renowned for saying “don’t touch me” a lot.When Howie Mandel gave Reba McEntire a firm hug on The Voice stage in September 2023, it stunned everyone.
The comedian caved in to his excitement and was unable to resist the country music star’s allure because he suffers from a crippling phobia of germs.
Mandel appears upbeat and joyful when he is in the spotlight, but when he is not, he discloses that he is a “scared” guy who would rather live “in the fetal position.”
Furthermore, he just made a startling admission that disclosed how he controls the OCD that drives him to “absolute hell.”To find out more, continue reading!
Many people’s inner germaphobe was let loose by the horror of the global epidemic, making them more aware of the risks of contamination.
While many people’s fear of germs passed after a few years, for others it remains crippling and never goes away.
“It is impossible for me to live a day in my life without thinking that we might not survive,” says Howie Mandel, a man who has experienced extreme anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) since he was a little child. The 68-year-old TV personality says the pandemic was particularly upsetting in an interview with People, saying, “But the comfort I would get would be the fact that everybody around me was okay.” It’s a good idea to hold on. However, everything in the world was not well throughout the pandemic. And it was just the worst.
OCD is defined as a “pattern of unwanted thoughts and fears known as obsessions” by the Mayo Clinic. These obsessions cause you to engage in compulsive activities, or repeating actions. These compulsions and obsessions are very distressing and interfere with day-to-day tasks.
“I’m in a bad dream,” declares the comedian who was born in Canada. “I attempt to ground myself. Mandel remarks, “I have a great family, including my wife Terry and their three children, Riley, Jackie, and Alex, who were married in 1980. “I adore what I do,” However, I can sometimes have periods of deep depression from which I cannot recover.
The best medicine is laughter.
Mandel, who got his big break on the medical drama St. Elsewhere in 1982, says that although every day is difficult, comedy gets him through it.
“I use humor as a coping mechanism. I’m crying if I’m not laughing. I haven’t been transparent enough about how dark and terrible things truly get.
Mandel continues, “I’m most at ease onstage,” adding that he uses humor to fend off the allure of OCD. And it’s not nice when I withdraw inside myself when I have nothing to do.
Mandel consistently finds time for projects, contributing his unmatched sense of humor to all of them. He hosts multiple shows in addition to acting as a judge on the America’s Got Talent (AGT) franchise.
“Very heavily medicated”
He opened up to Kelly Clarkson about his mental health concerns during a conversation they had on her talk show in 2022.
“I have OCD and am neurotic.people believe that because I’m out and about, I’m having fun and enjoying myself.I’m terrified. He said to the host, “I like to go home and just live in the fetal position.”
Clarkson retorted, “It’s so funny to me, because every time I’m around you, even seeing you out of work…you’re so the opposite of what I would think,” looking surprised by Mandel’s shadow persona.
Mandel chuckled, “I know, I’m such a joy, I’m a light, I’m an energy, and I’m stunning.” “..To be really honest, I take a lot of medication.
embracing Reba
He may have been excited to see Reba McEntire on The Voice because of that medicine.
Mandel, a panelist on the show, leaped from the audience and called her name. He then hurried up to the country music expert and said, “We’re right next door shooting the AGT finale.” Could you please sign my shirt?
After McEntire signed his “I [heart] Reba” shirt, Mandel gave an unexpected, tight hug to the audience.
Carson Daly, the show’s host, remarked of the man who usually avoids physical contact, “You don’t see that every day.”
Mandel acknowledges his perplexing actions, saying, “People notice discrepancies, particularly in the media.” “He shook someone’s hand,” or “Oh, he hugged someone.” I’m able to give you a handshake. Then I would believe that I hadn’t cleaned it thoroughly. And I would spend hours washing my hands by going back and forth in a circle.
He goes on, “I understand the funny in that,” determined to continue the discourse about mental health. But that doesn’t lessen how excruciatingly awful it is. I also don’t want to justify my emotional well-being. All I want is to keep it going.
Since Mandel was “boosted” and “vaccinated,” his Covid-19 was mild in 2022, serving as a reminder that being afraid of illness is insufficient to keep you safe.
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“Daddy Has a Picture of Her”: Our Daughter Screamed during Family Dinner — The Truth Shocked Us
My little daughter was chattering excitedly about her new school and friends during dinner. Chirping about her new teacher, she exclaimed, “Daddy has a picture of her!” The blood drained from my face. What did my daughter’s teacher have to do with my husband? The truth I learned tore me apart.
It was a picture-perfect Thursday evening. We’d just moved to the new city two weeks ago, all thanks to my husband Jim’s new job.
Lily, our energetic seven-year-old, was chattering excitedly about her first day at school, her voice bubbling over with the thrill of new friendships.
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“And guess what, Mommy?” she chirped, reaching for a turkey drumstick.
“Amy and Chris were so nice! They even gave me their pencils after Amanda snatched mine.”
A smile tugged at my lips. “That’s wonderful, honey! Sounds like you’re making great friends already.”
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Just then, Lily’s smile faltered slightly. “Oh, and guess what, Mommy?” she chirped, her voice dropping a notch.
“When Ms. Willis came to class, I had a super long talk with her! By the way, Daddy has a picture of her in his study room!”
The blood drained from my face. My fork clattered onto the plate. “What? Whose picture?” I gasped.
“My Math teacher, Ms. Willis’s!” Lily chirped, taking a big scoop of icing, a dollop clinging to the tip of her nose.
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Jim, mid-sip of his pomegranate juice, choked violently, his eyes bulging in shock.
He coughed, sputtering juice onto the table. “What? Which picture?” he rasped, wiping his mouth with a napkin.
“Honey, are you okay?” I worriedly asked. Jim didn’t answer me and pressed Lily about the picture again.
An unsettling feeling gnawed at my gut. This picture Lily mentioned, what did it have to do with Jim?
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“The one in your drawer, Daddy!” Lily continued innocently. “Next to that funny-looking paperweight.”
My heart hammered against my ribs. “Can you show it to us after dinner, sweetie?” I managed, forcing a smile.
The rest of the meal was a blur. Every stolen glance at Jim who was nervous at this point only deepened the knot of worry in my stomach.
Once dinner was over, we followed Lily to Jim’s study room in the attic.
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I took a deep breath as she pointed to a framed picture tucked away in his drawer.
It was a picture of a woman with warm, kind eyes and a familiar dimple on her cheek, a dimple that mirrored the one on Jim’s face.
His face paled as he stared at the picture. “Is… is that your new teacher, Lily?” His voice trembled.
“Uh-huh,” Lily squeaked, tilting her head. “She seems nice, Daddy.”
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Jim’s hand shot up to clutch his chest. “What’s wrong, honey?” my eyes widened with concern.
“I… I need some air,” he mumbled, rushing out of the room.
Lily looked at me, confusion clouding her innocent eyes. “Mommy, is Daddy mad at me?”
I knelt before her, forcing a reassuring smile. “Honey, no one’s mad. Daddy’s just a little surprised, that’s all.”
But the truth was, I was surprised too, and a cold dread coiled in my stomach. What was this picture doing in Jim’s office? Who was this woman, and what connection did she have to my husband?
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That night, after putting Lily to bed, I confronted Jim.
He sat by the window, his face etched with pain and longing. I sat beside him, my hand reaching for his, silently asking for an explanation.
He met my gaze, his eyes filled with a sadness that mirrored the knot of worry in my stomach.
“Mary, I’m so sorry,” he shakily began. “I should’ve told you about this a long time ago.”
My heart hammered in my chest. “About what, Jim?”
He took a deep breath. “Remember how I told you I was adopted?”
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A memory surfaced. It had been years ago, during one of our first dates. Jim had confessed his past, his voice filled with a vulnerability that had drawn me to him even stronger.
“Yes,” I whispered, dread creeping into my voice. The picture of a happy family we’d been building together seemed to crack at the edges.
“Well,” his voice cracked slightly, “the day I found my new family was also the day I lost the only family I knew… my little sister, Jane.”
A gasp escaped my lips. “Oh, honey, I’m so sorry,” I murmured, pulling him into a hug. “How did she…?”
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“She didn’t die,” he interrupted. “We were just… separated. I was adopted and taken to Chicago, thousands of miles away from her. She was only five years old. I never saw Jane after that.”
“Never saw her?” I echoed.
Jim pulled back slightly, his eyes filled with desperate hope. “That’s why this picture…” he trailed off, gesturing towards the framed photo in his grasp. “I think it’s my sister Jane. I found it on social media years ago, but I wasn’t sure if it was really her. She had a different last name.”
“So why didn’t you tell me?” I asked. The revelation felt like a betrayal, a secret compartment of his life I hadn’t been privy to.
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Jim reached for my hand, his fingers intertwining with mine. “I was scared,” he confessed. “Scared you wouldn’t understand, scared it would change things between us.”
My anger softened, replaced by a wave of understanding. “Oh, Jim,” I sighed, leaning into his touch. “The only thing that changes is that we get to find her together.”
A flicker of relief danced in his eyes. “Really?”
“Absolutely,” I confirmed, squeezing his hand. “We’ll go to the school tomorrow and meet Ms. Willis.”
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The next afternoon, butterflies fluttered in my stomach as we pulled into the parking lot at Lily’s school. Jim, usually confident and charismatic, seemed a bundle of nerves, his hand tightening around mine into a white-knuckled grip.
“You okay?” I asked softly.
He took a deep breath. “Just a little anxious. What if it’s not her?”
“Then we keep searching,” I said with a determined smile. “But deep down, I have a feeling this is it.”
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We were ushered into the lobby, a sterile space filled with diplomas and framed awards. A few tense moments passed before a woman with kind eyes and a familiar dimple walked in.
“Ms. Willis, Mr. and Mrs. Thompson are here to see you,” the receptionist announced, her eyes flickering between us with a hint of curiosity.
Jim’s breath hitched. He just stood there, staring at Ms. Willis. She, on the other hand, remained composed, a polite smile gracing her lips.
“Hello,” she greeted, her voice warm and welcoming. “How can I help you?”
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Jim cleared his throat, mustering every ounce of his courage as he broke the silence.
“I… I think you might be my sister.”
The smile on Ms. Willis’s face vanished and her brow furrowed in confusion. “Excuse me? What do you mean?”
Jim reached into his pocket and pulled out the framed photo. His hand trembled slightly as he offered it to her. “I found this picture a few years ago. I’ve been searching for my sister Jane ever since. We were separated when we were kids. You… you were adopted, right?”
Ms. Willis’s eyes widened as she stared at the photo. Her face flushed red, and her hands began to tremble. “Yes, I was adopted,” she whispered. “But… I never knew I had a brother.”
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Tears welled up in Jim’s eyes. “We were separated when we were very young,” he explained. “I’ve been looking for you for so long. Even went back to the shelter, hoping to find you, but they told me you’d been adopted. I couldn’t find your adoptive parents’ address and…”
“Do you remember when and where you were born?” Jim asked, his gaze fixed on Ms. Willis, whose hands trembled slightly.
“May 20th, Greenfield,” she replied, her voice quivering. “The only thing I remember from my childhood is a raggedy teddy bear and my birth certificate.”
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A choked sob escaped Jim’s lips. He looked at me, his eyes filled with tears, and then back at Ms. Willis. “That’s it! I was born a year before you, in the same place! It has to be you, Jane. You are my sister!”
He turned to me, his voice filled with relief and joy. “We found her, Mary! We found her!”
Tears streamed down my face as I watched the reunion unfold. Years of longing, unspoken words, and unanswered questions seemed to hang heavy in the air.
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Finally, Ms. Willis broke the silence. “I can’t believe this!” she sobbed. “I always felt like something was missing all my life. But I never knew…”
Jim reached out and squeezed her hand. “I’ve missed you every day, Jane. I can’t believe I finally found you.”
They clung to each other, their tears speaking volumes of the years they’d spent apart. Even the receptionist, a stoic woman who’d witnessed countless schoolyard dramas, dabbed her eyes with a tissue.
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“Jim,” Ms. Willis sniffled, pulling back from the embrace and wiping the tears from her cheeks. “Thanks for not giving up on me.”
Jim’s eyes welled up with tears. “I promised myself I’d find you, Jane,” he choked out. “And here we are!”
He fumbled in his pocket and pulled out a worn photo. It showed two young children, a boy with a gap-toothed grin and a girl with a head full of messy curls, both clutching a well-loved teddy bear.
Ms. Willis’s breath hitched. Tears misted her eyes as she pointed at the little girl. “That’s me!” she whispered.
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Jim nodded, a tear rolling down his cheek. “And that’s me,” he tearfully giggled. “We were inseparable back then.”
Silence fell again, heavy with unspoken memories. Finally, Ms. Willis took a deep breath. “This is incredible,” she said. “But I still can’t believe it. How did you find me?”
Jim explained his online search and the lucky chance encounter with the picture on social media. Ms. Willis, in turn, shared how she’d always felt a yearning for something more, a missing piece of her past.
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“I never knew about a brother,” she confided. “My adoptive parents never mentioned it.”
“Maybe they didn’t know themselves,” I offered gently. “Adoption records weren’t always kept meticulously back then.”
A thoughtful look crossed Ms. Willis’s face. “Maybe,” she conceded. “But this doesn’t change anything, does it?” She looked at Jim, a hopeful glint in her eyes.
Jim shook his head, a wide smile breaking through his tears. “No, Jane. This changes everything. For the better. We are not orphans anymore!”
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They talked for a while longer, catching up on lost years. I learned that Ms. Willis was a teacher, married with two young children. Jim, meanwhile, filled her in on our life together and Lily.
The school bell rang, jolting us back to reality. Ms. Willis looked at her watch, her smile apologetic. “I have special classes, but…” she trailed off, her gaze flickering between Jim and me.
“We understand,” I said warmly. “But maybe we could all have lunch together sometime soon? We’d love to meet your family.”
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Ms. Willis’s eyes lit up. “That would be amazing! Let me give you my number.”
We exchanged contact information, the promise of future connections hanging in the air.
As we left the school, Lily was waiting for us by the car, bouncing on the balls of her feet. When she saw us approaching, she raced forward, her eyes sparkling with curiosity.
“Did you see Ms. Willis, Mommy?” she chirped. “Is she nice?”
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I knelt before her, a smile gracing my lips. “She’s the nicest,” I assured her. “And guess what? Ms. Willis is actually your aunt Jane!”
Lily’s eyes widened in surprise. “My aunt?” she echoed.
“That’s right,” Jim confirmed, picking her up in a hug. “And you have two new little cousins too!”
Lily giggled, a look of pure delight spreading across her face. The prospect of a new aunt, cousins, and family gatherings filled her with childish excitement.
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As we drove home, the setting sun casting a warm glow on the road ahead, I glanced at Jim. His face, etched with years of longing, now held a newfound peace.
“Wow,” he sighed, a wide smile spreading across his face. “We actually found her!”
“We did!” I confirmed, returning his smile. “And she seems amazing.”
That very instant, I realized that our family, though a bit unconventional, had grown a little bigger. And with that growth came a promise of new adventures, shared laughter, and a love that transcended time and distance.
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