As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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The Amazing Journey of Agnetha Faltskog: A Legendary ABBA Star, Now Aged 72
The distinctive song of the legendary Swedish band ABBA has enchanted people all over the world. They are still regarded as worldwide celebrities today. Even though they might not be in the spotlight as much these days, Agnetha Faltskog, the lead vocalist for ABBA, is nevertheless leading a remarkable life.
Agnetha Faltskog is 72 years old, and she still looks amazing and makes heartfelt songs.
An Eternal Heritage
When Agnetha Faltskog and Bjorn Ulvaeus crossed paths, the magic of ABBA started. Upon hearing Agnetha’s first song, “Jag var s kär [I Was So In Love],” on the radio, Bjorn became enthralled with her remarkable voice and knack for crafting exquisite melodies. As their relationship developed, it resulted in a TV show duet where they were able to fully enjoy their love affair. They soon teamed up with Anni-Frid Lyngstad and Benny Andersson, and the quartet created music history.
From the Battle of Waterloo to Global Fame
It took some time for ABBA to become well-known worldwide. They began by taking part in Melodifestivalen, Sweden’s entry into the Eurovision Song Contest, performing the song “Ring, Ring.” Even though they finished third, the song launched their ascent in Sweden by becoming a huge hit. They returned the next year, this time with the song “Waterloo,” which went on to win the Eurovision Song Contest and give rise to ABBA.
The hits of ABBA never ceased to enthrall audiences around. Songs like “Dancing Queen,” “Mamma Mia,” “SOS,” and “Fernando” catapulted them to previously unheard-of levels of success. Through the power of music, their songs spoke to listeners of all ages as well as the younger generation.
Obstacles in Life and ABBA’s Domination
Agnetha had to balance her motherhood and personal struggles as ABBA’s reputation grew. It was obviously challenging to balance having a great job with raising children, but Agnetha and Bjorn were able to make it work. Despite the challenges of their international success, they made sure their children were safe and led balanced lives.
But Agnetha suffered from being away from her kids and touring all the time. She thought about leaving the group, but they managed to reconcile their personal lives with their musical aspirations by being upfront with each other and reaching compromises.
Goodbye and Legacy
With singles like “The Winner Takes It All,” which highlighted Agnetha’s extraordinary talent and emotional depth, ABBA continued to create amazing music. But in 1982, the band chose to take a break as personal connections changed, which ultimately resulted in their unofficial dissolution.
In an attempt to live a more private life, Agnetha started a prosperous solo career before removing herself from the spotlight. Her family, who lived on an island off the coast of Stockholm, Sweden, provided her with comfort. Even at 72 years old, Agnetha is still gorgeous and periodically puts out new music.
Getting Back Together and Starting Over
Years have passed since the original ABBA reunion was rumored to be happening, and new music appears to be forthcoming. The band members—including Agnetha—have stated that they would love to work together once more, and fans are excited for the magic that only ABBA can produce.
Agnetha has made a lasting impression on the music industry with her amazing voice and extraordinary talent. Her path, replete with both personal and professional triumphs, epitomizes tenacity and pursuing one’s passion.
As we excitedly await ABBA’s much-anticipated comeback, let’s honor their incredible heritage. Let the music continue by leaving a comment with your fave ABBA song!
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