When Willa’s mother-in-law sabotages her daughter’s first vacation in the pettiest way imaginable, Willa chooses calm over chaos. But as karma begins to spin its own revenge, Willa realizes some battles don’t need to be fought because the universe already has her back.
I’ve always been careful about how I love. After my divorce, I learned not to hand my heart to just anyone… not even the people who come with wedding rings or promises of forever.
So, when I met Nolan, I didn’t fall fast. I let him earn us. Me and Ava, my daughter from my first marriage.
A smiling woman sitting on a porch step | Source: Midjourney
Ava, who has my nose and my laugh and a fierce little heart that refuses to break even when the world tries.
The best thing about Nolan?
He never hesitated. He walked right into our lives like he belonged, like we were never missing anything. He loved Ava like she was his own. Still does. If she skins her knee, he’s the first with a band-aid. If she has a nightmare, he’s at her door before I am.
A side view of a little girl | Source: Midjourney
To Nolan, she’s his kid. Period.
To his mother, Darlene? Not so much.
Darlene, picture pearls and pinched smiles, never said anything outright. She didn’t have to. It was in the way she’d buy two cupcakes instead of three. The way she’d pat Ava’s head like she was petting a neighbor’s dog.
A smiling older woman wearing a pearl necklace | Source: Midjourney
And the things she said?
“Isn’t it strange? She doesn’t look anything like you, Willa. Does she look like her father?”
Or my personal favorite.
“Maybe it’s better you waited to have a real family, Nolan. Not… this.”
A frowning woman with curly hair | Source: Midjourney
I bit my tongue so many times, I’m surprised it didn’t scar. I kept the peace, for Nolan’s sake. For Ava’s. But inside, I was always watching her. Calculating. Darlene wasn’t a monster, not really, but she was the kind of woman who saw children like mine as placeholders.
Still, I never expected her to actually do something. Not like this.
A few months ago, Nolan surprised us all with a trip to the Canary Islands. I’m talking about a beachfront resort, all-inclusive, everything planned to the last detail. He’d just gotten a work bonus and wanted to celebrate.
The exterior of a beautiful resort | Source: Midjourney
“Ava’s never been on a plane,” he said. “She should remember her first time as something absolutely magical, Willa. She deserves everything good in the world.”
She was thrilled. We all were. Until life did what it does best…
Nolan got called away to Europe a week before the trip. Business emergency. He was devastated.
A frowning man | Source: Midjourney
“You two go ahead,” Nolan said, brushing Ava’s hair behind her ear. “Mom and Jolene can help with the flight. I’ll join you if I can.”
Jolene is Nolan’s little sister. She’s sweet when she wants to be and likes to think of herself as a singer… but the girl is tone-deaf if you ask me.
Nolan looked gutted. Ava clung to his leg like a baby koala, her tiny fingers curled into his jeans. It took all of us ten minutes and two gummy bears to get her buckled into her booster seat.
A container of gummy bears | Source: Midjourney
“I want Daddy to come with us…” she said, her lower lip jutting out.
“I know, baby,” I said. “I want that too. But Daddy has to work for now. He might surprise us! So, we always have to be ready for him to show up, okay?”
She smiled at me and nodded slowly.
A close up of a sad little girl | Source: Midjourney
And that’s how I ended up in a rental car, the early morning sun slicing through the windshield, with Ava in the back humming her favorite song, her pink neck pillow around her shoulders, and her boarding pass clutched like treasure.
“Daddy said I had to keep it safe,” she said when I asked her about it.
Darlene was in the passenger seat, silent but smiling. Jolene sang along to the radio and scrolled endlessly in the back.
A woman driving a car | Source: Midjourney
Halfway to the airport, Darlene broke the silence.
“Can you roll the windows down?” she asked. “It’s a bit stuffy here.”
I cracked mine slightly. I preferred the AC but Darlene had issues with it and her skin.
“Much better,” she sighed and leaned toward Ava.
A smiling older woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney
“Sweetheart, let me see your ticket for a second. I just want to double-check the gate.”
Ava hesitated, then looked at me. I gave her a little nod.
She handed it over.
Darlene took it with a delicate, practiced grip. She examined it. She smiled at something only she seemed to see.
A smiling little girl wearing a yellow dress | Source: Midjourney
Then, just like that, she let it slip. A flutter of paper. A gasp of air. And the ticket soared out the window, caught in the wind like a bird freed from a cage.
“My ticket!” Ava screamed from the backseat.
“Well… isn’t that just a cruel twist of fate?” Darlene said.
And then she smiled at me. Like she’d won.
A boarding ticket flying out of a car window | Source: Midjourney
I slammed on the brakes. Jolene gasped.
“Look, I think fate just didn’t want the two of you to go,” Darlene continued.
She said it like she was talking about the weather. No regret. No panic. Just calm, casual cruelty.
A smug older woman | Source: Midjourney
I looked at her. Like I really looked at her. And I saw it. The satisfaction behind her eyes. That ticket didn’t slip out the window. It was sent out the window.
I almost lost it. My fingers clenched the steering wheel hard enough to ache. But I didn’t scream. I didn’t cry.
Instead, I breathed in, long and slow.
A young woman sitting in a car and using her phone | Source: Midjourney
“You know what?” I said, my voice sweet and calm. “Maybe you’re right. Fate has a funny way of working.”
I glanced at Jolene from the rear-view mirror. She looked frozen, unsure where to look.
I turned the car around.
“Wait, you’re not going to try to get on the flight? I’m sure the airport will…” Darlene said, her voice trailing off.
The interior of a quiet airport | Source: Midjourney
“No,” I said, calm and clear. “You go ahead. We’ll figure something out.”
We could have doubled back to the terminal. Found a kiosk. Maybe even get the ticket reprinted. But I knew we’d miss check-in by the time we got back. And honestly?
I didn’t want Ava to remember her first trip through tears.
A frustrated woman driving a car | Source: Midjourney
Ava sniffled in the backseat. I reached back and held her hand.
“I’m going to take the car back to the rental place,” I said. “You and Jolene can take another one.”
“But… you already rented this one!” Darlene exclaimed.
“In my name,” I continued. “I don’t want any liabilities.”
“Typical,” Darlene muttered under her breath.
A car rental parking lot | Source: Midjourney
“Hey, bug,” I said to Ava. “Want to get some pancakes later? Want to go on a secret adventure with Mom?”
“Can I get the dinosaur ones?” she asked, wiping her eyes.
“You bet, baby. Ronda at the diner will be so happy to see you!”
A smiling waitress at a diner | Source: Midjourney
My daughter beamed at me.
And just like that, we made a new plan.
The next few days were magic. Not the kind of magic that comes from airport gates or sun-drenched beaches. A quieter kind. Something stitched together with syrupy fingers and belly laughs.
A smiling little girl | Source: Midjourney
We had pancakes every morning. Dinosaur-shaped for Ava, chocolate chip for me. We visited the aquarium and stood silently in front of the jellyfish tank, her little hand curled into mine.
At home, we turned the living room into a sleepover den, blankets on the floor, popcorn in a bowl big enough for Ava’s toys to swim in, and glow-in-the-dark stars that we stuck to the ceiling with gummy tack.
She painted my nails (and fingers) five different colors and insisted on glitter. I let her. Even when I caught the shimmer on my pillowcase days later, I smiled instead of wiping it away.
A plate of dinosaur-shaped pancakes | Source: Midjourney
We were happy.
That’s what Darlene never understood. You can’t sabotage something this rooted in love. All she did was remind me how strong we were.
I didn’t tell Nolan right away. I let him think we’d made it. Let him breathe.
But when he finally texted us from his work trip… something changed.
A man texting on his phone | Source: Midjourney
“How was the flight, love? Did Ava love it?! Send pics of Ava’s first time on a plane! Love you. Both.”
I sent back a selfie of Ava and me in fluffy matching robes, faces covered in sparkly sticker stars.
“Didn’t make it, Nolan. Ask your mom why. We miss you.”
The phone rang five minutes later.
A little girl dressed in a robe and sparkly stickers on her face | Source: Midjourney
“What happened?” his voice cracked, tight and restrained.
I told him everything. The open window. The ticket. The smile.
Silence.
“She did this on purpose,” he said eventually. “I’m so sorry, Willa. I’m booking a return flight—”
An upset man looking out a window | Source: Midjourney
“Nolan, no,” I breathed in slowly. “Let her have her trip. Ava and I already got what we needed.”
He didn’t like it. But he understood.
“We’ll do our own trip,” he said. “Just us… I promise.”
And that? That promise was enough.
A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney
But karma wasn’t finished with her yet.
Two days after their flight, Jolene called me, breathless.
“You will not believe this,” she said. “Mom… fell.”
She launched into it like she couldn’t say it fast enough. Darlene had been strutting through a local artisan market, silk scarf around her neck, oversized sunglasses perched on her head, when she stepped on a wet tile outside a spice shop.
A local market | Source: Midjourney
They hadn’t even made it to the Canary Islands yet, all of this had happened during a layover.
Down she went.
Jolene said that it looked like something out of a slapstick comedy. One second she was lecturing a vendor about currency conversion, the next she was on the ground, limbs tangled, tourists staring.
She sprained her wrist and shattered the screen on her phone. But that wasn’t the worst part.
A shattered phone screen | Source: Midjourney
Her passport? Gone.
It had vanished somewhere between the market and the hospital. Stolen? Dropped? Nobody knew. No passport meant no flight home. Embassy visits, frantic forms, signature verifications.
Five extra days in a two-star motel that smelled like mildew and served eggs that bounced.
As for Darlene’s luggage? Rerouted to Lisbon.
When I told Nolan, he sighed.
Scrambled eggs on a plate | Source: Midjourney
“Wait… so how’s she getting home?” he asked.
“She’s not,” I said, stirring my coffee. “Not for a while.”
He didn’t laugh, but his lips twitched on the video call.
“Seriously?”
“She’s at the mercy of government paperwork and bad continental plumbing.”
A cup of coffee on a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney
“Wow,” he said, leaning back in his chair.
That was all he said. Wow.
“I’ll be home tomorrow,” he smiled. “We can take Ava to the carnival. Rob’s wife said that she’s taking their kids, too.”
A colorful carnival at night | Source: Midjourney
I didn’t gloat. I didn’t need to. The universe had done it for me, swift, elegant, and brutal. She wanted to control the trip? Now, she could enjoy her solo extension in what Jolene called the “European equivalent of a broom closet.”
Some things don’t need vengeance. They just need time.
Three weeks later, we were halfway through brunch — pancakes, eggs, real maple syrup, the works — when the front door creaked open without a knock.
A breakfast stack on a plate | Source: Midjourney
Darlene walked in like she still owned air rights to our house. Jolene followed a step behind, looking like she’d rather be anywhere else.
“Smells… cozy,” Darlene said, eyeing the plate of bacon on the table. Her wrist was still wrapped in a bandage and dark circles took up residence under her eyes.
I didn’t say a word. I just moved my coffee cup closer to Ava, who was happily dunking strawberries into whipped cream.
Strawberries and whipped cream on a table | Source: Midjourney
“We just wanted to stop by,” Darlene added, settling herself into a chair like she was the guest of honor. “Such a lovely morning for family.”
Nolan stood. Not quickly. Not angrily. Just… firmly.
“You’re not welcome here,” he said.
“Excuse me?” Darlene’s smile flickered.
An older woman sitting at a dining table | Source: Midjourney
“You heard me,” he said. “You’re not welcome near Ava until you apologize for what you’ve done. And you’re not invited to anything in the future unless you start treating my wife and daughter like they matter.”
The silence that followed wasn’t awkward. It was… heavy.
“You’re joking,” she scoffed, eyes darting toward Jolene, who stared at the floor.
“I’m not,” my husband said simply.
A young woman looking at the floor | Source: Midjourney
Darlene stood up so fast that her chair scraped back like it had been burned.
“You’d throw me out?”
“I’m asking you to do better, Mom,” he said. “But until you can, yes, I’m choosing them.”
She didn’t slam the door when she left. That would’ve meant she cared enough to make noise.
A frowning man | Source: Midjourney
Instead, she walked out with that same frost-bitten dignity she always wore, dragging Jolene out with her.
And now? Just silence.
No Sunday calls. No little digs. Just a void where her control used to live.
And honestly? It’s the quietest peace we’ve ever known.
A smiling woman sitting outside | Source: Midjourney
Carly Simon finally says who “You’re So Vain” is written about, confirms what we knew all along
With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
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When Carly Simon wrote the song You’re So Vain, her career changed forever, and yet the song remains one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. Who is the person Simon is singing about?
Well, Carly herself has revealed who the classic song is about.
The 1970’s sure was a time for great music. During the 1960’s, bands like The Beatles had conquered the world, and now it was time for the likes of Bob Dylan and others to take over.
Carly Simon – singer/songwriter
One of those who did just that was Carly Simon. The wonderful singer/songwriter became one of the most popular artists when her career began to grow in the early 1970’s.
We’ve all heard You’re so Vain and various other classics from the New Yorker. But what about her life? And who was You’re so Vain actually about? This is the story of the wonderful Carly Simon.
Carly Simon was born on June 25, 1945, in New York City, the youngest daughter of an upper-class New York family. Her father Richard Simon was the co-founder of the Simon & Schuster publishing company.
Carly Simon – childhood
Now, Carly’s childhood wasn’t exactly perfect. As a third daughter, she often felt inadequate. Did her parents really want her?
“After two daughters he’d been counting on a son, a male successor to be named Carl. When I was born, he and Mommy simply added a y to the word, like an accusing chromosome: Carly,” she said.
When she was just 7 or 8 years old, Carly experienced a string of disturbing sexual encounters with a teenage boy.
“I didn’t realize that I was being used,” she said in an interview with USA Today. “I thought of myself as being in love with him. I’m sure a lot of girls go through the same thing.”
As a young girl, Carly got to see what the music industry was all about. But it would be some time before she would become the sensation she was.
Simon split her time between her family’s townhouse in Greenwich Village, New York and a wonderful estate in Stamford, Connecticut. The estate in Stamford saw the young girl surrounded by celebrities like Albert Einstein and Eleanor Roosevelt.
The Simon family were also good friends of legendary baseball player Jackie Robinson, who soon would take Carly under his wing. Jackie Robinson and his family lived in the Stamford house while their own home was under construction.
Befriended Jackie Robinson
She got to sit in the dugout at the old Ebbets Field in Brooklyn – home of the then-Brooklyn Dodgers. Soon, she became the unofficial mascot of the team.
“Jackie even taught me how to bat lefty, though it never took”, Simon wrote in her memoir Boys in the Trees (2015).
“He always had the cutest look around the side of his mouth, as if he were thinking about what he was about to say before he said it.”
However, the family would go through a tragedy. Simon’s father was strong-armed out of his own company, and died in 1960, just before his daughter’s 16th birthday.
For her part, Carly showed an early interest in music. She started singing together with brother Joey – who later became a successful writer, writing the music for the Broadway show The Secret Garden – but later, it was her and her sister who would go on to pursue a career in the business.
As Carly wrote on her website, she and sister Lucy taught themselves three chords on the guitar and hitch-hiked up to Provincetown, MA in the summer of 1964.
The Simon Sisters – as they called themselves – sang at a local bar called The Moors, with a repertoar consisting of folk music, as well as some of their own songs.
Touring with sister Lucy
Carly Simon and Lucy were eventually signed to Kapp Records and played a couple of clubs in Greenwich Village, opening for early comedians Woody Allen and Dick Cavett, among others, and even played in the UK.
In her memoir, Simon recalls the boat trip across the Atlantic heading home.
They were on the same boat as Sean Connery, and Carly and her sister ended up spending the trip with the actor. At that point, of course, no one could realize or even imagine that Carly would write a Bond theme song 12 years later.
The sister duo released three albums in the 1960s before Lucy left to get married.
Carly Simon was on her own, but still determined to forge a career in the music industry. However, her career had a slow start. She started working as a summer-camp counselor and as a secretary on a TV show.
Carly’s career
In February of 1971, Simon released her debut album Carly Simon. The song That’s the Way I’ve Always Heard It Should Be – an anti-marriage-song – became her first hit, reaching No. 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 list.
In October, later the same year, Simon released her second album, Anticipation. By now, things had really started to blow up. Her album went gold in two years and contained the smash hit Anticipation, which peaked at No. 13 on the Billboard pop singles chart and also at No. 3 on the Billboard Adult Contemporary chart in the United States.
According to herself, Simon wrote the song in just 15 minutes while waiting for Cat Stevens at her place, whom she was dating at the time and had made dinner for. When he arrived, the song was ready, but the date only lasted a short while.
“He gave me whispers and drawings of Blake poems,” Carly Simon said. “He told me about his childhood, his mixed Greek and Swedish parents, and we made a connection that has lasted.”
With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
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