My husband and I bought our granddaughter a wedding gift from her registry. She reached out and accused us of being cheap after getting the wedding present. Now, she is upset and threatens to cut us off because we didn’t give her the cash gift that we presented to each of our grandkids a day before their wedding.
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I’m in my 70s, a proud grandmother to five amazing grandkids: three women and two men. I adore my grandkids and often show up for them emotionally and financially. Whenever they have celebrations or hard times, they know that they can count on me.
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The youngest of grandkids, Eloise, got married last October. My husband, who is also in his 70s, and I have a tradition for our grandkids. We buy a small gift from the wedding registry, usually the cheapest item, and then, the day before the wedding, we give them a check for $40,000.
We hope they’ll use it for a house, but it’s ultimately their choice. We also ask them to keep it a secret, considering our large family. Until now, everyone has respected this request.
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This time, we sent an air fryer to our youngest granddaughter, the cheapest thing on her registry. Eloise called us, livid, accusing us of being cheap. I remember picking up her call and she didn’t even say hi, she just started ranting, “Seriously, Grandma? I just got your gift. An air fryer? That’s the cheapest thing you could find on my registry!”
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I was taken aback because as much as the air fryer was the cheapest on their registry, I still thought it’d be useful to them, so I told her that. Eloise kept on complaining, “Useful? Come on, you know you can do better than that. Everyone knows you have the money. I just can’t believe you’d be this cheap with me. It’s embarrassing.”
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In this heated moment, I told her, “Yes, you’re right. We are cheap, old, and useless. The only thing you DIDN’T know is that the day before the wedding, we were going to gift you a check for $40,000.”
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I revealed this in an attempt to explain to Eloise about the cash gift we usually give our grandkids before the wedding but she was so angry at this point, that she wasn’t listening to a thing I said. I speculated that maybe she didn’t believe we would gift her such an amount of money after only buying her an air fryer.
Eventually, she said, “No, it’s clear. You just don’t love me enough to show it. You know how much pressure I’m under with the wedding. And then, this? It’s like you don’t even care,” then she hung up.
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Despite my husband and I’s shock at Eloise’s reaction, we then bought her a China set, hoping to appease her, but decided against giving her the $40,000, feeling she hadn’t earned it.
Fast forward to last week. Eloise talked to her brother and found out that we were telling her the truth about the money. After confirming it with her cousins, she, called again, accusing us of discrimination, “I just found out that it’s true you gave the money to everyone else when they got married. Why didn’t I get anything?”
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We stood firm, explaining our stance was due to her initial reaction, “We felt after your reaction to the wedding gift, it wasn’t right to go ahead and gift you the money.” Eloise pleaded trying to convince us otherwise, “So, you’re punishing me? Is that it? Because I was upset about an air fryer?”
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I was angry that she didn’t even understand what she did wrong. “It wasn’t about the air fryer, Eloise. It was how you spoke to us, the disrespect. That’s not something we expected or can support,” I explained.
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Eloise implored us, nearly in tears, “But that’s so unfair! I was stressed, Grandma. Planning a wedding is hard, and I just snapped. I didn’t mean any of it.” I felt like she should have only apologized to us instead of finding excuses to justify her behavior.
However, I told her, “We understand that it’s a stressful time, but actions and words have consequences. We hoped you’d understand the value of family and love over material things.” Full of desperation, Eloise added, “But you don’t understand! Can’t we just forget all this happened? I need that money, Grandma.”
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She pleaded, threatened to boycott Christmas, and accused us of cutting her off but we didn’t budge. In the end, I expressed, “We love you very much. This has nothing to do with cutting you off. We just hope you’ll reflect on this and understand why we made our decision.”
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Now, Eloise has followed up on her threat and she’s boycotting Christmas. Her mother, who is our daughter-in-law, is siding with her, calling us unreasonable. However, we feel that after all we have done for Eloise, the air fryer gift, shouldn’t have triggered this reaction.
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For context, we had already paid for her college, and her parents covered her graduate school and half the wedding. Additionally, she and her husband are financially comfortable and do not desperately need our money.
We’re also not upset with our grandkids for revealing the cash gift since she is among the group of family members who are allowed to know about it. Our reason for sending the air fryer earlier was that we live far away, so we always send our gifts early.
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The wedding gift is also separate from the money, which we give with the hope it will be used for something significant, like a home. Now, we feel like the action we took towards Eloise was well deserved and we are not going back on our decisions even if she and her mom threaten to do their worst.
Despite the tumultuous events and Eloise’s refusal to understand our perspective, my husband and I stand by our decision. Love and respect in our family are paramount, and we hoped this situation would be a learning experience for her.
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The holidays might be quieter this year with her family’s absence, but our hope is for healing and understanding in the future. Our door and hearts remain open to Eloise, whenever she’s ready to mend fences.
I Never Thought That Losing Everything After Divorce, a Simple Twist of Fate Could Restore My Faith in Love — Story of the Day
After my divorce, I was left with nothing but a broken car on a dark road. Just when I thought things couldn’t get worse, a stranger appeared. That encounter changed everything in ways I never imagined.
As I drove along the coast, the wind whipping through the open window, I tried to focus on the rhythmic sound of the waves crashing against the shore. That old car was all I had left after the brutal divorce, the only thing that hadn’t been taken from me.
The whole thing had been unfair, a cruel twist of fate where I lost everything—my home, my savings, and my trust. That road trip was supposed to clear my mind, but the memories clung to me like a weight I couldn’t shake.
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“I can’t have children, Amanda,” I could still hear David’s voice echoing in my head.
His voice had been soft, even regretful as if he was the victim in all that. And I believed him. I had built our life around that lie and accepted a future without kids, all for him.
“It’s not that simple, honey,” he said whenever I brought it up. “We have each other, isn’t that enough?”
It wasn’t enough, but I convinced myself it was. Until SHE showed up.
I tightened my grip on the steering wheel, remembering the day David’s mistress came to our door. The smug look on her face, the way she casually placed her hand on her swollen belly.
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“David didn’t tell you, did he?” she sneered, her voice dripping with cruel satisfaction. “He’s going to be a father.”
I felt the shame, the anger, burning in my chest again.
“You lied to me!” I had screamed at David that night, my world crashing down as he stood there, silent, unable to even defend himself. It was all so clear how he had played me.
Suddenly, the car sputtered.
“No, no, no, not now!” I muttered, slamming my foot on the gas, but it was no use.
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The car slowed to a stop. Of course, it died in the middle of nowhere. My phone was dead, too.
“Great,” I said aloud, stepping out of the car. “Just great. Alone on a deserted road. What now?”
Panic started to bubble up, but I tried to push it down.
“You’ve handled worse than this, Amanda,” I told myself, but the growing darkness around me said otherwise.
***
The headlights of a pickup truck pierced the thick darkness, and I felt the first spark of hope I’d had in hours. Finally, somebody could help. But as the truck pulled up, that spark quickly fizzled out.
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The man behind the wheel looked like he hadn’t smiled in years. Mid-forties, gruff, with a stern expression that matched his weathered face. He stepped out, glanced at my car, and, without missing a beat, started shaking his head.
“Driving a piece of junk like that? What were you thinking?” he grumbled. His voice was rough and low like he’d been annoyed with the world for a long time.
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I stood there, speechless for a second. I didn’t know what I had expected. Maybe a simple “Do you need help?” But instead, I got criticism.
My first instinct was to snap back, to tell him I didn’t need his attitude on top of everything else. But the darkness around me reminded me how little choice I had.
“Look, I didn’t plan for this to happen,” I said. “I know it’s a wreck, but it’s all I’ve got. Can you help me or not?”
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“You can’t stay here all night. It’s not safe for someone like you to be stuck out here. No phone, no car… You should’ve known better.”
He gave the car another disapproving look, then turned back to his truck. “Come on, I’ll tow it for you.”
That man wasn’t thrilled about helping me, but what other option did I have?
“Fine,” I muttered. “Thank you.”
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He didn’t respond to my gratitude, he hooked my car up to his truck with quick, practiced movements, like he’d done this a hundred times before. I climbed into his truck, the leather seat cold against my skin.
“The nearest station is closed at this time,” he said as he started driving. “You’re lucky I came along. There’s nowhere else for miles.”
“So, what now?” I asked, already fearing the answer.
“I’ve got a house nearby,” he replied. “You can stay the night. No point in sleeping in your car.”
I frowned, unsure how to feel about staying with a stranger.
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But the nearest motel was too far away, and I didn’t have the money for it, anyway.
“I guess that’s my only option,” I said quietly.
“Pretty much. Name’s Clayton, by the way.”
***
When we pulled into Clayton’s driveway, the lights inside flickered dimly through the windows, casting long shadows across the porch. I hesitated before getting out.
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But then I saw the front door swing open, and a teenage girl appeared in the doorway.
“That’s Lily,” Clayton grumbled as we walked toward the house. “My daughter.”
“Lily, this is Amanda,” Clayton said gruffly, barely looking at his daughter.
“Hi,” I offered, forcing a small smile, hoping to ease some of the tension.
Lily muttered, “Hi,” without any warmth. She barely acknowledged me as her gaze quickly drifted away. The silence was thick, making me feel even more out of place.
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“Let’s eat,” Clayton said, leading us into the dining room.
Dinner wasn’t much better. Clayton sat at the head of the table, grumbling about everything from the weather to the condition of the roads.
“Storm coming tomorrow,” he mumbled. “Road’s gonna get all torn up.”
Lily rolled her eyes. “You’ve been saying that for days, Dad.”
“It’s true. I saw it on the news,” Clayton shot back, his voice a low growl.
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Every time he spoke, it felt like he was barking at the world. I quietly picked at my food. Lily glanced up at me occasionally, shooting me those same disapproving looks.
“You fixed that faucet yet?” Lily suddenly asked, breaking the silence. Her tone was sharp, aimed at her father.
“I’ll get to it,” Clayton replied, clearly irritated.
“You’ve been saying that for weeks.”
“Lily,” he warned.
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She slammed her fork down. “Mom’s barely been gone a few months, and now you’re bringing some stranger into the house?”
The tension was unbearable, and panic started to bubble up inside me. I swallowed hard, forcing myself to stay calm.
“Thank you for dinner,” I said quickly, pushing my chair back. “Good night.”
I retreated to the small guest room they had offered me. Sleep didn’t come easily, but eventually, exhaustion won out.
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***
I woke up in the middle of the night to the sound of someone moving around. The room was dark, but I could hear the faint rustling.
I fumbled for the light switch. The room lit up, and there was … Lily, standing by my bag. She was holding a piece of jewelry, and her eyes widened in shock when I caught her.
“What are you doing?” I demanded, sitting up in bed.
“I found this,” Lily said, her voice shaking, “in your bag. It’s my mom’s. You stole it!”
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I couldn’t believe what was happening. Was she trying to frame me?
Before I could respond, Clayton burst into the room. “What’s going on in here?”
“It’s a misunderstanding,” I said, glancing at Lily. “She was confused. Maybe sleepwalking, and we thought we’d have a little fun. Right, Lily?”
Lily stared at me. To my surprise, she nodded, still clutching the jewelry. Clayton looked between us, clearly not convinced, but he was too tired to argue.
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“Go to bed, both of you,” he muttered and left the room.
As soon as he was gone, I turned to Lily. “Do you want some milk?”
She blinked as if not sure what to expect, but eventually nodded. In the kitchen, we sat together, the tension easing as the night went on.
“I’m sorry,” Lily finally whispered. “I just miss her so much. My dad’s been different ever since she died.”
“I understand,” I said softly, handing her a warm mug.
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“Your dad wouldn’t have brought me here if he didn’t trust me.”
Lily sighed. “He’s not always like this. He used to be… different. Kinder. He just misses her.”
She paused. “The repair shop? It’s his. He didn’t want to let you go. That’s why he brought you here.”
I stared at her, realizing Clayton wasn’t as simple as I had thought. Suddenly, the kitchen door creaked open, and Clayton stepped inside.
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***
The morning sunlight filtered through the kitchen windows as Lily and I fumbled around, pretending we had just woken up and decided to make breakfast.
Clayton shuffled into the kitchen. He gave us both a quick nod, then turned his attention straight to me.
“The repair shop opened up,” he said gruffly. “I’m ready to work on your car. You got the keys?”
I fished the keys from my pocket and handed them over. Lily let out a small giggle, and I noticed her giving me a playful wink.
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“Hey, Dad,” Lily chimed in. “Why don’t you let Amanda stay a little longer? You know, just until the car’s fixed. I’m bored, and she’s good company. It’s nice having someone else around.”
Clayton looked between us.
“Why would it matter to you?” he grumbled. “Weren’t you headed somewhere important? Don’t want to hold you up if you’re in a hurry.”
I paused. The truth hovered on the edge of my tongue, something I hadn’t explained to anyone yet.
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“I wasn’t really headed anywhere,” I said, looking down at the table. “I was running away from my old life. My ex-husband… he took everything from me. The house, the money. Everything.”
He wasn’t expecting that, I could tell. He sighed and scratched the back of his head.
“Well, I suppose you can stay a bit. Lily doesn’t usually warm up to people, so that’s something.”
Lily grinned at me. “Thanks, Dad.”
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***
A few months passed in what felt like the blink of an eye. My car had been repaired long ago, but I was still there, in that small, quiet house.
Clayton had changed. He spent more time with us, especially with Lily, who had grown closer to me with every passing day. She was like the daughter I’d never had.
We spent long afternoons together while Clayton worked at his shop, laughing, talking, and sharing stories. For the first time in years, I felt like I had a purpose again.
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One evening, as we all sat by the ocean, eating ice cream and watching the waves roll in, Clayton turned to me.
“You could stay, you know,” he said. “You don’t have to go anywhere.”
“I think I’d like that,” I replied with a smile.
What Clayton didn’t know yet was that in eight months, he’d be a father again. Life had a funny way of giving second chances.
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