Only weeks after Millie Smith and Lewis Cann learned they were having twin baby girls, they learned that only one would survive.
On April 30, after 30 weeks of a high-risk pregnancy, Smith delivered identical twins, Callie and Skye, the latter who lived only three hours.
Later in neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), Callie slept without her sister in the incubator, with her loving and grieving parents watching over her. In the unit with other babies, an overwhelmed mom of healthy newborn twins innocently told Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have two babies.
Crushed by the words, the new mom couldn’t find the words to explain her loss. Then, she realized that Skye’s legacy was to help other families who lose a child, and it came in the form of a purple butterfly.
In November 2015 Millie Smith and partner Lewis Cann found out they were having their first Child. Smith, who has twins in the family, said she had a “gut feeling” about having a duo and 10 weeks later, doctors confirmed she was expecting identical twin girls.
Less than two weeks after the excitement of knowing they would double the children in their home, the British couple were devastated to learn that one of their babies had a fatal condition and wouldn’t survive after birth.
“During the scan, the doctor didn’t say anything. I was very excited and loved seeing the little babies, but she was silent. Both Lewis and I immediately knew there must be a problem,” Smith said.
Doctors shared the news that one of the babies had anencephaly, which according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) affects about one in 4,600 babies across the U.S. It’s a serious birth defect where a baby is born without parts of the brain and skull, and “almost all babies born with anencephaly will die shortly after birth.”
Knowing that one baby would die soon after birth, and that there were risks involved for their other baby, the couple decided to move forward with the extremely high-risk pregnancy.
Over the next several months, Smith and Cann named their twins Skye and Callie. “We knew that Skye needed to have a name before she was born,” Smith said. “Knowing she would only survive for seconds or minutes, I wanted her to be named during that time.”
The meaning behind “Skye,” she explained “was somewhere we knew she would always be, that we could look up at the sky and remember our baby.”
When Smith went into labor after only 30 weeks on April 30, she needed an emergency C-section. To help navigate the loss, the couple had a “bereavement midwife” during the birth, and they were put I a special room the called the “Daisy Room,” where families can spend time with a baby before and after she/he passes.
“When the girls were born, they both cried. This was a huge moment, as we were told that Skye would not make a noise or move,” said Smith, who was thankful to have three hours with Skye before she died. “We were cuddling Skye when she passed away. This was the worst moment in our lives. I have never ever felt heartbreak like that before. But I am proud that she fought for so long to spend time with us.”
Born premature, Callie had to stay in NICU while she gained some strength and also in the unit were three other sets of twin.
“Most of the nurses were aware of what had happened, but as time passed, people stopped talking about Skye. After about four weeks, everyone acted as though nothing had happened, meaning the families around me had no idea about our situation,” Smith recalled.
One morning, a stressed mother whose twins were also in NICU, harmlessly said to Smith that she was “so lucky” to not have twins.
“None of the other parents knew what had happened or anything about Skye. The comment was completely innocent and more out of humor…They weren’t to know that I did at one point have two.” Smith continued, “But the comment nearly broke me. I ran out [of] the room in tears and they had no idea why. I didn’t have the heart to tell them what had happened. A simple sticker would have avoided that entire situation.”
It was in that moment Smith realized she had to create something that would speak for parents who had just lost a baby, ensuring the misunderstanding never happens again.
She designed a poster for the NICU explaining both hospital personnel and visitors that any incubator with a purple butterfly on it means that one or more babies, in a set of multiples were lost.
“I chose butterflies, as I felt it was fitting to remember the babies that flew away, the color purple because it is suitable for both boys or girls,” said Smith.
The purple butterfly concept–now under the Skye High Foundation–has spread to hospitals in several countries around the world.
Callie is now a lively, happy seven-year-old, and twin’s memory lives in purple butterfly cards along with other initiatives to help families with babies like Skye all over the world. The purple butterflies now come in numerous forms, like ornaments, cards, blankets, stuffed animals and more.
“Ultimately I will never be able to stop this from happening but the more support groups we can set up and put things in place like the stickers the better it will be. It’s the hardest thing anyone has to deal with,” Smith said.
My 5-Year-Old Wants to Invite ‘The Lady Who Visits Dad While Mom’s at Work’ to Her Birthday Party
When I asked my daughter who else she wanted to invite to her birthday party and she casually named a woman I’d never heard of, I felt my world tilt. I met the woman a week later, and my life would never be the same.
My husband, Jake, and I have been together for ten years, married for seven. He’s a great guy—kind, hardworking, and a little scatterbrained, but I never had any reason to doubt him until recently.
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Earlier this year, Jake lost his job. While he’s been job hunting, I’ve been pulling long, full-time hours at work to keep things running smoothly. It’s been tough, but we’ve made it work. Our five-year-old daughter, Ellie, loves spending extra time with him.
To her, Jake is her hero.
Life seemed normal enough… until last week.
Ellie’s birthday was coming up, and we were in full planning mode. As I sat with her one evening to finish the guest list, she caught me completely off guard.
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I asked her to tell me who else she wanted to invite besides her friends and family members.
“Mommy, can I invite the pretty lady who comes to visit Daddy while you’re at work?” she asked.
I froze mid-sip of my coffee, trying to stay calm. “The pretty lady who visits Daddy? What lady, sweetie?”
Ellie grinned, completely oblivious to the storm brewing in my chest.
“Yeah, the one with the long hair! She’s so nice! She says Daddy is kind, and she always gives him a big hug when she leaves. Can she come? Please?”
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I struggled to keep my voice steady despite my heart sinking.
“Sure, honey. Why don’t you invite her next time she’s here?”
Ellie beamed. “Okay! I will! Thanks, Mommy!”
That night, I barely slept. My mind swirled with questions, doubts, and a growing unease. Jake had never given me a reason to doubt him before, but Ellie’s innocent comment planted seeds of suspicion. Who was this “pretty lady”? A friend? A neighbor? Or worse, someone I had never even heard of?
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I also contemplated that my five-year-old might be imagining things, even though this did seem a bit extreme to have been made up. I decided not to confront my husband, and I made sure the stranger came to Ellie’s party because I wanted to see how things would play out.
The next evening, I decided to get more information. Over dinner, while my husband went to the bathroom, I casually asked Ellie, “Did you invite the pretty lady to your party?”
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“Yep! She said she’d come for sure!” Ellie chirped, happily munching on her cereal.
I nearly dropped my glass of water, but by the time my husband returned, we’d moved on to a different conversation. I didn’t want him to find out about his secret guest and prevent us from meeting.
The day of the party arrived, and I was a bundle of nerves. The party started like any other, with friends and family filling our living room, kids running around with balloons, and Ellie over the moon. I tried to stay focused on hosting, but my eyes kept darting to the front door, half-expecting the mysterious visitor to show up.
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An hour into the party, the doorbell rang. My stomach dropped. Jake was in the backyard helping Ellie with her cake, so I went to answer it. Standing on the porch was a young woman, maybe in her early twenties.
She had long dark hair and a shy smile, and she held a small gift bag in her hands.
“Hi, I’m Lila,” she said softly. “I’m here for Ellie’s party.”
Ellie came running to the door at that very moment, her face lighting up.
“It’s her! Mommy, it’s her! Daddy’s friend!”
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I stood frozen, trying to piece together what I was seeing, but managed to stammer out, “Oh! Uh… please come in.”
Ellie grabbed the woman’s hand and pulled her inside. She dragged Lila over to Jake, who went pale the second he saw her. He opened his mouth, closed it, and then sighed like a man walking to his doom.
“Lila,” he said, his voice low and uneasy. “I didn’t… I didn’t think you’d actually come.”
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“We need to talk,” I said, trying to keep my voice calm but firm. Jake nodded, clearly defeated, and led Lila and me into the kitchen, away from the chaos.
“Lee, please go play with your new toys with your school friends and cousins,” I dismissed our daughter to the backyard.
“Come on, Chantal! I’ll show you my new toys!” Ellie said, grabbing the hand of a little girl standing close by eating an ice cream cone. Meanwhile, the young woman looked awkward and out of place but followed Jake and me into the kitchen.
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The tension in the air was thick as Lila nervously fidgeted with the gift bag.
“I didn’t mean to cause trouble,” she began. “I just thought it would be nice to meet everyone, and Ellie invited me.”
“Who are you exactly?” I asked, my voice sharp despite my attempt to stay composed.
Lila glanced at Jake, who looked like he wanted to disappear. “I’m… Jake’s daughter.”
The words hit me like a freight train. “What?”
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Lila tried explaining everything while my husband looked like he wanted to disappear into the floor. But when he finally spoke, his voice was barely above a whisper.
“Lila’s my daughter from before I met you. I didn’t know about her until a few months ago. Her mom never told me or her. Before she passed away earlier this year, she told Lila about me, and she tracked me and found me a few months ago. She introduced herself while you were at work. She wanted to meet her dad.”
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“When she told me who she was, I didn’t believe her at first,” Jake admitted, looking sheepish. “I mean, it came out of nowhere. So I… I asked her for a DNA test.”
Lila nodded and showed me a copy of the paternity papers via her email.
“I understood his need for proof. It wasn’t easy to hear, but I brought a test when I came back the next time, and it’s true, he’s my dad,” she replied.
I scanned the document, my hands trembling. It was undeniable. I stared at him, stunned. “And you didn’t think to tell me?”
A shocked woman holding a phone | Source: Midjourney
“I didn’t know how,” he admitted, rubbing the back of his neck. “I was still processing it myself. I didn’t want to drop this on you until I was sure… or at least thought things through.”
“Okay,” I said, trying to steady my breathing. “But why does Ellie know about her?”
Jake looked sheepish. “Lila’s been visiting while you’re at work. She wanted to get to know the family, and Ellie… well, Ellie’s Ellie. She loves everyone.”
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“So your plan was to just… not tell me? Let a five-year-old do it for you?” I asked, my voice rising.
Jake flinched. “I know. I messed up. I just didn’t want to make things harder for you.”
Lila stepped forward, her eyes pleading.
“I’m really sorry. I never meant to cause problems. I just wanted to meet my dad and his family. Your daughter is such a sweet kid. She even showed me her drawings.”
“It’s okay, Lila. You can go join the party. Jake and I will wrap things up.”
A woman at a birthday party | Source: Midjourney
I sighed, overwhelmed but starting to see the bigger picture. Lila wasn’t some “other woman.” She was a young woman searching for family after losing her mom. And Jake, for all his flaws, was just trying to navigate a situation he’d never anticipated.
During our long conversation, the three of us had talked for what felt like hours. Lila shared stories about her life, her mom, and how she found Jake. My husband apologized profusely and repeatedly for keeping it from me, promising to be more open in the future. By the end of it, I still had a million feelings to sort through, but I could see their sincerity.
A woman deep in thought | Source: Midjourney
When my husband and I finally rejoined the party, Ellie was sitting with Lila, showing her a drawing she made of our family. She’d even added Lila, labeling her as “Big Sister.” My husband slipped an arm around my shoulders.
“I know this wasn’t how you imagined today would go,” he said quietly. “But I hope we can figure this out together.”
I nodded, leaning into him. “We will. But no more secrets, Jake.”
“Never again,” he promised.
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In the weeks that followed, we began adjusting to our new reality. Lila, who had just started college in our city, became a regular visitor. Ellie adored her, and slowly, so did I. It wasn’t easy, but I could see how much Lila wanted to be part of our lives.
And honestly? It was starting to feel like she always had been. Meanwhile, Jake learned the hard way that secrets have a way of coming out, especially when a five-year-old is involved.
A happy woman playing with a little girl | Source: Midjourney
Ellie got her wish for her birthday, and in a way, so did we: a new, unexpected addition to our family. Sometimes life surprises you, and while it’s not always easy, it can lead to something beautiful.
A happy woman | Source: Midjourney
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