I Was the Only One from My Family Who Wasn’t Invited to My Cousin’s Wedding—When I Learned Why, I Lost It

Everyone in my family was invited to my cousin’s wedding — except me. I showed up anyway, thinking it was a mistake. But when my cousin pulled me aside and told me the real reason she didn’t want me there… I swear, I’ve never felt anything hit me like that.

I stared at my reflection in the full-length mirror, smoothing down the lilac fabric of my new dress. The subtle sparkles caught the light as I turned, a small smile playing on my lips. For once, I felt pretty and wanted.

Portrait of a gorgeous woman in a lilac dress | Source: Midjourney

Portrait of a gorgeous woman in a lilac dress | Source: Midjourney

“Kylie, are you ready?” Mom called from downstairs. “We need to leave in 10 minutes!”

“Almost!” I shouted back, giving my curled hair one final spritz of hairspray.

This was Debra’s big day. She was my cousin, my childhood best friend, and practically my sister growing up. I couldn’t wait to see her walk down the aisle.

My phone buzzed with a text from my sister, Emma.

“Already at the venue. Where are you guys?”

I typed back quickly: “On our way. Save me a seat!”

Little did I know, there wouldn’t be a seat for me at all.

A delighted woman looking at her phone | Source: Midjourney

A delighted woman looking at her phone | Source: Midjourney

“You look beautiful, sweetie,” Dad said as I descended the stairs. “That dress is worth every penny of your babysitting money.”

I twirled, feeling the fabric swish around my knees. “Thanks, Dad. I wanted to look nice for Debra’s photos.”

Mom smiled, ushering us toward the door. “Let’s go celebrate her wedding!”

“I can’t believe Debra is actually getting married,” I said, sliding into the backseat of our sedan. “Seems like just yesterday we were playing dress-up with her mom’s clothes.”

“You girls grew up too fast,” Mom sighed, adjusting her necklace in the rearview mirror. “Time flies.”

Dad turned the key in the ignition. “Let’s make some new memories today.”

If only he knew what kind of memories we’d be making.

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A man driving a car | Source: Pexels

The venue was stunning. A renovated barn with fairy lights strung across wooden beams, and white roses and baby’s breath adorned every surface. Guests in formal wear milled about, champagne flutes in hand.

I spotted my brother, Ryan, near the entrance and waved.

“Hey, sis,” he said, ruffling my hair. “You look nice.”

I swatted his hand away. “Don’t mess up my curls! I spent forever on them.”

“Have you seen Debra yet?” Mom asked.

Ryan shook his head. “Emma’s with the bridal party. I think they’re in some room in the back.”

I fidgeted with excitement. “I’m going to say hi before the ceremony.”

An excited woman in a wedding venue | Source: Midjourney

An excited woman in a wedding venue | Source: Midjourney

I weaved through clusters of guests, smiling politely at distant relatives and strangers alike. The hallway to the bridal suite was quiet, away from the growing crowd. I smoothed my dress one more time before knocking.

A bridesmaid I didn’t recognize opened the door, her perfectly contoured face registering confusion. “Yes?”

“I’m Kylie, Debra’s cousin. Is she in there?”

The girl turned. “Deb, your cousin is here.”

There was a pause, then Debra appeared in the doorway. She looked breathtaking in her white gown, her hair swept up elegantly. But when her eyes met mine, her smile faded.

“Kylie? What are you doing here?”

The question hit me like a slap. “What do you mean? I came for your wedding.”

A shocked bride | Source: Midjourney

A shocked bride | Source: Midjourney

Her eyes darted past me, then she stepped into the hallway, pulling the door closed behind her.

“Why did you come?” she asked in a low voice.

I blinked, confused. “What do you mean? The invitation was for the family. I thought I was —”

“I didn’t invite you.”

The words hung between us, sharp and cold.

“What… why?”

Before she could answer, footsteps approached, and a handsome man in a tuxedo appeared. It was Brian, the groom. His face lit up when he saw me.

“Hey! So glad you came! Debra told me you couldn’t make it. Nice surprise!”

I looked at him, then at Debra, whose face had gone pale.

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A man smiling | Source: Midjourney

“Brian, can you give us a second?” she asked nervously.

He shrugged, leaned in to kiss her cheek, and walked away whistling.

Debra turned back to me, her arms crossed. “Like you don’t know?”

“Know what? Debra, what are you talking about?”

She sighed heavily, glancing around to make sure no one was listening.

“When Brian’s family first saw pictures of you… the Christmas party ones? They kept asking who you were. Said you were so young and beautiful, asked if you were a model. When I said you were also studying engineering and acing it, they were even more impressed.”

I stared at her, uncomprehending. This couldn’t be happening.

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A stunned woman | Source: Midjourney

“And then his mother said, ‘Are you sure she’s the cousin and not the bride? I smiled through it, but I was dying inside. I wanted them to focus on ME. On MY engagement. Not YOU.”

“You didn’t invite me because… because you thought I’d look better than you?”

“You wouldn’t understand. You’ve always been the pretty and smart one. Everything comes easy to you.”

“Easy? You think my life is easy? I work my butt off for my grades. And pretty? I’ve spent most of high school feeling invisible!”

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A distressed woman looking at someone with disbelief | Source: Midjourney

“Well, you’re not invisible to Brian’s family,” she snapped. “I didn’t want you to come and… steal the spotlight, okay? I didn’t want you to outshine me on my own wedding day.”

The unfairness of it all crashed over me. All this time I thought we were growing apart because she was busy with college, Brian, and her adult life. But it was jealousy… over things I couldn’t even control.

“So that’s why you’ve been so distant? Because you’re jealous? I thought we were family.”

“We are. But you wouldn’t understand.”

“No, I don’t. I don’t understand how you could exclude only me from your wedding. How you could let me get dressed up, excited to celebrate you, only to tell me I’m not wanted because I might what? Be too pretty? Too smart? What did you tell everyone else about why I wasn’t invited?”

An emotionally overwhelmed woman | Source: Midjourney

An emotionally overwhelmed woman | Source: Midjourney

“I said you had a conflict,” she mumbled. “A school thing.”

I shook my head in disbelief. “That’s messed up, Debra.”

A tear slipped down my cheek. I wiped it away, careful not to smudge my mascara. “If you feel better without me here, I’ll leave. I didn’t mean to make your day harder. But I never thought being me would make you feel so small. That breaks my heart more than anything.”

Debra’s eyes welled up, and before I could step back, she pulled me into a hug.

“I’m sorry. I just… I let my insecurity get the best of me. I’ve been so stressed about this wedding and fitting in with Brian’s family. They’re all so perfect and polished… and I feel like I’m not good enough.”

A guilty bride | Source: Midjourney

A guilty bride | Source: Midjourney

I stood stiffly in her embrace, unsure how to respond. Part of me wanted to forgive her immediately because this was Debra, who had braided my hair and taught me how to dance. But another part felt deeply wounded.

“You hurt me. I thought I did something wrong. I’ve been wracking my brain trying to figure out why you’ve been avoiding me all these years. You were still chatty with my siblings like always… but with me, it was like you flipped a switch.”

“I know. I’m sorry. Please stay. Please.”

“Are you sure? What about Brian’s family?”

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A sad woman | Source: Midjourney

“Screw what they think,” she said, a flash of the old Debra returning. “You’re my family. I want you here. I’ve been so stupid. Please forgive me… please.”

A bridesmaid poked her head out. “Deb, it’s almost time.”

Debra nodded, then turned back to me. “Will you stay?”

I looked at her, surrounded by luxury, about to marry the man she loved, and still somehow insecure.

“I’ll stay. Not because you asked me to, but because I choose to. For us.”

“Thank you. I need to finish getting ready, but… we’ll talk more later?”

“Go. Be a bride. I’ll be cheering for you.”

She smiled, a real smile this time, before disappearing back into the bridal suite.

A relieved and emotional bride | Source: Midjourney

A relieved and emotional bride | Source: Midjourney

I leaned against the wall, taking deep breaths. What a mess. But at least now I knew the truth.

***

The ceremony was beautiful. I sat with my parents, watching as Debra and Brian exchanged vows beneath an arch of white roses. When they were pronounced husband and wife, I cheered as loudly as anyone.

At the reception, I kept to myself, nursing a glass of sparkling cider near the edge of the dance floor. My brother found me there.

“Why the long face?” Ryan asked, bumping my shoulder with his. “Wedding food not up to your standards?”

I forced a smile. “Just tired.”

“Liar. What’s going on?”

A suspicious man | Source: Midjourney

A suspicious man | Source: Midjourney

I sighed, knowing he wouldn’t let it go. “Did you know Debra didn’t actually invite me?”

Ryan’s eyebrows shot up. “What? Of course she did.”

“No, she didn’t. She only invited you guys. I was supposed to be excluded.”

“But why would she —”

“Because I’m too pretty, apparently,” I said sarcastically. “Brian’s family saw pictures of me and made some comments, and Debra got jealous.”

“That’s ridiculous.”

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A shattered woman running her hand through her hair | Source: Midjourney

“Yeah, well.” I shrugged, trying to seem unbothered. “We talked it out. Sort of.”

“Are you okay?”

I looked across the room to where Debra was laughing with her husband. “I will be. It just… hurts.”

“Want me to go spill some wine on her dress?” Ryan offered, only half-joking.

That made me laugh genuinely. “No. But thanks for the offer.”

“That’s what big brothers are for.” He squeezed my shoulder. “Want to dance? I promise to step on your toes only minimally.”

“Maybe later,” I said. “I think I need some air.”

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An anxious woman lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney

I slipped outside, the cool evening air a relief after the crowded reception hall. I was about to find a quiet spot to sit when a voice stopped me.

“You must be Kylie.”

I turned to see an elegant older woman in a designer dress, her silver hair styled impeccably.

“Yes, I am,” I replied cautiously.

She smiled. “I’m Eleanor, Brian’s mother. I’ve heard so much about you.”

I bet you have, I thought.

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A smiling older woman | Source: Midjourney

“Your cousin is lovely,” she continued. “Brian adores her. We’re so pleased to welcome her to our family.”

“Debra’s amazing,” I agreed, meaning it despite everything. “She and Brian seem very happy together.”

Eleanor nodded, studying me with interest. “You know, when I first saw your picture, I told Debra you could be a model.”

And there it was. I swallowed hard. “That’s very kind, but I’m focusing on software engineering. I’m starting college in the fall.”

“Engineering! How impressive. Beauty and brains. Your parents must be very proud.”

“I hope so,” I said, uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation.

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A software engineer at work | Source: Unsplash

“I must say,” Eleanor continued, “you’ve handled yourself with such grace today. Not many young women would be so mature.”

I stared at her, confused. “What do you mean?”

She lowered her voice. “I know my son’s wife didn’t originally include you in the festivities. I overheard them arguing about it weeks ago.” She touched my arm. “You have such grace, dear. I admire that.”

So she knew. They all knew. Somehow, that made it both better and worse.

“Thank you,” I managed. “Debra and I… we’ve been close our whole lives. I want her to be happy.”

“Well, I’m glad you’re here, dear. It wouldn’t be a proper family celebration without you.”

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A delighted older lady | Source: Midjourney

I stood frozen as she walked away, processing her words. This woman, who had unintentionally caused the rift between Debra and me, had just given me more validation than my own cousin.

As I moved to the dance floor and joined by my siblings and parents, I realized something important: we all have our insecurities and moments of weakness. Even people who seem to have it all together. The real test isn’t whether we mess up… it’s what we do afterward.

It wasn’t about outshining anyone or being outshone. It was about standing tall without stepping on anyone else. About being secure enough in your own light that you don’t fear someone else’s brightness.

And Debra? She learned that the people who love you the most will only ever want to see you shine… even if it’s not their turn in the spotlight.

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An emotional woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

My Husband Called to Say His ‘Poor Mom’ Was in Trouble and Needed to Stay with Us for a While – Then She Walked Out of a Black Bentley with a Luxury Bag

What do you do when your husband’s “broke” mom rolls up in a Bentley, dripping in designer labels, and declares she’s moving in? I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or scream — but let me tell you, I should’ve braced myself for the chaos that followed.

Have you ever opened your door to someone claiming to be broke, only for them to show up dripping in designer labels? Because when my husband’s “poor mom” walked out of a Bentley holding a Chanel tote, I knew I was in for the ride of my life.

It all started with a phone call one afternoon

“Hey, babe,” Dan said, his voice unusually strained, the kind of tone that instantly told me something was wrong.

“What’s up?” I asked, already bracing myself.

He hesitated for a moment, then let out a long sigh. “I just got off the phone with Mom. She’s… uh… having a really hard time right now. She lost her place and doesn’t have anywhere to go. I told her she could stay with us for a while.”

I nearly dropped my fork. “Wait. What? YOUR MOM IS BROKE??”

Dan’s voice softened, like he was trying to cushion the blow. “Yeah. She didn’t want to tell me at first, but apparently, she’s been struggling with money for a while. She’s embarrassed, Layla. And she wants to move in with us.”

I sat back in my chair, my sandwich suddenly unappetizing. “Irene? Struggling with money?” I asked, my words dripping with disbelief. “Dan, we’re talking about the same Irene who bought a $500 scarf because, what was it, she ‘needed something to brighten her mood’? That Irene is… BROKE?!”

He groaned. “I know it’s hard to believe, okay? But people go through tough times. She’s still human, Layla.”

I wasn’t buying it. “Did she even tell you what happened?” I asked.

“No. She didn’t want to get into it. She sounded upset. Look, I know she’s not your favorite person, but she’s my mom. I can’t just leave her out in the cold.”

I rubbed my temples, trying to make sense of what he was saying. “Dan, I’m not saying we shouldn’t help her, but don’t you think this is all a little… sudden? How do you go from flaunting Louis Vuitton bags on Instagram to being homeless overnight?”

“She’s too proud to admit how bad things are,” he said, the frustration in his voice bubbling to the surface. “Layla, she’s my mom. What was I supposed to do… tell her no?”

I sighed, torn between suspicion and guilt. Dan wasn’t wrong. Irene and I didn’t exactly have a warm and fuzzy relationship. But she was his mom. What could I say?

“Okay,” I said reluctantly. “She can stay in the guest room. But, Dan…”

“What?” he asked, a hint of impatience in his tone.

“Just… promise me you’ll keep your eyes open. Something about this doesn’t feel right. And it’s just a temporary arrangement, alright?”

He let out another sigh, softer this time. “Thank you,” he said. “I know this means a lot to her. And to me.”

“Yeah,” I muttered, glancing at the clock. “I just hope we’re not opening Pandora’s box.”

Dan chuckled nervously, but neither of us really laughed.

As I hung up the phone, something about the whole situation didn’t sit right with me. And I had a feeling I wasn’t wrong.

The next day, Irene arrived. And let me tell you — if there was ever a way to scream NOT STRUGGLING, she nailed it.

I heard the rumble of a car pulling into our driveway and glanced out the window, expecting to see a cab or maybe an Uber. Instead, a sleek black Bentley rolled in like it was gliding on air, the glossy paint practically reflecting the entire neighborhood.

“What the…?? Oh my God! ” I whispered to myself, craning my neck to get a better look.

The driver stepped out first, rushing to open the back door with a flourish. And there she was: IRENE. She emerged like a movie star on a red carpet, her tailored trench coat cinched perfectly at the waist, oversized sunglasses perched on her nose, and a Chanel tote dangling off her arm like it was the crown jewel.

I blinked, trying to process the scene unfolding in front of me. Is this real? Am I being pranked? Dan told me she was… broke.

My husband stepped outside, clearly unfazed, his face lighting up as Irene threw her arms around him dramatically.

“Oh, my sweet boy,” she cooed, her voice dripping with affection. “You’ve saved me! I don’t know what I would’ve done without you.”

I stood frozen in the doorway, my mouth hanging open like I’d forgotten how to speak. This was not the image of someone who had “lost her place.”

Behind her, the driver unloaded three massive Louis Vuitton suitcases, setting them down on the driveway like she was checking into a five-star resort.

Irene brushed past me into the house without even glancing in my direction, her heels clicking confidently on the floor. “Ah, this will do,” she said, glancing around the living room like a realtor inspecting a property.

“Uh, welcome,” I finally managed, my voice laced with disbelief.

Dan followed her inside, rubbing the back of his neck like he was trying to make sense of it all. “Maybe she… uh… borrowed the car?” he offered weakly, glancing at me with an awkward smile.

I crossed my arms, raising an eyebrow. “Right! Because that’s what broke people do. Borrow Bentleys.”

Dan’s cheeks flushed slightly. “I’m sure there’s an explanation.”

“Uh-huh,” I muttered, my eyes trailing to the three designer suitcases now sitting in the hallway. “And what about those? Let me guess… she borrowed those too?”

Dan let out a nervous laugh, but it didn’t make the suspicion in my chest any lighter. “Layla, come on. Don’t overthink it,” he said.

“Overthink it? Dan, your mom shows up in a Bentley, carrying Louis Vuitton luggage, acting like she’s royalty, and you don’t think that’s worth questioning?”

“She’s had a tough time,” he said defensively, his tone firming up.

“A tough time?” I repeated, gesturing to the suitcases. “Dan, this doesn’t look like someone who’s had a ‘tough time.’ It looks like someone who’s about to rent a villa in the Hamptons.”

Before Dan could respond, Irene reappeared in the living room, her sunglasses now perched on her head. “Where’s the guest room, darling?” she asked sweetly, ignoring the tension between us.

Dan motioned down the hall. “It’s the last door on the left, Mom. I’ll help you with your bags.”

“Oh, don’t trouble yourself, sweetie,” she said, waving him off. “That’s what the driver is for. Tony, bring the bags inside!”

I watched, stunned, as the driver nodded obediently and began hauling the suitcases into the house. Dan gave me a small shrug, as if to say, “What can I do? She’s my mom.”

Yeah, right! I bit my tongue, forcing myself to stay calm. But as Irene disappeared down the hall, I leaned closer to Dan and whispered, “You’d better hope there’s an explanation for all of this. Because if there isn’t, I’m going to lose it.”

He just smiled and hurried to work.

That evening, after Irene had retired to the guest room, I called Dan.

“Dan, are you seriously not questioning any of this? She shows up in a Bentley, with designer bags, acting like she’s on a vacation. Does that scream ‘homeless’ to you?”

He sighed, like he’d been through a long day. “She probably bought that stuff before things got bad, Layla. You know how proud she is. She’s not going to sell her things just because she’s struggling.”

As I spoke, an odd clinking noise came from the kitchen. I paused, lowering the phone. “Hang on,” I said, my brows furrowing as I followed the sound.

When I stepped into the doorway, I froze. Irene was standing over the trash can, breaking our plates one by one and tossing the shards inside like it was no big deal.

“What are you doing?” I demanded, disbelief lacing every word. “I thought you were in your room. And why are you breaking the plates?”

She turned to me with an exasperated expression, as if I were the unreasonable one. “These plates are awful,” she said, holding up a cracked piece like it was evidence. “Cheap, scratched, and completely unworthy of my son. Dan deserves to eat off something better. Don’t worry, honey… we’re going to buy new ones.”

Before I could protest, she just walked away to her room. I was LIVID.

When Dan returned, I grabbed his arm and pulled him aside. “Do you know what your mother just did?” I asked, narrowing my eyes at him.

He frowned, clearly caught off guard. “She broke our plates — every single one — because she said they weren’t ‘worthy of you.’ She tossed the pieces into the trash like it was no big deal!”

Dan rubbed the back of his neck awkwardly, his expression somewhere between uncomfortable and defensive. “I mean… maybe she’s just trying to help?”

“Help? By smashing our plates?”

“She probably just wants to replace them with something nicer,” he said sheepishly, avoiding my gaze. “You know how she is… she only wants the best for me.”

“The best for you? Dan, she’s treating this house like it’s a makeover show, and you’re seriously okay with that?”

He shrugged weakly. “I don’t think she means any harm, Layla. Maybe you’re reading too much into it.”

“Unbelievable,” I muttered, shaking my head as I turned to leave. There was no point in arguing with Dan.

He rubbed his forehead like he had a headache. “Layla, can you just… can you give her a little space? She’s going through a tough time. She needs a little comfort right now. Just… let her settle in.”

“Let her settle in? Sure, Dan. Let’s just let her redecorate our whole lives!”

Dan didn’t respond. And honestly, I wasn’t sure I wanted to hear what he had to say.

Over the next week, things only got stranger. Irene filled the guest room and bathroom with her luxury skincare products. Every corner of the house seemed to smell like something expensive — rosewater mist here, lavender-infused whatever there.

Then came the packages. Chanel. Gucci. Prada. Box after box piled up on our doorstep, each one more outrageous than the last.

When I finally asked her about them, she waved me off with a dismissive flick of her hand. “Oh, just some things I ordered a while back,” she said lightly, as if ordering thousands of dollars’ worth of designer goods was no big deal.

That was it. I couldn’t take it anymore. If she was truly “broke,” then where was all the money coming from? Something about this didn’t add up.

The next morning, Irene left the house around 10 a.m., claiming she was meeting a friend for coffee. “Don’t wait up for me, darling,” she’d said with a wink, strolling out the door like she owned the place.

I waited exactly two minutes before grabbing my keys and following her.

She drove straight to an upscale country club. I parked a few spaces away, watching as she stepped out of the Bentley with the same air of confidence she’d had when she arrived at our house.

A man in a sharp, tailored suit greeted her by the entrance. He leaned in, kissed her cheek, and the two of them laughed like old friends sharing an inside joke.

My hands trembled as I snapped a few pictures on my phone. Who was this guy? And what the hell was Irene doing?

I sat in the car for a moment, staring at the photos. My heart raced, and my stomach churned. Whatever was going on, it wasn’t good. When Irene returned that afternoon, Dan and I were waiting for her in the living room.

“So,” I said, holding up my phone, “care to explain why you’re meeting rich men at country clubs while we’re housing you for free?”

Her face went pale. “You… you followed me?”

“Answer the question, Irene.”

She sighed dramatically, sinking into the couch. “Fine,” she said, throwing up her hands. “I’ll tell you the truth. I was so lonely after my husband died. I was looking for some… you know, adventure. I found someone. He was young, handsome, and adorable. I spent a huge chunk of my savings on him. He promised me excitement and a future, but he left me for someone else. I was devastated… and I wanted to get back on my feet.”

I crossed my arms, narrowing my eyes. “And the man you met today?”

“That’s Henry,” she said defensively. “He’s wealthy and interested in me. He’s helping me get back on my feet. He’s been sending me gifts and he really likes me. I just wanted Henry to believe I was completely broke… you know…”

Dan stared at her, his jaw tightening. “So you’re not broke. You just didn’t want to use your own money while figuring out your next move?”

Irene’s lips pressed into a thin line. “You don’t understand. I only came here to help you, Dan. You deserve better. Someone from the same financial class as us. Together, we could’ve rebuilt our status.”

I felt the air leave my lungs. “You were planning to push me out??”

Irene didn’t say a word. Her silence was all the confirmation I needed.

Dan’s voice cut through the tension like a knife. “Mom,” he said, standing up and looking her dead in the eye, “you need to leave. Tomorrow. Go live with Henry if he’s so interested in helping you.”

“Dan, don’t be ridiculous,” she started, but he raised a hand to stop her.

“I’m done, Mom. I trusted you. But you crossed the line.”

The next day, she left with her suitcases, her chin held high and a look of pure disdain etched across her face.

A week later, Irene called Dan in tears. Turns out Henry was married, and his wife had found out. He’d dumped her, leaving her high and dry. I couldn’t help but laugh when Dan told me.

“Karma sure works fast, huh?” I said, scrolling through Irene’s Instagram.

Her posts were filled with captions like, “Embracing the simple life” and “Finding beauty in humility.” Meanwhile, I knew she was selling her designer bags just to cover the rent on her modest condo.

Dan shook his head, a small smile tugging at his lips. “You know, she kind of brought this on herself.”

I grinned, raising my coffee mug in a mock toast. “Here’s to Irene,” I said. “May she finally learn the difference between humility and Chanel.”

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