I fought to keep my place in my son’s heart, but his stepmom’s perfect world loomed over me. One Christmas, under the same roof, the silent battle between us erupted, forcing me to face the question I feared most: Was I losing him forever?
After my divorce, I became a single mother to my 7-year-old son, Austin, and our cozy house in the quiet suburbs of Minnesota was both my refuge and a constant reminder of what I’d lost.
The walls, once alive with laughter and shared meals, seemed to echo with silence, especially as Thanksgiving approached. I stared at our old dining table, picturing the feast we used to have.
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But that year, there were no funds for turkeys or pies, no energy for decorating. The weight of unpaid bills and constant exhaustion pressed down on me like a heavy fog.
Austin, with his messy blond hair and wide, hopeful eyes, didn’t understand the struggles that kept me awake at night.
“Mom, can we have a Thanksgiving dinner this year? You know, with turkey and mashed potatoes?” he asked one morning.
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“I’ll see what I can do, sweetie,” I replied, knowing full well there was nothing I could do.
Then my ex-husband, Roy, called.
“Emma, let me help. I can send some money or whatever you need,” he said generously.
“No, Roy,” I snapped, cutting him off. “I’ve got it under control.”
But I didn’t. The bills piled higher, and my health deteriorated under the stress. When Roy suggested that Austin spend Thanksgiving with him and his new wife, Jill, I finally gave in.
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Jill, with her polished manners and endless patience, felt like the opposite of me. I hated her.
But I couldn’t ignore the truth. Austin deserved more than what I could give him right now, on winter holidays, when every child should be happy.
“Just until I get back on my feet,” I said, forcing steadiness into my voice. “It’s not forever.”
But watching Austin pack his things that night was one of the hardest moments of my life.
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***
Thanksgiving eve arrived, and the air outside was sharp with the cold of an approaching winter. Inside Roy and Jill’s house, the warmth was almost suffocating.
Jill had greeted me with her usual radiant smile. Her invitation had caught me off guard a week before. And though my pride screamed to refuse, a quieter voice told me I needed to go for Austin’s sake.
Their dining room was breathtaking. The table was covered with a crisp white cloth and decorated with golden candles and an arrangement of autumn leaves. Plates gleamed, and every fork and knife was perfectly placed.
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“Emma, you made it!” Jill’s voice carried a sweetness that made my chest tighten. “I hope you don’t mind—I went a little overboard this year.”
I forced a polite laugh. “It looks… beautiful.”
Austin rushed into the room, his face lighting up. “Mom! Did you see the turkey? It’s huge! And Jill made these cranberry tarts—they’re amazing!”
“That sounds great, sweetheart.”
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Jill brushed past me with a plate in hand, her hair styled so perfectly it seemed immune to gravity. Her apron somehow made her look glamorous instead of ordinary.
“Austin helped me a little in the kitchen,” she said, glancing at me with a touch of triumph. “He’s quite the helper.”
“Really?” I asked, my voice faltering. “That’s… nice.”
Jill moved effortlessly, pouring wine for Roy, serving the kids, and managing to crack jokes that made everyone laugh. Meanwhile, I sat silently, unsure where to place my hands or how to join in.
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When the meal was over, Jill handed Austin the honor of starting the family tradition of sharing gratitude.
“I’m thankful for Dad,” he began, glancing at Roy, who gave him a proud nod. “And I’m thankful for Jill. She makes the best desserts and got me that video game I wanted. And…” His voice trailed off before he added, “I want to live here. With Dad and Jill. All the time.”
My throat tightened, and I gripped the edge of the chair to keep steady.
“Austin,” I managed to say. “You don’t mean that.”
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“I do, Mom,” he replied, avoiding my eyes. “It’s just… easier here.”
For a split second, I caught Jill’s gaze.
Was that a flicker of satisfaction? Or was I imagining it?
Either way, it felt like the walls were closing in.
I stood by the window, staring out at the icy darkness while the voices behind me blurred.
Am I really losing my son? No! I have to fight for him!
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***
The first morning of my new routine started in darkness, the chill of pre-dawn air biting at my face as I jogged through the empty streets. The neighborhood, usually bustling with life, was eerily silent, save for the rhythmic sound of my sneakers hitting the pavement.
Each step felt like a race against Jill’s perfect life that seemed to overshadow everything I worked so hard to hold onto.
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“Morning, Emma!” Mrs. Swanson called out. She stood on her porch, a steaming mug of tea cradled in her hands, her silver hair catching the glow of the porch light.
“Morning,” I replied, forcing a smile.
Her eyes lingered on me. I could almost hear the questions she didn’t ask.
What are you doing? Can you really keep this up?
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I didn’t have answers, but I knew I had to try. I had to prove that I could still be the mom Austin deserved, even if it meant working myself to the bone.
My days blurred together in a haze of dishwater and cleaning supplies. My first job was at a diner, where my hands were perpetually soaked in hot, soapy water as I scrubbed plates.
“Emma, you missed a spot,” my manager barked.
“Sorry,” I mumbled, quickly rinsing the plate again.
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When my shift ended, I rushed to my second job at an office building. The hum of the vacuum filled the empty hallways as I moved from desk to desk, collecting discarded coffee cups and wiping down surfaces.
The work was exhausting, but I kept my focus sharp.
***
One evening, after nearly a month of grueling work, I dragged myself home, my legs barely carrying me. I sat at the kitchen table, staring at the humble bowl of oatmeal and a few carrots I’d picked from the garden.
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My body ached from endless shifts, but my mind was focused on the approaching holiday. Christmas was my goal, my reason to keep going.
The LEGO set Austin had been dreaming of was tucked away in my closet, carefully wrapped in shiny paper. It had cost me every spare penny, but I finally bought it. My phone buzzed, it was Austin.
“Hi, sweetheart!” I answered.
“Hi, Mom.” His voice sounded muffled like he was tucked under his blankets. “I just wanted to say goodnight.”
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“Goodnight already? It’s not that late,” I teased gently, hoping to stretch the conversation just a little longer. “So, what’s new? Are you excited for Christmas?”
“Yeah, kind of. Jill’s already putting up decorations. She’s really into it.”
“That’s nice. But guess what? I’ve been decorating, too. I got the tree up, strung the lights, and even put out all our old ornaments.”
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“Wait… really?” he asked, his voice lighting up with surprise. “Like, the ornaments we used to hang together? The ones with the little snowmen?”
“All of them. And I even made the living room look just like it used to. You know, cozy and warm, like in the good old days.”
“Wow… that’s so cool, Mom. I didn’t think you’d do all that.”
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“Of course I did. You’re my son, Austin. I want us to have Christmas together, just like we always used to. Will you come? I’d love to have you here.”
There was a pause. “I really want to, Mom. But… can Dad and Jill come too? I mean, they’ve been planning stuff, and I don’t want to leave them out.”
I felt my stomach tighten, but I pushed the feeling aside. His happiness mattered more than my pride.
“If that’s what it takes to have you here, of course they can come. The more, the merrier.”
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“Really? That’s awesome, Mom!”
“I can’t wait to see you. Goodnight, Austin. Sweet dreams.”
“Goodnight, Mom.”
I sat there with the phone still in my hand, glancing at the glowing lights of the living room.
“This will show him. He’ll see how much I care.”
That Christmas had to be the one. I was ready to win my son back.
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***
When Roy, Austin, and Jill arrived, the house glowed with twinkling lights. The Christmas tree’s branches were heavy with ornaments Austin and I had collected over the years. I had poured everything into creating a warm, festive home.
“Wow, Mom,” Austin said, his eyes wide as he looked around. “It looks amazing!”
“I’m so glad you like it, sweetheart.”
We settled in for dinner, and I watched Austin laugh and talk. He seemed genuinely happy. When it was time to open presents, my nerves kicked in. I couldn’t wait to see his reaction to the gift I had worked so hard to buy.
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Austin tore into Jill’s gift first. “The LEGO set! It’s exactly what I wanted!”
I stared at the box in his hands. It was the same set I had struggled to afford. The room spun.
I reached for the edge of the table to steady myself, but instead, the tablecloth slipped from my grasp, sending plates and food crashing to the floor.
The last thing I heard before everything went black was Austin shouting, “Mom!”
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***
When I came to, paramedics were hovering over me.
“You need to eat better and rest more,” one of them said as they adjusted the IV in my arm.
“I’ll be fine,” I whispered, but the embarrassment was overwhelming.
How could I let this happen?
When I realized I couldn’t afford the ambulance bill, shame washed over me, but Roy stepped forward.
“I’ve got it,” he said quietly, leaving no room for argument.
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Later, after everyone had calmed down, I broke. Tears streamed down my face as Roy sat beside me. I confessed everything—how exhausted I was, how hard I had tried to prove myself, and how much I missed Austin.
“Emma, you don’t have to do this alone. Because we’re both Austin’s parents. Accepting help isn’t a weakness.”
Jill also surprised me by talking to me. “I grew up in a blended family. My stepmom became my biggest support. I don’t want to replace you, Emma. I just want to be part of Austin’s life.”
Austin stayed close to me the rest of the evening, squeezing my hand and whispering, “I miss you, Mom. I miss us.”
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***
We decided together not to divide him anymore. Austin could always have his home with me. We even exchanged Jill’s duplicate gift for a different LEGO set Austin wanted.
That Christmas, we celebrated as a family, imperfect but together. It wasn’t the Christmas I had planned, but it was the one we all needed.
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Joan van Ark was born on June 16, 1943, in New York City, New York. Her parents were not connected to the film industry.
When Joan was a teenager acting in Denver, she met actress Julie Harris, and their lives would never be the same.
Julie pushed her to go to the highly regarded Yale Drama School and gain admission using a scholarship she had also set up.
Joan van Ark was born on June 16, 1943, in New York City, New York. Her parents were not connected to the film industry.
When Joan was a teenager acting in Denver, she met actress Julie Harris, and their lives would never be the same.
Julie pushed her to go to the highly regarded Yale Drama School and gain admission using a scholarship she had also set up.
This made Joan Van Ark the second-ever woman to enroll at the Drama School
She [Harris] wrote to the dean and asked him to meet me. “Long story short, my parents drove me to New Haven, Connecticut, to meet the dean, who gave me a scholarship,” Joan recalled.” It was meant to be.” Joan went on to perform in the theatre for a few years, but her real passion was in Television.
Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, and Days of Our Lives
Joan achieved enormous renown as a result of her roles in Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, Days of Our Lives, and even one Bonanza episode. But her role as Valene Ewing on Dallas in 1978 was where she first achieved great popularity. She ended up playing the most important role she has ever had.
Because of how popular the show was, Joan appeared on its spin-off, Knots Landing. a program that was actually written prior to Dallas. Dallas was initially chosen by the producers because it was the best option for portraying affluent households at the time. Joan was then forced to play the same part in Dallas instead of joining the Knots Landing cast.
13 Seasons of Knots Landing ensued for Joan Van Ark
The person who actually convinced Joan to accept the part while already working on two other projects was her husband, renowned newscaster John Marshall. There was a moment when Val Ewing’s mother was scheduled to make her television debut. Surprise, surprise—Julie Harris was chosen for the position. The person who mattered the most to her in all the world was this.
“When the producers told me they had finally last someone to play my mother, I held my breath,” she recalled in a 1984 interview with Florida Today. “I thought, ‘Oh my God, are they going to say Phyllis Diller or Zsa Zsa Gabor, or who?’ Then they said it was Julie Harris, and I went right through the roof. I couldn’t believe they had picked her to be my mother. They didn’t even know we were friends.”
327 Episodes later, Joan Van Ark was ready for new ventures
13 Seasons and 327 episodes later, Joan left a season before the show saw its final season air. She knew many blamed her leaving on the cancellation of the show, but she was ready for new adventures. “I have loved more than life the 13 years I’ve had on that show,” she said. “[Knots Landing creator] David Jacobs is a great influence on my life, has taught me so much about so many things.”
“Ted [Shackelford] is the other half of every breath I take on the show, and personally, he’s a large part of my heart. The people are my family–we have shared marriages, deaths, and divorces. It’s far more difficult to leave than I thought.” Joan thereafter appeared on The Young and The Restless as Gloria Fisher.
In high school, John Marshall first met Joan, and the two quickly got married. They have a lovely daughter named Vanessa Marshall who works in the entertainment industry at the moment. After 56 years of marriage, the pair is still very much in love and leads extremely private lives away from the spotlight.
78 years old with a net worth of $10 million
At 78 years old, Joan has amassed a $10 million net worth and is still as gorgeous as ever when seen out and about in Los Angeles. She was last seen three years ago and was just seen paying for parking at a meter while wearing workout clothes and a ponytail.
She co-starred in the 2017 television film Psycho Wedding Crasher, which was her most recent and final appearance on screen.
Joan Van Ark, who has worked in the film industry for the past 50 years, has joined The Actor’s Studio as a life member. What an icon!
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