Barbara Bach, famously known for her role as Bond girl Triple X, wasn’t waiting for James Bond to come to her rescue; instead, she was on a quest for her own prince charming—rock legend Ringo Starr, also known as Sir Richard Starkey.
Now at the age of 77, Bach reached the zenith of her career when she starred in the 1977 film The Spy Who Loved Me, where she portrayed Anya Amasova, a complex character who was both the love interest and a rival to the charming yet womanizing 007, played by Roger Moore.
In a candid 1983 interview with People, Bach didn’t hold back her opinion about her character’s relationship with Bond, referring to him as “a chauvinist pig who uses girls to shield him against bullets”. Moore himself agreed, stating in a 1973 People interview: “Bond, like myself, is a male chauvinist pig. All my life I’ve been trying to get women out of brassieres and pants”.
Before landing her iconic role in the Bond franchise, Bach had appeared in several Italian films, including Black Belly of the Tarantula, where she shared the screen with fellow Bond actresses Claudine Auger and Barbara Bouchet.
Bach’s portrayal of the KGB agent Anya Amasova not only solidified her status as a beloved Bond girl but also opened doors to numerous opportunities in her acting career. Following her Bond debut, she starred in Mad Magazine Presents Up the Academy (1980) and Caveman (1981), where she worked alongside Ringo Starr, who played a Neanderthal vying for her affections. Interestingly, the movie’s script contrasted sharply with their actual relationship, as they only became romantically involved towards the end of filming.
In a revealing Playboy feature from 1981, Bach noted: “A lot of garbage has been written about us, none of it interesting. The truth is, we weren’t together until the very end of Caveman. Working, we got along fine, but we each had other people, our respective friends. Then, all of a sudden, within a week—the last week of shooting—it just happened. We changed from friendly love to being in love”.
In a 2021 interview with the Irish Examiner, Starr reminisced about their first encounter at Los Angeles International Airport in 1980. “I love the woman. I loved her from when I first saw her at LAX”, he shared. “I’m blessed she’s in my life, that’s all I can ever say.”
Starr, renowned as the drummer for the legendary band The Beatles, was once part of a performance at New York’s Shea Stadium in 1965, where Bach was present. However, she revealed that she wasn’t an ardent Beatles fan, attending the concert with her sister Marjorie, a passionate follower of the band. “I liked [Bob] Dylan, Ray Charles, and the Rolling Stones”, Bach remarked in a People interview from 1981.
Bach’s sister eventually married Joe Walsh, the Eagles guitarist, who later performed with Starr in the All-Starr Band. Just months after John Lennon’s tragic death, Bach and Starr tied the knot on April 27, 1981, with notable guests including Paul McCartney and George Harrison.
Their journey together hasn’t been without challenges. Just before their wedding, the couple survived a near-fatal car accident, which prompted them to vow to stay together. Starr remarked: “We decided we wouldn’t spend any time apart. So far the longest break was five days, and that was too long. I want to live every minute with Barbara”.
The couple also took a significant step together in 1988 by entering rehab, emerging sober since then. Celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary in 2021, Starr shared a nostalgic wedding photo with the caption:, “It was 40 years ago today The love of my life said yes yes yes”.
Starr and Bach’s love extends beyond their personal lives; they also have a blended family, with Starr having three children from his late wife Maureen Cox and Bach two from her former marriage to Augusto Gregorini. Together, they run the Lotus Foundation, which supports various causes, including animal welfare, substance abuse, homelessness, and cancer research. Starr donates all proceeds from his art sales to the foundation.
There’s no denying the deep affection shared between Barbara Bach and Ringo Starr, a bond that remains as strong as ever. As Bach expressed: “I love the man, and that’s it”. Starr echoed her sentiments, saying: “There’s no escape… I think I love Barbara as much (today) as I did (when we met), and I’m beyond blessed that she loves me and we’re still together”. Their inspiring love story continues to resonate, and fans eagerly anticipate what they will accomplish together in their charitable endeavors and personal lives.
My Nonverbal Son Warned Me about My Husband’s Secret by Writing ‘Dad Lies!’ on His Palm
My husband’s early returns from work — always when our nanny was still there — set off alarm bells. But it was our nonverbal six-year-old, Oliver, who saw the truth. His warning, “Dad lies!” written on his palm in marker, led me to uncover a secret that would shatter our world.
Oliver had always been more observant than most kids his age. Maybe it was because he couldn’t speak and his rare condition meant he had to find other ways to communicate.
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Whatever the reason, he saw things the rest of us missed, like how his father had been acting strange lately.
I’d noticed the changes gradually, like watching shadows lengthen across our living room floor. First, it was the phone calls he’d take outside, pacing the garden with one hand pressed against his ear.
Then came the mysterious appointments that never quite lined up with his usual schedule. But what really set off alarm bells was when James started coming home early from work.
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It should have been a good thing. More family time, right? But something felt off about it, especially since he always seemed to time his arrivals when Tessa, our nanny, was still there.
They’d be in deep conversation when I’d call to check in, their voices dropping to whispers when Oliver was around.
“He’s just being more involved,” my friend Sarah assured me over coffee one morning. “Isn’t that what you’ve always wanted?”
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I stirred my latte, watching the foam swirl into abstract patterns. “It feels different. Like he’s… hiding something.”
“What makes you think that?”
“He’s distracted. Distant. The other day, I found him sitting in Oliver’s room at midnight, just watching him sleep. When I asked what was wrong, he said ‘nothing’ so quickly it had to be something.”
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I’d managed to keep my darker suspicions at bay until one fateful Tuesday afternoon. I left work early after my last meeting was canceled. The house was quiet when I walked in, but I heard low voices coming from the living room.
James and Tessa sat on the sofa, heads close together, speaking in hushed tones. They jumped apart when they saw me like teenagers caught passing notes in class.
“Rachel!” James’s voice cracked slightly. “You’re home early.”
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“Meeting got canceled,” I said, the words falling flat between us. “Funny, sounds like yours did too.”
“Yeah, the client backed out last minute.” He wouldn’t meet my eyes, and Tessa’s cheeks flushed pink as she gathered Oliver’s art supplies.
I couldn’t focus on anything else after that. My thoughts spiraled as I prepared dinner, each clink of plates against the counter matching the pounding in my chest.
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What if all those early returns home weren’t about spending more time with Oliver? What if James and Tessa…
I couldn’t even complete the thought. The idea of him having an affair with our nanny made me physically ill, but once it took root, I couldn’t shake it.
I watched him across the dinner table, analyzing every gesture, every averted glance. Was he avoiding my eyes? Did that forced smile hide guilt?
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“How was your afternoon?” I asked, trying to keep my voice casual.
“Oh, you know. The usual.” James pushed his lasagna around his plate. “Just wanted to get home early to see my favorite people.”
The words that would’ve once warmed my heart now felt like daggers. I noticed Oliver watching us intently, his bright eyes darting between our faces as if reading a story written in our expressions.
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After dinner, James headed out to the garden — his convenient new escape, I thought bitterly. I was loading the dishwasher, my mind still churning with suspicions, when Oliver appeared at my elbow.
His small face was scrunched with worry, more serious than I’d ever seen him. He held up his palm, where he’d written two words in blue marker: “Dad lies!”
My heart stopped.
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Somehow, seeing those words validated every fear I’d been trying to suppress. If Oliver had noticed something was wrong, it couldn’t just be my imagination. My sweet, silent boy who saw everything — what exactly had he witnessed?
“What do you mean, sweetie?” I kneeled to his level. “What kind of lies?”
He pointed toward the hall table, where James had left his briefcase. The same briefcase he’d been clutching like a lifeline lately, never letting it out of his sight.
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“Oliver, honey, that’s private—” I started to say, but he was already dragging it over to me, his eyes intense with purpose.
My hands trembled as I opened the clasp. Inside, instead of the expected lipstick-stained collar or hidden phone, I found a manila folder stuffed with medical documents.
The words jumped out at me like accusations: “Stage 3.” “Aggressive treatment required.” “Survival rate.”
“Oh God,” I whispered, the papers shaking in my hands.
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“Rachel?” His voice came from behind me, quiet and defeated. “I didn’t want you to find out this way.”
I spun around, tears already streaming down my face. “Find out? When exactly were you planning to tell me that you’re dying?”
He slumped into a kitchen chair, suddenly looking ten years older. “I thought… I thought if I could just handle it myself, get the treatments done quietly…”
“Quietly?” My voice rose.
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“Is that what all those early afternoons were about? Chemotherapy? And Tessa — she knows?”
“She figured it out,” he admitted. “I needed someone to cover for me when I had appointments. I made her promise not to tell you.”
“Why?” The word came out as a sob. “Did you think I couldn’t handle it? That I wouldn’t want to be there for you?”
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“I wanted to protect you and Oliver. I didn’t want to see that look in your eyes, the one you’re giving me right now.” He reached for my hand. “I didn’t want every moment together to be overshadowed by this… this thing inside me.”
“You don’t get to make that choice for us,” I said, but I let him hold my hand anyway. “We’re supposed to face these things together. That’s what marriage means.”
Oliver appeared between us, tears rolling down his cheeks.
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He held up his palm again, but this time it read: “I love Dad.”
James broke down then, really broke down, pulling Oliver into his lap. “I love you too, buddy. So much. I’m sorry I scared you with all the secrets.”
I wrapped my arms around them both, breathing in the familiar smell of James’s aftershave, and feeling Oliver’s small body trembling against us.
“No more secrets,” I whispered. “Whatever time we have left, we face it together.”
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The next few weeks were a blur of doctor’s appointments and difficult conversations. I took a leave of absence from work, and we told Oliver’s school what was happening. Tessa stayed on, but now she was part of our support system rather than James’s confidante.
She brought us meals on treatment days and sometimes just sat with me while James slept off the effects of the chemotherapy.
“I’m so sorry,” she said one afternoon, her eyes filling with tears. “Keeping this from you was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But he was so scared of hurting you…”
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“I understand,” I told her, and I did.
James had always been our protector, the one who checked for monsters under Oliver’s bed and kept spare batteries for every flashlight in case of storms. Of course, he’d try to shield us from this too.
Oliver started drawing more than ever. He filled pages with pictures of our family — always together, always holding hands.
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Sometimes he drew James in a hospital bed, but he always drew him smiling, surrounded by love hearts and rainbows. His art teacher told us it was his way of processing everything, of telling the story he couldn’t voice.
One day, I found James sitting in Oliver’s room, surrounded by these drawings. His eyes were red-rimmed, but he was smiling.
“Remember when we first found out about his condition?” he asked. “How terrified we were that he’d never be able to express himself?”
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I sat down beside him, picking up a particularly colorful drawing. “And now he’s teaching us how to communicate better.”
“I was so wrong, Rachel. About all of it. I thought being strong meant handling everything alone, but look at him.” James gestured to a drawing where Oliver had depicted our family as superheroes. “He knows that real strength is letting people in, letting them help.”
That night, as we watched Oliver arrange his latest masterpiece on the refrigerator, James squeezed my hand.
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“I was so scared of ruining what time we had left,” he whispered. “I didn’t realize that hiding the truth was already doing that.”
I leaned my head against his shoulder, watching our silent, wise little boy. “Sometimes the hardest things to say are the ones that need saying the most.”
Oliver turned to us then, holding up both palms. On one, he’d written “Family.” On the other: “Forever.”
And in that moment, despite everything, I believed him.
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