A woman named Kate posted a story of how her son chose silence instead of defending her when his wife insulted her.
Namely, Kate loved to cook, but since her husband’s passing things changed and she somehow lost hold of that part of her. However, whenever a holiday was around the corner she would prepare the most delicious dishes to her son John, especially for Christmas when he would always come for his annual roast dinner.
This year, however, was a bit different since John’s wife, Liz, attended the family dinner for the first time. The two dated for quite some time, but over the course of a couple of years, she would always spend Christmas at her parents’ house.
Kate woke up early because she knew she needed time to prepare the main course, which was a chicken with gravy on the side, all the side dishes and desserts that her son loved.
As she was preparing the food, Liz entered the kitchen with her phone in her hand and started looking around. At that moment, she made a face as though she smelled something terrible, but Kate, already sweating away, decided to ignore her and didn’t say a word.
Sadly, things turned for the worse when Liz suddenly exclaimed, “Hey, Kate, maybe we should order food. Not everyone wants what you’ve cooked. I don’t know if everyone enjoys your cooking, either. Every aspect of Christmas is supposed to be enjoyed by everyone. They should enjoy the food, too!”
As expected, Kate was shocked by her daughter-in-law’s harsh words.
“I saw John leaning against the archway, nibbling on a carrot. He altogether avoided my gaze, looking over me and out the window across the room. I held back my tears and bit my lip,” she wrote in her post.
As most of the guests arrived and sat on the table, it seemed like they all enjoyed the food Kate prepared for the night.
At one moment, John asked, “The food’s great, right? Everyone’s enjoying it?”
John’s uncle helped himself to another serving of roasted potatoes and asked, “Why wouldn’t we enjoy my sister’s food?”
“Because Liz said that the dinner might be ruined by Mom’s dishes. She wanted us to order in,” John explained.
“Nonsense!” Kate’s brother said as he dipped his potatoes into the gravy.
Hearing this, John looked at his mom and smiled. Kate then realized that her son didn’t react before because he was waiting for the right moment to teach his wife a lesson.
Liz turned red as everyone starred at her and Kate admitted that she even felt bad for her because it was her first Christmas with the family.
Later on, while packing the dishwasher and emptying dishes of food, Liz approached Kate.
“Kate, I’m sorry,” she said. “I was so wrong to do what I did. I am sorry, please understand.”
“Understand what?” Kate asked her.
“I only said that because John loves your food. He always talks about how you make all these special things for him. I can’t make a basic mac and cheese without him saying yours is better. I looked at the food, smelt all the delicious smells from this kitchen, and panicked.”
“Liz, you should know that a boy and his mother’s food is a relationship in and of itself,” Kate said with a laughter as she tried to diffuse the tension. “I can teach you how to cook just like me. My mother taught me everything I know.”
“Really?” Liz asked. “Even after I’ve been so horrible?”
“Yes,” Kate replied.
Thankfully, Kate understood that Liz’s intention wasn’t a nasty one, she simply felt threatened by her mother-in-law, but she soon learned it was for no reason.
Kate then took Liz to the Christmas tree and handed her the present she bough for her.
Silent Walking’ Is The Latest Trend Gen Z Are Obsessed With
People who were born in the middle of the 1990s and the beginning of the 2010s are known as Generation Z, and they frequently consider themselves to be significant members of modern society. Their influence is often demonstrated by a variety of trends, such the movement to phase out narrow jeans and the passionate reaction to the “bed rotting” issue.
But the newest trend enthralling Zoomers transcends style or bedroom furnishings; it’s known as Silent Walking.
Co-host of the Okay Sis podcast Mady Maio presents a trend she unwittingly started in a TikTok video. Promoted as a paradigm-shifting movement, “silent walking.” Silent walking harkens back to a time when individuals enjoyed the simplicity of a walk without the burden of smartphones, music, podcasts, or any other technical distractions, in contrast to the contemporary technologically driven world.
In the video, Maio promotes going on a stroll by yourself, without the use of podcasts, music, or AirPods. She talks about the first two minutes of mayhem, but at first she hesitates because she is nervous. eventually reaches a “flow state,” in which she says she has attained clarity. Silent strolling, in Maio’s opinion, created room for reflection. enabling her to use her intuition and to hear the universe’s whispers.
Even though Maio may have popularized quiet walking, the phrase was apparently originally used to describe simple, tech-free walking before it became commonplace.
More precisely, earlier in the year by Arielle Lorre, a New York City influencer. Lorre highlights the advantages of this practice, highlighting experiences of groundedness and heightened senses. While some social media users hail the movement as a life-changing phenomenon, others make fun of the notion. referring to it as a return to a banal pastime of walking without the use of technology.
Some people talk about their pleasant experiences.
describing silent walking as a powerful tool for intention manifestation and a game-changer for mental health. Critics point out that it is ironic to hail a simple, tech-free stroll as groundbreaking. wondering if Generation Z has really discovered a long-standing custom. Phrases such as “Gen Z just discovered walking y’all” highlight the novelty attached to a daily activity that previous generations were familiar with.
The trend highlights how reliant society is on technology. People’s mockery of the idea that going for a 30-minute walk without using any electronics is “game-changing” illustrates how much technology has ingrained itself into daily life. This phenomenon is consistent with research showing negative effects on mental health from excessive online activity.
Science can contribute something significant.
According to scientific studies, an excessive dependence on digital devices can seriously impair cognitive functions and lead to sloppy thinking. These are necessary for comprehending and turning data into knowledge. Essentially, the quiet walking movement raises questions and provokes laughter, but it also speaks to something deeper. the difficult balancing act between our hyperconnected world’s need for self-reflection and simple times with the integration of technology.
The debate around silent walking highlights how Generation Z’s connection with technology—whether viewed as a game-changing discovery or as a nostalgic trip back to a time before technology—is changing.
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