How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Animal Rescued from the Cold Turns Out to Be a Hairless Raccoon!
For animals, fur is more than simply a stylish accessory—it keeps them warm in the winter months. It also contributes to their distinct look. However, did you know that some animals could look drastically different when they are completely bald?
After being saved, an amazing creature that seemed like a hairless cat turned out to be an exceptional and unusual hairless raccoon. Let’s explore the tale of this unusual creature and her amazing survival!
Hope for Wildlife, a charitable conservation group based in Nova Scotia, had an unexpected guest last month. During the bitterly cold winter, a couple in West Arichat found a shivering animal in their property. The animal seemed like a Sphynx cat at first, but it was actually a completely bald raccoon!
Without its distinctive fur pattern that resembles a mask, raccoons are difficult to distinguish. This small animal, a northern raccoon, is completely bald as a result of severe alopecia. Although balding raccoons have been seen before, according to Hope for Wildlife director Hope Swinimer, this particular raccoon’s condition was the worst. It’s merely tufts of fur around the feet, ankles, and nose, she said. This situation is serious.
The raccoon was named Rufus, after the character from the show Kim Possible who was a naked mole rat, even though it was a female. The precise reason behind Rufus’ hair loss is still unknown. According to the rescue group, she might have an autoimmune disease that is harming her hair follicles. Since her skin seemed healthy, they ruled out conditions including parasites, mange, and fungal illnesses.
Raccoons depend on their fur to keep warm and shield them from the weather. The fact that Rufus avoided frostbite or worse throughout the hard winter without fur astounded the rescuers.
“We’re pretty amazed that this little lady survived the winter without fur and without getting frostbite or worse,” they gushed on Facebook. They went on to talk about Rufus’ lively attitude and said that her own willpower was the reason she was able to survive. Despite her initial state of debilitation, she eventually began to exhibit indications of recovery, developing resilience and strength.
Rufus might end up staying at the shelter permanently given the conditions. She’ll have a dedicated habitat with an outside area she can crawl into to be warm. In addition, the environment will provide conveniences like nesting boxes and hammocks.
This amazing hairless raccoon has us completely enthralled! We are happy that Rufus was discovered and is finally getting the attention she needs. It’s amazing how she was able to live in the wild for such a long time.Please tell people about this amazing story if you love animals!
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