Today, Reba McEntire is 68 years old, and she truly deserves all the praise she gets. It feels like she has been part of my life forever, and I still listen to her music several times a week.
However, Reba’s life hasn’t always been easy. This year marks the 32nd anniversary of a tragic plane crash that took the lives of several of her friends.
After breaking into country music in the late 1970s and early 1980s, Reba McEntire was named “best singer” for four years in a row by the Country Music Association. She also has a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.
But despite her amazing career and success, Reba has faced many personal challenges. In 2022, her mother, Jacqueline, lost her battle with cancer at the age of 93.
“She had a wonderful, full, healthy life and was absolutely ready to go. The cancer might think it won the battle, but we’re giving God all the credit for choosing the time for her to go home,” the country star wrote on social media.
Jacqueline McEntire always dreamed of being a professional country singer, and she was the one who taught Reba to sing, fulfilling her ambitions through her daughter.
“She left knowing how much she is loved, and we all know how much she loved us. We’re all going to miss her, but we have so many wonderful memories,” Reba said.
Reba truly understands what it means to face sorrow and loss.
Thirty-two years ago, on March 16, Reba McEntire lost seven of her band members and her tour manager in a tragic plane crash after a concert.
I remember that day in 1991. I was driving to work and heard about the crash on the radio. My heart skipped a beat when I thought Reba was also on the plane.
But she wasn’t.
Reba and her band had performed in San Diego on March 16, 1991, and were heading to Fort Wayne, Indiana, for their next concert on the tour.
Two planes were waiting at the airport in San Diego. The band members and tour manager flew on ahead while Reba, her husband, and her manager stayed overnight in San Diego.
The first plane tragically crashed just ten miles east of the airport.
Over the years, Reba has often remembered her lost friends.
In a heartfelt interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2012, she talked about the day her band died.
“The tip of the wing of the airplane hit a rock on the side of Otay Mountain, and it killed everyone on the plane,” McEntire told Winfrey.
“When we were notified, Narvel (Reba’s manager) went to meet with our pilot, and he told us what had happened. Narvel came back to the hotel room where I was — it was two or three o’clock in the morning — and he said one of the planes had crashed. I asked, ‘Are they OK?’ He said, ‘I don’t think so.’ I asked, ‘But you’re not sure?’ He said, ‘I don’t think so.’”
Reba had tears in her eyes as she remembered the details of the tragedy.
“Narvel was going room to room with a phone and calling…” she began, pausing as tears filled her eyes. “I’m sorry — it’s been 20 years, but it’s just like — I don’t guess it ever quits hurting,” she said. “But I can see that room. I can see Narvel walking back and forth.”
Now, 32 years have passed since the crash. Recently, she shared a photo of her band on Instagram to remember the tragic events of that day.
In 2020, she also paid tribute to her friends.
“29 years ago today, I lost my friends in a plane crash. The timing of Mama’s passing with that anniversary seems appropriate,” she wrote.
“I know they’re all in Heaven together and taking care of each other. Let’s keep finding ways to take care of each other down here on earth and never take one moment with our loved ones for granted.”
Reba’s fans quickly offered their support to the country star. Many sent positive thoughts and prayers.
“Reba, I’ve always loved your music, our shared horse background, and now following you on Insta. Prayers for you and your mother,” one fan wrote.
In 2023, Reba showed once again that she will never forget her friends and still mourns their tragic loss.
“Their love for music and the stage gives us all the strength to go on,” she wrote, sharing a video of the group performing together.
Cashier Mocks Elderly, Low-Income Woman – Fate Intervenes, Transforming Her Life Profoundly
Not too long ago, on a routine trip to the neighborhood grocery shop, I had a series of encounters that turned my life completely upside down. The cashier on this particular day treated me with a level of disrespect that was unexpected and unpleasant, probably due to personal sorrow or prejudice stemming from my lowly appearance. In the end, this traumatic experience taught me a profound and life-changing lesson that I feel obligated to impart to others.
Though most people who know me refer to me as Maggie, my name is Margaret. Having moved away from my family and now living alone, I now consider the simple pleasure of a fresh bun—which I had ventured to the grocery for on that fateful day—to be a little but meaningful indulgence. My ordinarily peaceful days are somewhat cheered up by these small pleasures.
I was shocked and disappointed to see that I had misplaced the two dollars I needed to finish my transaction when I got to the checkout. I started hurriedly digging through my purse for any spare change that may work, completely overwhelmed with panic.
The cashier gave me a mocking, impatient look as she saw my desperate quest. Old lady, hurry up. She said harshly, “Stop wasting our time if you can’t afford it. Her words sliced through me, making me feel even more embarrassed as I was burdened by other customers’ critical looks. I felt a thick quiet descend upon me as embarrassment blazed across my face.
I was about to give up, feeling hopeless and overwhelmed by the whole thing, when something unexpected happened. A display of canned goods was knocked over by the cashier, who was so eager to get rid of me and help the next client. Everyone’s focus was momentarily diverted from me to the mess by the loud clatter of the cans as they hit the floor.
As the chaos started, a worried client said, “Watch out!” Now clearly agitated, the cashier rushed to pick up the cans but, in her haste, tripped and fell, bringing attention to herself even more. For a moment, I was relieved of the humiliation I was feeling because of this chaotic event.
A good-natured stranger moved forward as the store took a minute to take in the scene. Having seen the entire encounter, he approached to offer his assistance out of compassion. “Please, allow me to purchase this bun for you,” he added, smiling softly as if to alleviate some of the harshness I had just encountered. He then extended the bun in my direction.
I was grateful for his compassion and experienced a slight sense of validation that the cashier’s impolite behavior had not gone undetected. I managed to add, “Thank you so very much,” my voice quivering a little from a mixture of relief and appreciation. “You don’t know how much this means to me right now.”
“There’s really no issue at all,” he comforted me. “By the way, my name is John.”
I answered, “Margaret, but please call me Maggie,” feeling a little lighter as his generosity broke through the darkness of the earlier moments.
That’s when John started genuinely caring about me. “Do you live nearby?” he worriedly asked.
Indeed, I answered, “just around the corner.” “Now that I’m single, my family has moved on without me.”
John said, “That’s hard to hear,” with sympathy. “What were your activities prior to retiring?”
“I taught chemistry,” I said, experiencing a brief moment of pride for the first time in a long time.
John’s curiosity caused his eyes to expand. “Wow, that is amazing! My girls are having a lot of difficulty in their chemistry classes as they pursue their medical degrees. With hope, he inquired, “Would you be interested in tutoring them?”
My surprise was caused by the proposition. I hadn’t taught in years, so the idea of rekindling my love of chemistry and the classroom was both thrilling and intimidating. I said, “I would be honored,” feeling a glimmer of excitement flare up within of me. “It would be amazing to connect with young minds that are eager to learn and to feel useful again.”
“It’s amazing!” John shouted. “Let’s trade contact details. I hope to see you soon, along with Sarah and Emily. They would really benefit from your knowledge.
After exchanging phone numbers, John graciously offered to drive me home. We talked further about my previous experiences as a teacher and his children’ academic aspirations and challenges while we drove. I felt like I had made a new friend by the time he left me off at my humble home; someone who valued me more than my age or my financial situation.
I added, “Thank you once more, John,” as I got out of his vehicle. You’ve given me more than simply a bun today. I feel like I have a purpose again because of you.
“You’re welcome, Maggie,” he smiled warmly in response. “I’ll give you a call shortly to set up the initial tutoring session time.”
With a renewed sense of optimism and expectation, I watched him drive off. I felt appreciated and could see a way forward where I could once again make a significant contribution for the first time in a very long time.
I experienced a profound sensation of rejuvenation as soon as I entered my home. I proceeded to my bedroom and unlocked my wardrobe, revealing my former teaching attire. They were still in good shape, tucked in nicely like they were just waiting to be put to use. I picked out a crisp blouse and skirt, and as I put on my clothes, enthusiasm and nostalgia for my teaching days returned. It seemed as though I was resuming a function that had previously defined me and that I had assumed had been abandoned but was now emerging as a guiding light for the future.
I visited with Sarah and Emily, John’s daughters, the following day. They were intelligent, motivated students who were ready to take in all I had to teach them. I was so happy and satisfied tutoring them that it made me remember why I had loved teaching for so long. As we dug further into the nuances of chemistry over the course of the weeks, I saw a marked improvement in their comprehension and confidence.
“Maggie, my chemistry test result was A+!” One afternoon, Sarah said, her face glowing with accomplishment and satisfaction.
That’s fantastic, Sarah! I responded with a wave of pride in myself, saying, “I knew you could do it.” Observing their development was immensely satisfying, and news of my tutoring’s influence quickly circulated across the neighborhood.
Could you also tutor my son, Mrs. Maggie? One day, a concerned and sincere neighbor asked, “He’s having trouble in his science classes.”
The chance to increase my impact and assist additional youngsters touched my heart, so I said, “Of course, I’d be happy to help.”
My little house quickly became into a hive of activity, laughing and learning, full with young minds ready to succeed. I had restored my identity as a respected teacher who was improving the lives of others; I was no longer just the lonely grandma who had trouble at the grocery store.
John gave him a ring one evening to see how his daughters were doing. His voice was full of thanks as he replied, “Maggie, I can’t thank you enough for what you’re doing for Sarah and Emily.”
John, it’s a pleasure for me. I responded, thinking back on how much my life had changed since our accidental meeting at the grocery. “They’re wonderful girls, and I’m so glad I can help,” I said.
I gazed about my bustling home, which was suddenly full of pupils and the hum of learning, as I hung up the phone. I accepted that I had been given another chance at life and resolved to seize any moment I had to mentor and uplift others.
One day, full of pride and confidence, I made the decision to go back to the same store where it all started. I was curious to observe the cashier’s reaction when I bought another bun.
It was the same cashier I had seen earlier, as I walked up to the counter. I made sure to stay a little while longer, seeming to look in my handbag for cash once again. But the cashier’s demeanor was noticeably different this time.
“Ma’am, take your time. Is there anything more I can do to assist you? In sharp contrast to our last conversation, she asked in a courteous, calm tone.
“No, thank you,” I answered, giving her the cash for the bun while feeling both happy and thoughtful about the harsh truth that appearances frequently lead to judgment.
I thought about the important lesson I had learned as I left the store: the power of compassion and understanding to change not just individual lives but entire communities. I made the decision to keep imparting these ideals to my kids in the hopes of encouraging them to see past appearances and recognize the complexity of each person’s unique story.
I had find my passion and purpose through this journey, which was started by a small act of kindness and an unanticipated change in my life. I was dedicated to promoting compassion and empathy as a teacher once more, making sure that every student I came into contact with learnt to place more emphasis on a person’s inner qualities than on their external looks.
This metamorphosis involved more than just going back to work; it involved resurrecting a crucial aspect of myself that had been neglected. It served as a reminder that you can always make a difference in both your own and other people’s lives.
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