Marido pede separação, mas exige que sua esposa se mude para o outro lado do país com ele – Ela revela seu segredo
Após 13 anos de casamento, o mundo de uma mulher vira de cabeça para baixo quando seu marido, em meio a planos para uma mudança drástica pelo país e uma demanda repentina por separação, abriga um segredo que pode mudar tudo. Enquanto ela descobre uma conexão oculta com um velho amigo, uma revelação a aguarda, deixando-a em uma encruzilhada surpreendente.
Em 3 de fevereiro de 2024, uma mulher anônima compartilhou uma história convincente sobre seu casamento de 13 anos tomando um rumo desconcertante. Seu marido, antes aparentemente contente, de repente expressou frustração com seu emprego atual e seus planos de se candidatar a uma vaga do outro lado do país.
Uma sugestão inesperada e dura logo seguiu esse anúncio. “Do nada, ele sugeriu uma separação”, lembrou o Original Poster (OP), “e começou a falar sobre o quão terrível eu sou”. Apesar de seu histórico de altos e baixos, ela achou essa explosão extrema e infundada.
Nas semanas que se seguiram, OP descobriu a extensa comunicação de seu marido com uma velha amiga, uma mulher recentemente divorciada, que foi fundamental para ajudá-lo a garantir essa potencial oportunidade de emprego. A intensidade da interação deles era impressionante, chegando a mais de 500 mensagens de texto por dia, totalizando aproximadamente 24.000 em apenas um mês.
A história da OP recebeu uma resposta esmagadora online, com muitas pessoas a considerando “NTA” por suas ações e decisões diante da traição e dos planos de seu marido.
O plano do marido era claro: ele esperava realocar a família inteira, incluindo seus dois filhos em idade escolar, sua mãe e a própria OP. Essa decisão não foi tomada levianamente pela OP, que refletiu sobre seus sacrifícios passados, incluindo a mudança para a pós-graduação dele e seu emprego atual. Ela expressou sua consternação, dizendo: “Me mudar para longe da escola e dos amigos das crianças, assim como do meu trabalho e amigos, é inconcebível.”
A situação piorou quando o marido dela viajou para o local de trabalho em potencial para o que deveria ser uma entrevista de um dia, mas se transformou em uma viagem de quatro dias. Durante esse tempo, a OP encontrou evidências sugerindo que ele estava planejando se envolver em um relacionamento físico.
Ao retornar, quando confrontado, ele admitiu defensivamente que estava “infeliz há 15 anos”. Essa revelação deixou a OP questionando se ela era culpada por considerar o divórcio e buscar a custódia física dos filhos para permanecer no estado.\
O marido insistiu na importância de as crianças terem o pai por perto, citando sua própria experiência de crescer sem uma figura paterna, e argumentou que ela precisava estar lá pelo bem das crianças.
A história da OP recebeu uma resposta esmagadora online, com muitas pessoas a considerando “NTA” por suas ações e decisões diante da traição e dos planos de seu marido. A comunidade online se uniu em torno dela, oferecendo apoio e insights sobre a situação.
Um comentarista escreveu: “Ele está bravo porque perdeu a vantagem quando você descobriu o que estava acontecendo e contratou um advogado. Parece que ele ia mudar vocês e então ancorar aquelas crianças em seu novo local. Então você ficou preso com as crianças. Ótimo trabalho! Você definitivamente é NTA [sic]!”
Enquanto isso, outro observou: “Nta. Ele não pode acabar com a vida de todo mundo porque está tendo um caso e não quer ser incomodado [sic].”
Uma terceira voz acrescentou: “NTA – de jeito nenhum eu me mudaria só para ele se divorciar de você quando você se mudar. Definitivamente, peça o divórcio agora, antes que ele deixe o emprego.”
O que você acha dessa história? O marido do OP está justificado em pedir a separação da esposa enquanto também a pressiona a se mudar para o outro lado do país para ele? Como você lidaria com a situação se estivesse no lugar do OP? Você aceitaria a decisão do marido ou se posicionaria contra ele?
Aqui está outra história que você pode gostar sobre uma mulher que se perguntou se ela estava errada por verificar as imagens da câmera do painel do carro do marido sem o consentimento dele.
Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones: The Untold Story of Their Family and Kids
Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones have been through a lot together. They’ve lived in both the US and Bermuda with their children, Dylan Douglas and Carys Zeta-Douglas, and have experienced many changes along the way.
Now, Dylan is an adult. At 20 years old, he has chosen his own path in life. Being the son of a famous Hollywood star, and the grandson of the legendary Kirk Douglas, brings a lot of pressure.
However, his parents made sure he had the best childhood possible, even moving away from Bermuda to support him.
Michael Douglas was born on September 25, 1944, in New Brunswick, New Jersey, to actor parents Diana and Kirk Douglas.
When Michael was six years old, his parents divorced, and he went to live with his mother. He only saw his father during holidays.
Growing up, Michael Douglas attended the Eaglebrook School in Massachusetts and later went to the elite Choate School.
Michael was introduced to the acting world at a young age. He spent summers with his father, Kirk, who was often shooting films. By his teenage years, Michael knew he wanted to be an actor and asked his father to help him find roles.
Kirk, however, didn’t think acting was right for his son because of the pressure and unpredictability of the industry. He didn’t want either of his sons in show business, but Michael couldn’t be stopped.
Michael Douglas decided to turn down studying at Yale University and instead moved to California.
“I grew up on the East Coast and was going to go to an Ivy League school, but at the last minute, I decided to be a hippie,” he explained. “There were protest movements about the war and peace movements at our university. It was a fantastic time.”
While studying at the University of California, Santa Barbara, he kept asking his father, Kirk, for help to get into the movie industry. In 1966, he landed his first role.
### Start of Acting Career
Michael Douglas made his debut in *Cast a Giant Shadow*, where his father also starred. He played an uncredited driver in the film.
“I was lucky to grow up watching how my father acted, along with stars like Tony Curtis, Burt Lancaster, and Frank Sinatra, who were often at our house,” Michael said on *The Talk*. “You see stars with their insecurities and how they behave, so I think that’s kept me grounded.”
Michael Douglas graduated with a bachelor’s degree in 1968 and decided to move back to the East Coast. This time, he settled in New York City, where he continued to pursue his career in film.
Michael Douglas studied at the American Place Theatre and later at the Neighborhood Playhouse. He landed some leading roles and spent time performing in off-Broadway productions.
### Academy Award Winner
Before his first film role, Michael Douglas had a small part in the television show *The F.B.I.* The producer, Quinn Martin, was impressed with him, and Douglas then got a role in the new police series *The Streets of San Francisco*. The show premiered in 1972 and became Douglas’s big breakthrough.
*The Streets of San Francisco* became one of ABC’s highest-rated programs in the mid-1970s, airing during prime time. Michael Douglas received three consecutive Emmy Award nominations for his performance. He also directed two episodes of the series, gaining experience in directing, which he would use later.
In 1975, Michael produced the classic film *One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest*, which helped establish him as a top producer. The film won several Academy Awards, and Douglas himself won an Academy Award for Best Picture.
By this time, Douglas was a successful producer and director, and everyone wanted to work with him. He produced and starred in *The China Syndrome* (1979) alongside Jane Fonda. The movie received more Academy Award nominations and was named one of the best films of the year by the National Board of Review.
Michael Douglas went on to become a major Hollywood star with his performances as Gordon Gecko in *Wall Street* (1987), in *Falling Down* (1993), and *The Game* (1997).
### Michael Douglas – Catherine Zeta-Jones
During this time, he met his love, Catherine Zeta-Jones. Even before they met, he admired her talent.
“I was watching this movie and thought, ‘Wow, who is this girl? She’s incredible,’” Douglas remembered. He was watching a screening of her upcoming movie *The Mask of Zorro* at that moment.
The two stars met in 1996 at the Deauville Film Festival.
“I had been told Michael Douglas wanted to meet me,” Zeta-Jones said in a 2001 interview with Larry King. “I was a little nervous because I didn’t quite know what he wanted to meet me about.”
Michael Douglas knew right away that he had just met the love of his life.
However, Michael Douglas worried he had ruined any chance of a future with Catherine during their first meeting.
“I said to her after about half an hour, ‘You know, I’m going to be the father of your children,’” Douglas recalled on *The Jonathan Ross Show*, as quoted by E! News. “It sounded good, but she said, ‘You know, I’ve heard a lot about you and I’ve seen a lot about you, and I think it’s time I say goodnight.’”
### Married in 1999
Douglas and Zeta-Jones kept talking on the phone for about nine months and continued to enjoy dinners together. They eventually wondered why they weren’t officially together, so they decided to sit down and discuss it.
“He certainly didn’t want me as an ex-girlfriend on his list, and I certainly didn’t want ‘Michael Douglas’ as an ex-boyfriend on my list,” she said. “We looked at each other one day and said, ‘We’re having a lot of fun together.’”
Their romance blossomed. Despite the 25-year age difference, which attracted media attention, they didn’t care because their love was strong. On New Year’s Eve in 1999, Michael Douglas proposed to Catherine at his home in Aspen, Colorado.
“Both of us were sick as dogs because we had the flu,” Douglas recalled in 2016. Later that year, they got married.
“I don’t take any of this for granted,” Zeta-Jones told *People* during their wedding. “When I look at Michael, I run around like a little girl. I can’t believe I came into his life and he came into mine.”
### Dylan Douglas
Just months after their engagement, there were rumors that the couple was expecting a child. In August 2000, Dylan Douglas was born. He was Catherine Zeta-Jones’s first child and Michael Douglas’s second; his first son, Cameron, was born in 1978 to his former wife, Diandra Luker.
Catherine and Michael welcomed their second child, a daughter named Carys Zeta-Douglas, in 2003. Like any marriage, they faced ups and downs, but their love always prevailed.
Now, their children are all grown up, and Dylan Douglas has chosen a very different career from that of his parents. He seems to be quite the daredevil.
Dylan Douglas is now 20 years old and has already lived in several places.
### Dylan Douglas – Childhood
As a young child, Dylan and his family lived in Bermuda. Michael Douglas has strong ties to the islands because his mother is from there, and he spent many teenage summers there.
In 2001, when Dylan was just one year old, Michael and Catherine decided to move the family to Bermuda. Being two major celebrities, they believed it would be better for their children to grow up away from the spotlight, which can often be toxic.
Douglas and Zeta-Jones, who were living in New York City at the time, wanted their kids to have a safe and calm upbringing without the hassle of paparazzi.
In Bermuda, they felt people respected their privacy.
“Bermuda creates an environment for us away from the entertainment business and gives our kids independence and freedom where showbiz isn’t on everybody’s lips,” Douglas said, as quoted by the *Bermuda Sun*. “It’s a lovely, lovely place.”
However, the family only stayed on the island for eight years because Dylan was diagnosed with dyslexia.
### Dylan Douglas – Dyslexia
Dylan didn’t start reading until he was five years old. His parents, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones, decided it was best for him to attend a special school in New York. So, the Douglas family left Bermuda, and Dylan finally got the chance to show everyone what a great kid he was. He enrolled at the Windward School, which specializes in helping children with dyslexia.
Those years were very challenging for the Douglas family. Not only was Dylan’s half-brother Cameron sentenced to five years in prison, but Michael Douglas also found out that he had stage 4 tongue cancer. He went through chemotherapy and radiation therapy while Dylan was adjusting to his new school.
In the end, Michael Douglas successfully overcame his cancer treatment, and Dylan went on to enjoy school. During an emotional speech at a Windward School fundraiser, Dylan honored the school that helped him overcome his dyslexia and also talked about how his father’s cancer had affected his life.
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