There’s something magical about Cyndi Lauper, the lively artist behind the 1983 hit “Girls Just Want to Have Fun,” a song that quickly became a global anthem, encouraging women everywhere to embrace fun and freedom.
Lauper is the definition of cool. Her quirky, carefree personality, playful fashion, and colorful hair inspire people with her message to always be yourself.
However, behind the playful voice that spreads joy to her listeners, Lauper battles a severe skin condition called psoriasis. At one point, it was so intense that, as she described, “It looked like someone threw boiling water on me.”
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The legendary pop star, now 69, recently opened up about her ongoing battle with psoriasis—a chronic skin condition that has no cure—since she was first diagnosed in 2010.
Psoriasis can cause severe pain, itching, discomfort, and rough, scaly patches on the skin. About 8 million people in the U.S. and 125 million globally live with this condition.
Lauper’s symptoms started as scalp irritation and general discomfort, which worsened over time.
Initially, she thought her itchy scalp was from frequently coloring her hair, but the symptoms continued, causing both physical pain and emotional strain for the award-winning musician.
The “Time after Time” singer is a busy mother, touring pop star, and activist.
Inspired by her sister Ellen, who is a lesbian, Lauper has become a strong supporter of LGBT rights, working tirelessly to advocate for the community.
Her 2005 song “Above the Clouds” was written in honor of Matthew Shepard, a 21-year-old gay student who was beaten to death in Wyoming. Lauper also started the “True Colors” concert tour in 2007-2008, which raises support for local and private LGBT charities and organizations.
Besides her advocacy, Lauper has an impressive career as a singer, songwriter, and actor. Over the past forty years, she has received many awards, including a Tony Award, two Grammy Awards, an MTV Music Video Award, and an Emmy Award for her role in a 1995 episode of the TV show *Mad About You*.
She also has a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, is a member of the Songwriters Hall of Fame, and in 2013, her humanitarian work earned her a special invitation to attend President Barack Obama’s second inauguration.
Despite her diagnosis, Lauper continues to stay strong. She is committed to not letting psoriasis hold her back and works on managing stress to avoid triggering flare-ups.
When she was first diagnosed and dealing with severe psoriasis, Lauper wrote the music and lyrics for the Broadway musical *Kinky Boots*, which won her a Tony Award for Best Original Score. She became the first woman to win a Tony in that category on her own. The show also won five more Tony Awards, including Best New Musical.
In a conversation with the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), Lauper openly shared her experience living with the autoimmune skin condition, hoping her story might help others.
“I’ve never been able to really manage stress,” she admitted, explaining that she now takes a holistic approach to healing and stress relief both at home and on the road. She learned reiki, a Japanese technique for relaxation, saying, “That helps me.”
Along with reiki, Lauper works to stay grounded by meditating, practicing yoga, or taking walks in the fresh air with her dog and her husband, David Thornton, whom she married in 1991. The couple has one son, born in 1997.
“It’s not a bad thing to take care of yourself,” Lauper said, urging people to always “make a little time for you.”
She encourages starting small. “How about five minutes for you?” she added.
Lauper speaks with resilience about her experience, explaining that “when psoriasis gets really bad, it’s really hard to get up again.” She shared that at times, she couldn’t regulate her body temperature, leading to chills that could result in hypothermia. Even when resting, her condition only worsened, and hearing people dismiss it as “just a rash” added to her struggles.
“You don’t have to suffer,” Lauper said. Treatments, such as topical and oral medication or injections, can help ease the often unbearable symptoms of psoriasis. For Lauper, she found relief with Novartis’ Cosentyx, and as a spokesperson for the medication, she happily shares that she’s been “four years clear.”
In 2017, Lauper spoke with HealthDay about managing her psoriasis.
“It’s funny—you start wearing gloves, or this and that, hoping [psoriasis] is invisible, but it’s not. I didn’t show it off, like, ‘Woo-hoo, check this out!’ Doesn’t everyone try to hide it? You’d be surprised how many people have it and don’t talk about it. It’s one of those invisible things, so it’s good to talk about it.”
She shares more about it on her podcast *PsO in the Know*, where she talks with celebrities, advocates, and everyday people who offer insights on living with psoriasis.
The show is now in its third season and is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Pandora, and Stitcher.
Lauper isn’t the only celebrity with psoriasis. Kim Kardashian, now 42, was diagnosed at 30 and is open about her challenges. Her mom, Kris Jenner, 67, had her first outbreak in her late 20s and said it was “life-changing.” Other celebrities with psoriasis include musician Art Garfunkel, 81, actor Jon Lovitz, 65, and Jerry Mathers, 74, known as “The Beaver.”
My Husband Left Our Kids Home Alone & Left for Our Friends’ Wedding Without Me but He Didn’t Know a Small Detail
When Kate’s husband took her car and left their kids behind to sneak off to a wedding he’d refused to attend, she felt betrayed until she realized the truth about why he was there. But what he didn’t know? Kate had the power to stop him in his tracks — and she didn’t hesitate to use it.
What would you do if someone you trusted and built a life with betrayed you? Would you fight for them? Or would you walk away and never look back? I never thought I’d be asking myself these questions, but here I am. My name’s Kate. I’m 32, a mom of two, and last weekend, my husband shattered everything I thought I knew about him.
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It all started with an invite to an old college friend’s wedding.
Emily wasn’t a close friend anymore, but Max and I had known her for years. She was the kind of person you couldn’t help but root for. She was kind, bubbly, and a little high-strung but always sweet.
When we got the invite, I was excited to go. But Max? Not so much.
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“Look what came in the mail!” I called out excitedly, waving the elegant cream envelope. “Emily’s finally getting married!”
“I’m not going to that wedding,” he flatly said as we sat on the couch.
“What? Why not?”
“Because I don’t want to, Kate,” he snapped, rubbing his temples. “I have no interest in standing around making small talk with people I barely remember.”
A frustrated man | Source: Midjourney
A few days passed, and I assumed he would change his mind. But Max remained stubborn.
“You’ve been acting strange since the invitation arrived,” I said softly, moving closer to him. “What’s really going on?”
He shifted away, anxiety visible in every line of his body. “Nothing’s going on. I just don’t want to waste a perfectly good Saturday with people from our past.”
I raised an eyebrow. “Emily’s not just some random person, Max. She’s our —”
“She’s your friend,” he cut in. “Not mine.”
An angry woman | Source: Midjourney
“Since when?” I demanded, hurt creeping into my voice. “You used to love hanging out with her and her group. Remember all those game nights in college?”
His face darkened. “That was a lifetime ago, Kate. People change. Relationships change.”
The tone was final. I didn’t push it, though I couldn’t help but feel hurt. Max wasn’t usually like this. Sure, he could be stubborn, but this was a different level of dismissive.
“Fine,” I said, forcing a smile. “You can stay home with the kids, then.”
He readily agreed, and that was the plan.
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On the day of the wedding, I woke up early and headed to the salon. Max was supposed to take the kids to the amusement park while I got ready.
“Daddy, aren’t you going to the wedding?” Emma asked over breakfast, milk dribbling down her chin.
Max tensed, then forced a smile. “No, princess. Daddy’s going to have a special day with you and Liam instead.”
“But Mommy’s going,” Liam pouted. “Why can’t we all go?”
“Sometimes grown-ups make complicated decisions,” Max muttered, avoiding my eyes across the table.
A sad man lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney
“Don’t worry, babe,” he’d said that morning, squeezing my hand. “You go enjoy yourself. I’ve got the kids.”
“You promise everything will be okay?” I whispered, searching his face for any sign of what was bothering him.
“Promise,” he smiled, but something in his expression seemed off. “The kids and I will have a blast. Maybe we’ll even build that pillow fort Emma’s been begging for.”
For a moment, I felt relieved. Maybe I’d overreacted. Maybe he wasn’t being distant and tired. But I was WRONG.
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I came home a few hours later, hair styled and makeup done, feeling excited for the evening ahead. But when I walked into the house, my heart SANK.
The living room was a mess and littered with abandoned toys, snack wrappers, and the remnants of what looked like a very rushed lunch. The kids were sad and alone. But that wasn’t the only problem when I rushed out to check. The problem was that my car — our only car — was gone.
And so was Max.
Grayscale shot of a sad little boy and girl sitting together | Source: Pexels
“Emma?” I called, trying to stay calm.
My 7-year-old poked her head out from behind the couch. “Yeah?”
“Where’s Dad?”
She climbed up onto the couch, looking entirely unbothered. “He left.”
“Left? What do you mean ‘he left’?”
“He got a call,” she said, plopping down and grabbing the remote. “He said, ‘I’m coming, don’t worry… wedding,’ and then he dropped us off and drove away.”
“Sweetie,” I knelt beside her, trying to keep my voice steady, “did he say anything else? Anything at all?”
A sad little girl holding a stuffed bunny | Source: Midjourney
Emma twisted a strand of hair around her finger. “He was acting weird, Mommy.”
“Weird how, baby?”
“His hands were shaking when he got the call. And he kept saying ‘I shouldn’t, I shouldn’t’ while packing our lunch. Then he just… left.”
My stomach twisted. “He went to the wedding?”
Emma nodded, flipping through the channels. “I think so.”
I didn’t know whether to scream or cry. He’d taken MY CAR, ditched OUR KIDS, and gone to the wedding he’d REFUSED to attend. And he hadn’t even bothered to text me.
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I grabbed my phone and called him. But it landed straight in voicemail. I called again. Nothing.
“Unbelievable,” I muttered under my breath. My hands were shaking as I sat down on the edge of the couch. This wasn’t just selfish — it was a betrayal.
I knew I couldn’t leave Emma and her little brother, Liam, alone, so I called my mom.
“Hey, can you come over? I need to take care of something.”
“Kate, what’s going on? You sound upset.”
“I’ll explain later. Can you just get here as soon as possible?”
“Sweetheart, you’re scaring me,” my mom’s voice cracked with concern. “Did something happen with Max?”
A frustrated woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
“Mom, please,” I choked back tears. “I just need you here. Now.”
She didn’t ask any more questions, and ten minutes later, she was at my door.
“Kate, what happened?” she asked as she stepped inside.
I shook my head, grabbing my purse. “I can’t… I don’t have time to explain right now. I’ll call you once I’m on the road.”
“Kate, wait,” she caught my arm. “Whatever’s going on, be careful. Think about the kids.”
“I am thinking about the kids,” I whispered fiercely. “That’s exactly why I have to go.”
Without waiting for her response, I grabbed her car keys and headed out.
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The drive to the venue felt surreal. A thousand thoughts ran through my mind. Why would Max do this? Why lie to me, leave the kids, and steal my car? What was so important about this wedding that he couldn’t stay away?
On the way, a thought hit me like a lightning bolt. The guest list. I’d helped Emily coordinate it weeks ago. I quickly dialed the venue manager.
“Hi, this is Kate. I need you to do me a favor. Quick question — has a man named Max arrived there yet?”
The manager hesitated for a moment. “Uh, no, I don’t think so. Not yet.”
“Good,” I said. “Listen carefully… under no circumstances should you let him in. He’s not invited, and it’s extremely important he doesn’t get past the doors.”
A woman sitting in the car and talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
There was a pause on the other end. “Uh… sure. Consider it handled.”
“Thank you,” I breathed. “And Sarah? If he asks who blocked him… make sure he knows it was ME.”
I hung up and pulled into the wedding venue parking lot about ten minutes later.
Max was standing outside the entrance, pacing like a madman. His phone was pressed to his ear, and he was yelling loud enough for me to hear through the car window.
I stayed in the car for a moment, watching. He looked frantic, and for once, I didn’t feel sorry for him.
An anxious man engaged on a phonecall | Source: Midjourney
My phone buzzed, and his name popped up on the screen.
“WAS THIS YOU?!” he shouted the second I answered. “DID YOU DO THIS TO ME?”
I couldn’t help but smirk. “What’s wrong, Max? Something keeping you from sneaking into the wedding you didn’t want to go to?”
“Are you serious right now?” he barked. “Let me in, Kate!”
“Not a chance.”
“You’re being ridiculous, Kate!”
“No, Max. You stole my car, abandoned our kids, and lied to me. What’s ridiculous is you thinking I’d let you get away with it.”
An angry man yelling on the phone | Source: Midjourney
“Kate, please,” his voice cracked. “You don’t understand what’s at stake here!”
“What’s at stake? What’s at stake is our marriage, Max. Our family. And you just threw it all away for… what?”
Before he could respond, I hung up and stepped out of the car. As I made my way toward him, Emily appeared at the entrance, looking confused.
“Max?” she called, her voice unsure.
He turned to her, his entire demeanor shifting. “Emily! Finally. Look, I just —”
A shocked bride | Source: Midjourney
“What are you doing here?” she asked, cutting him off.
“You called me,” he said, softening his tone. “You said you were nervous, so I came.”
Emily blinked, stunned. “I… I called you this afternoon. Look, I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have done that. I didn’t think you’d actually show up.”
“That makes two of us,” I said, stepping into view.
Emily’s eyes widened. “Kate… I didn’t —”
“What’s going on?” I asked, crossing my arms.
She looked between me and Max, clearly panicked. “I swear, I didn’t mean for this to happen.”
“Didn’t mean for WHAT to happen, Emily?”
A sad bride with her eyes downcast | Source: Midjourney
Her shoulders slumped, and she let out a shaky breath. “Max and I… we were involved. Years ago. Before you two were together.”
I felt like the ground had shifted beneath me.
“It’s not what you think,” Max said quickly.
“Oh, really?” I snapped. “So you didn’t just abandon your family to come running to your ex’s wedding?”
“Kate, it’s not like that!” he said, his voice desperate.
“Then what is it like, Max?” I demanded, tears burning in my eyes. “Because from where I’m standing, you chose HER over our children!”
A furious woman yelling at someone | Source: Midjourney
But Emily wasn’t done. “I don’t know why he’s here,” she admitted. “I called him this afternoon because I was nervous. I just wanted to apologize — for leaving him, for everything — before starting fresh with my new husband. But before I could finish talking, the call dropped or something. I couldn’t hear him anymore. I tried calling back, but my calls went straight to voicemail. I never asked him to come.”
I stared at her, then at Max, my chest tightening with every second. After a tense standoff, Emily retreated inside, leaving me alone with Max.
“Do you have any idea what you’ve done?” I said, my voice shaking.
“Kate, I was just trying to help —”
“No,” I cut him off. “You weren’t trying to help. You were trying to… what? Relive your glory days? Prove to yourself you still mean something to her?”
A desperate man holding his head | Source: Midjourney
He opened his mouth to respond, but no words came out.
“Our children, Max,” I whispered, tears falling freely now. “You left our children. Do you know what that means?”
“Kate, please,” he reached for me, but I stepped back. “You don’t understand what I was trying to prevent!”
I spun around, fury burning in my chest. “Prevent? You left our children alone! What could possibly be worth that?”
A furious woman pointing her finger | Source: Midjourney
“I thought…” he trailed off, running his hands through his hair. “I thought if I came here, I could stop her from making the same mistake I did.”
“What mistake?”
“Marrying the wrong person,” he whispered, and the words hit me like a physical blow.
I shook my head, my voice barely audible. “Then I guess we both made that mistake, didn’t we?”
I turned and walked away, not waiting for his response.
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That night, as I tucked Emma and Liam into bed, Emma wrapped her little arms around my neck.
“Mommy?” she whispered. “Are you and Daddy going to be okay?”
I held her tighter, my heart breaking. “I don’t know, baby. But I promise you and Liam will always be okay.”
“Pinky promise?”
“Pinky promise,” I said, linking our fingers together.
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Later, alone in the kitchen, I stared at my wedding ring as my phone buzzed with another message from Max: “Please forgive me… I’m sorry. We need to talk.”
I typed back three words: “Not tonight, Max.” Then I turned off my phone and let the tears finally fall.
I don’t know what’s next for us. But I do know one thing — I’m done putting myself last. Because sometimes, the hardest part isn’t the betrayal itself. It’s accepting that the person you love isn’t the person you thought they were.
A sad woman standing near the window | Source: Midjourney
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