Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
I Bought a $20 Couch at a Garage Sale, and It Changed My Life in a Day
When Joshua buys an old couch at a garage sale, he’s expecting nothing more than a cheap addition to his garage. But when his dog uncovers a hidden package in the couch, his life takes a dramatic turn…
A couple of weeks ago, I decided my garage needed a bit of sprucing up. I’d been turning it into a cozy guest room, nothing extravagant, just a spot for family or friends to crash.
All I needed was a cheap couch, something sturdy, functional, and, ideally, dirt cheap.
The interior of a garage | Source: Midjourney
That’s how I ended up at a garage sale on a quiet Saturday morning.
The couch caught my eye immediately. It had faded floral upholstery, scuffed wooden legs, and the faint smell of lavender. It was perfect.
The seller, a tired-looking woman in her early forties, smiled as I approached.
A couch at a garage sale | Source: Midjourney
“You’ve got a good eye,” she said. “I’m Kristen. This belonged to my mom. She adored this old thing. I don’t know where she got it from, but it’s been around my entire life.”
“I’m Joshua. It’s got character,” I replied, running my hand over the worn fabric. “How much are you asking for it?”
“Twenty bucks,” she said quickly. “We’re clearing out her house. She passed away six months ago.”
A tired older woman | Source: Midjourney
Her voice softened as she looked over at the house.
“It’s been hard, but we need the money for my daughter’s treatments. She’s been unwell for a while now, leukemia. We’re going to miss the garden here.”
I nodded, suddenly unsure of what to say.
A man at a garage sale | Source: Midjourney
“You know what, Kristen, I’ll take it.”
She waved over her teenage son to help load it onto my truck, and as I drove away, I couldn’t help but think I’d scored a great deal. Sure, it was just an old couch that needed a re-upholstery soon, but $20 was something.
But…I wasn’t prepared for what happened next.
A couch on the back of a pick-up truck | Source: Midjourney
The moment I set the couch in the garage, my dog, Wasabi, lost his mind. He barked like a lunatic, darting around the room before zeroing in on one specific spot on the couch.
“What’s gotten into you?” I laughed, watching as he scratched at the fabric with wild determination.
Wasabi wasn’t letting up. He was practically digging into the couch with his tiny paws, and that’s when it hit me: stories about people finding hidden treasures in old furniture.
A dog sitting outside | Source: Midjourney
Could it really happen to me?
“Alright, alright,” I muttered, grabbing a knife. “Let’s see what’s got you so worked up.”
I made a small cut in the area Wasabi had been attacking, my hands trembling as I peeled back the fabric.
And there it was.
Bundles of cash.
A package of cash | Source: Midjourney
“Holy…” I whispered, staring at the wads of bills stuffed inside the couch. My heart raced as I pulled out stack after stack, laying them on the floor.
By the time I was done, there was over $20,000 sitting in front of me.
Wasabi barked triumphantly, wagging his tail like he’d just won the lottery.
“Good job, buddy,” I said, ruffling his fur.
A barking dog | Source: Midjourney
For a moment, I just stared at the money, my mind spinning. This could change everything.
Like everything.
Bills, savings, maybe even a dream vacation, every scenario ran through my head. But then I thought about the woman at the garage sale. Her daughter. The treatments.
A close up of a woman | Source: Midjourney
This wasn’t my money to use. This wasn’t my money to spend.
I drove back to the garage sale, the cash stuffed in my gym bag on the passenger seat. Kristen looked surprised to see me again.
“Hi! Do you remember me? I bought the couch earlier,” I said, trying to sound casual.
A bag on a car seat | Source: Midjourney
“Is there something wrong with it?” she asked, tilting her head.
“No, nothing at all,” I said. “I was just curious about it. Who did the couch belong to?”
Her expression softened.
“It was my mom’s, Joshua,” she said, remembering my name. “Like the house, she had it for decades. We found so many family photos with that couch in the background. Letting it go was hard, but we need the money, you know? My daughter’s very sick, I think I told you?”
A sick teenage girl | Source: Midjourney
I nodded.
“Anyway, it was either this or sell the house.”
I shifted on my feet, uneasy.
“Your mom never mentioned saving money, did she?” I asked.
Kristen hesitated, then nodded.
The exterior of a house | Source: Midjourney
“Actually, she did. She said she’d hidden some savings, but she couldn’t remember where. We searched everywhere. And I mean everywhere. All the drawers, closets, under floorboards, but never found anything. Why do you ask?”
“I… I think I know what happened to it,” I said carefully. “Can we talk privately?”
“Come to the kitchen,” she said. “Let’s have a glass of lemonade.”
An empty chest of drawers | Source: Midjourney
In her kitchen, I placed the bag onto the table, while Kristen set a glass of lemonade down.
“Kristen, I found this inside the couch,” I said, unzipping the bag.
She peered inside and gasped.
“Oh my goodness,” she whispered, tears brimming in her eyes.
A glass of lemonade on a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney
“Is this… Is this… Mom’s?”
“I think it’s the money your mom mentioned. I can’t keep it. It belongs to you and your child for her treatment.”
Her hands flew to her mouth as the first tear slipped down her cheek.
A woman in a kitchen with her hand on her mouth | Source: Midjourney
“This can pay for her treatment,” she said, her voice trembling. “You’ve saved her life. Mackenzie can… Mackenzie can get better. Thank you… thank you so much.”
She reached for my hands, squeezing them tightly.
“Joshua, please, let me take a picture of you. I want to remember this moment forever.”
A smiling man | Source: Midjourney
“Sure, I guess,” I said, smiling faintly.
She snapped a photo, her hands still shaking.
“You have no idea how much this means to us. Thank you.”
When I got home, I found my fiancée in the kitchen, chopping up vegetables to add to the roast chicken she was preparing. I told her everything.
A tray of food | Source: Midjourney
She listened, her expression a mix of disbelief and pride.
“You did the right thing,” Nicole said, wrapping her arms around me. “I’m so proud of you.”
The next morning, Kristen shared the entire story on social media. She described how a stranger had returned her late mother’s hidden savings, ensuring her daughter could get the care she needed.
The post went viral quickly.
A woman using her phone | Source: Midjourney
Within hours, the comments and shares exploded. Local news outlets picked it up, and people from across the country were calling me a hero.
It felt surreal.
Then, the ripple effects began.
A few days later, I got a knock on my door. A lawyer handed me a check for $20,000 from an anonymous donor who’d been moved by the story.
A new reporter at a studio | Source: Midjourney
“You gave it up willingly,” she said. “So, here you go. Use it wisely.”
A few days later at work, my boss called me into his office. He’d seen the post too.
“I wish we had more people like you on the team,” he said. “We need leaders with your integrity, Josh.”
By the end of the meeting, I had a promotion and a raise.
A smiling man | Source: Midjourney
But the moment that hit me the hardest came weeks later. I received a card in the mail from Kristen. Inside was a photo of Mackenzie smiling.
Because of you, my child gets to have a future. Endless appreciation for you, Josh.
That $20 couch didn’t just change my life. It reminded me of the kind of person I want to be: someone my kids can look up to, someone who does the right thing.
A smiling teenage girl | Source: Midjourney
Every time I sat on the couch in the garage, usually with Wasabi curled up beside me, I knew I made the right choice.
A month later, Nicole and I sat together on the couch in the garage, a large bowl of popcorn and a sprawled Wasabi between us. The black-and-white movie I’d picked was playing in the background, but neither of us were really watching it.
My mind kept drifting back to Kristen’s card and the picture of her daughter.
A dog sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney
“I still can’t believe this all started with the couch,” I said, running my fingers along the couch.
Nicole turned to me, her face glowing in the dim light.
“I can,” she said softly.
“What do you mean?” I asked.
She smiled, tucking a strand of hair behind her ear.
A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney
“This is who you are, Josh,” she said. “You’ve always put others first. When we met it was us volunteering as elves for the orphanage’s Christmas party. Remember how you stayed late that one time at the senior citizens’ home? To build a second wheelchair ramp?”
“That was different,” I said, shrugging.
A wheelchair ramp | Source: Midjourney
“No, it wasn’t,” she insisted. “It’s who you are. You see people or animals… and they need help. And you just do the right thing without thinking about it. It’s what I love most about you.”
Her words hit me hard, and for a moment, I couldn’t say anything. I reached for her hand, lacing my fingers through hers.
“Now, we have a wedding to plan.”
A smiling bride | Source: Midjourney
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