough? The conversation about pajama hygiene can be surprisingly divisive. Some people wash them after each use, while others stretch it out for a week or more. So, how often should you really be washing your pajamas? Let’s break it down by considering hygiene, health, environmental impact, and expert opinions.
Understanding Personal Hygiene and Pajama-Washing Preferences
When it comes to hygiene, everyone has their own standards. Some people feel uncomfortable re-wearing pajamas more than once, while others are fine wearing them multiple times before tossing them in the laundry. Factors like skin type, sweating, and bedtime routines play a major role in how often you should wash your sleepwear.
For example, if you shower before bed and wear fresh pajamas each night, you might not need to wash them as frequently. On the other hand, if you sweat at night or have sensitive skin, you may want to opt for more frequent washing.
Factors That Influence How Often You Should Wash Pajamas
Several factors can determine your ideal pajama-washing routine. Here are the most important ones:
1. Nighttime Sweating
If you tend to sweat heavily at night, your pajamas can absorb bacteria and oils from your skin. This can lead to unpleasant odors, irritation, and even acne. If you sweat a lot, washing your pajamas every other day or after two wears is a good idea.
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2. Skin Sensitivity and Allergies
People with sensitive skin or allergies should be mindful of how often they wash their pajamas. Dirt, sweat, and bacteria buildup can cause breakouts, irritation, or flare-ups of conditions like eczema. In such cases, washing after each use or every two wears is ideal.
3. Pajama Material and Fabric Type
Different fabrics require different washing routines. Cotton and flannel pajamas absorb more sweat and should be washed more frequently, while silk and satin tend to stay cleaner longer and can be washed less often. If you wear synthetic fabrics, keep in mind that they can trap bacteria and odors, requiring more frequent washing.
4. Climate and Season
The climate you live in can impact how often you should wash your pajamas. During hot and humid months, you may need to wash them more often, while in colder months, when you sweat less, you might be able to wear them longer before washing.
5. Whether You Shower Before Bed
If you shower before bed, you’re less likely to transfer sweat and dirt onto your pajamas. This means you can likely wear them 3–4 times before washing. However, if you don’t shower at night or wear your pajamas around the house, they may need more frequent washing.
Health Risks of Washing Pajamas Too Often or Too Seldom
Just like washing too little can lead to bacteria buildup, odors, and skin irritation, washing too often can also have drawbacks.
Problems with Not Washing Pajamas Often Enough
- Skin issues: Accumulated dirt, oils, and bacteria can clog pores and cause acne.
- Allergy flare-ups: Dust mites thrive in unwashed fabrics, leading to sneezing and itching.
- Unpleasant odors: Sweat and body oils can cause musty-smelling pajamas.
Problems with Washing Pajamas Too Often
- Faster fabric wear and tear – Washing too frequently can cause fabrics to fade, shrink, or lose softness.
- Higher environmental impact – Frequent washing consumes more water and energy, contributing to waste.
- Increased laundry workload – More washing means more time spent on laundry.
Environmental Impact: The Sustainability Factor
Did you know that over-washing your pajamas can have a negative impact on the environment? Every wash cycle uses water, electricity, and detergent, contributing to pollution and energy consumption. If you can wear your pajamas one or two extra nights before washing, you can reduce water usage and minimize your carbon footprint.
Tips for an Eco-Friendly Laundry Routine:
✔ Wash in cold water to save energy.
✔ Use eco-friendly detergents to reduce pollution.
✔ Only wash full loads to make the most of each wash cycle.
✔ Air-dry when possible to save electricity.
Expert Recommendations: How Often Should You Really Wash Pajamas?
While the perfect washing schedule depends on your lifestyle, experts generally recommend washing pajamas after 3–4 wears. However, certain exceptions apply:
✅ Wash pajamas after 1–2 wears if you sweat a lot, have allergies, or wear tight-fitting sleepwear.
✅ Wash pajamas every 4–7 wears if you shower before bed, sleep in a cool room, and wear breathable fabrics.
✅ Wash immediately if your pajamas have stains, odors, or signs of irritation on your skin.
Cultural Differences in Pajama-Washing Habits
Different cultures have unique perspectives on pajama hygiene. In some countries, people wash their pajamas daily as part of a strict hygiene routine. In contrast, others wear them for a week or more before washing, emphasizing practicality and sustainability.
In Western cultures, it’s common to wear pajamas for a few nights before washing, while in parts of Asia, frequent washing is often the norm due to a greater focus on cleanliness.
Balancing Comfort and Cleanliness: Find Your Own Pajama-Washing Routine
Finding the right balance between comfort, hygiene, and sustainability is the key to determining how often you should wash your pajamas. Here are a few practical tips to maintain pajama hygiene:
Video : Do You Do Your Laundry Often Enough?
✔ Rotate between multiple pairs to reduce wear and tear on each set.
✔ Air out your pajamas during the day to keep them fresh.
✔ Spot-clean any stains immediately instead of washing the whole set.
✔ Follow fabric care instructions to maintain softness and longevity.
Final Thoughts: What Works Best for You?
Ultimately, the frequency with which you wash your pajamas depends on your personal habits, lifestyle, and health needs. Whether you choose to wash them every night, every few days, or weekly, the key is to strike a balance between comfort, cleanliness, and sustainability.
So, what’s your pajama-washing routine? Do you wash them after every wear, or do you stretch it out for several nights? Share your thoughts in the comments!
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