“I hope you die!” she told her former babysitter.
Her first wedding took place on the beach.
She thinks her new look is “a little rebellious.”
Despite her humble birth on July 1, 1967, in Ladysmith, British Columbia, to a waitress and jack-of-all-trades, the brunette in the photo’s birth was reported in a newspaper. She was the first centennial baby.
She went on to have an extraordinary life sparked by another instance of being in the right place at the right time. However, she first had to survive a traumatic childhood of violence and abuse.
Her parents were 17 and 19 when they had her and still went out occasionally. Somewhere between the ages of four and eight, she had a female babysitter who molested her for around a year.
The babysitter “sexualized” the girl at a very young age, making her play inappropriate games. One day, the caretaker told her because she is a “bad girl,” Santa Claus would not visit her that year.
“I ran after her in tears, calling her a liar… and clumsily stabbed her with a candy-cane-striped pen in her chest,” she penned in her memoir. “‘I hope you die!’ I screamed through tears.”
The female predator died in a car accident following her graduation not long after. On hearing the news, the girl came to believe it was her doing, that she had some extraordinary power. She carried this with her for her “entire young life,” eventually confiding in her mom and dad.
Her parent’s volatile relationship would also cause her to act out. Once, when the couple was fighting, she tried to divert attention away from it by telling her younger brother to hide while she convinced the town that he was missing.
Her father would dole out cruel punishments. When she went against his wishes to have her kittens in the house, he placed them in a paper bag and drowned them in the ocean. “I felt like I died that night, too,” she remembers.
Between ages 12 and 14, she was sexually assaulted twice, and a boyfriend kicked her out of a moving car. She once stopped her father from assaulting her mom further by punching him.
The young brunette became known as “Blue Zone Girl” when she was spotted on a jumbotron at a football game, but she would soon be renowned worldwide by her real name, Pamela Anderson.
A beer company scouted her as a spokesmodel, leading to a Playboy shoot. A “Home Improvement” role brought her into the mainstream, but she became a superstar portraying CJ on “Baywatch.”
Her whirlwind romance with drummer Tommy Lee crescendoed into a wedding on the beach in Cancun, Mexico, in 1995, where she wore a white string bikini and he was in trunks. The couple had two children, Dylan Jagger and Brandon Thomas.
The footage they made during their honeymoon was stolen and sold as one of the first sex tapes of the internet era. The actress has never watched the tape but has felt its effects. She wrote how it “ruined lives,” starting with their relationship.
Lee was jailed for four months after he was found guilty of spousal abuse, and they divorced in 1998. She filed for full custody of the children in 2012, claiming that he was emotionally and physically abusive towards them.
Anderson has experienced a resurgence in her career. She has taken back the narrative surrounding her crafted by the media with a memoir, “Love, Pamela,” and participating in the companion Netflix documentary.
Returning to her coastal hometown of Ladysmith, Anderson found a “healing space” with its “crazy calmness.” With limited paparazzi on the island, she feels protected. She lives alone with her five dogs.
“I live a more romantic life now that I’m alone than I did in relationships,” Anderson said of the home she made in her grandparent’s old farmhouse.
The humanitarian runs through the waves on the beach adjoined to her property year-round. When not working, she keeps busy in the 15,000-square-foot vegetable and rose garden and has taken up pottery. “I’m very crafty. I didn’t realize,” she said.
In an interview with People in January 2023, she conceded that she would like to have someone to share her life but that it tended to be a case of her catering to her partner’s needs. After Lee, she wed Kid Rock and married Rick Salomon twice (one of which was annulled).
Her most recent marriage to Dan Hayhurst lasted only a few months and ended in 2021. The “V.I.P.” star has learned that she does not need a man to bring her roses:
“I’ve just planted a hundred rose bushes. I can get them any time I want — and they’re my favorite roses.”
She told Elle in August 2023 that the early morning hours were her favorite time. Anderson spends this time writing a newsletter, though she quipped she does this to distract herself from writing long, rambling emails to her sons.
Just as gardening and writing in the mornings replaced the party lifestyle she enjoyed at the height of her fame, so has her signature beauty look morphed into something else.
She was known for big blond hair, thin brows, and heavy eye makeup with tiny outfits that were, by her own account, “wild and uninhibited.” Anderson added:
“I don’t know if it was a defense mechanism or what. I just thought, ‘I’m going to have fun.’”
Over the past few years, she has been sporting a more stripped-down beauty look, sometimes looking like she is not wearing makeup. Following the death of her makeup artist, Alexis Vogel, she started taking a new approach. She explained:
“She was the best. And since then, I just felt, without Alexis, it’s just better for me not to wear makeup.”
The star might have turned her back on the signature look, but a new generation of people have rediscovered her Y2K style and #Pamcore trends frequently on TikTok.
The animal lover contends that her beauty update is “freeing, and fun, and a little rebellious too.” When she looks in the mirror, she feels “rooted for.” Pamela Anderson says she is in a good place.
Rude Waitress Mocked My Grandpa – I Didn’t Expect the Lesson He Taught Her
Gather around, folks! I’m Violet, and I have a tale that’ll leave you on the edge of your seat. Picture this: a simple dinner with my grandpa turns into an unforgettable evening filled with laughter, lessons, and a waitress who picked the wrong table to mess with. Trust me, this story has a twist you won’t want to miss!
To give you some background, I’m an only child and the only granddaughter on my mom’s side of the family. Growing up, I was super pampered and got lots of love and attention, especially from my grandparents.
Grandparents with their little granddaughter | Source: Midjourney
My grandma, who I call Grams, and my grandpa, Pop-Pop, have always been such a huge part of my life. Pop-Pop, who just turned 66 last month, is hands down the most adorable person I’ve ever known.
He’s got a tough exterior like you’d expect from any grandfather, but his heart is pure gold. Only his close friends and family get to see that side of him, and I’m lucky to be one of them.
A cake to celebrate 66th birthday | Source: Midjourney
Pop-Pop is Chinese-American and speaks perfect English with an American accent. He loves reading, playing golf, and has the best sense of humor; his pranks are legendary.
Last weekend, we decided to check out a new restaurant that had just opened in town. Pop-Pop loves trying new places and is always up for an outing, so we do this kind of thing a few times a month.
The interior of a restaurant with a modern, chic decor | Source: Midjourney
We arrived at the restaurant and got settled in. It was a cozy little place with a modern, chic decor. Pop-Pop and I found a nice table by the window, where we could watch people passing by on the street. The menu looked pretty fancy, and we were excited to try out some new dishes.
Not long after we sat down, a waitress came over with our menus. She had this really condescending tone like she thought we couldn’t understand English or something. She leaned in and said, very slowly, “DO YOU NEED ANYTHING?”
An elderly man with his granddaughter in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
I could see Pop-Pop’s eyes twinkle with mischief, but he kept his cool. He turned to the waitress and, matching her tone and volume, he very loudly said in a very exaggerated “Asian” accent, “YES. I NEED HELP WITH THE MENU.”
I almost burst out laughing, but I managed to keep it together. The waitress, however, didn’t take it well. She rolled her eyes, muttering under her breath, “Ugh, Chinese geezer.” She clearly thought we hadn’t heard her, but we did.
A waitress in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
Initially, I saw a flicker of anger in Pop-Pop’s eyes, but then that familiar sparkle returned. He adjusted his glasses and cleared his throat with dramatic flair. I waited anxiously to see what Pop-Pop had in store. Though I must admit, even I was shocked at how he handled the situation.
“Can you explain the menu to us?” he asked, still using the exaggerated accent. “Dish by dish, drink by drink, dessert by dessert?”
An elderly man looking at the menu in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
The waitress sighed, clearly annoyed, but she had no choice but to comply. She started going through the menu, listing each item. “This is the calamari: it’s fried squid. This is the house salad: mixed greens with a vinaigrette…”
Pop-Pop interrupted her frequently. “What’s in the vinaigrette?” he asked, making her explain the ingredients in painstaking detail.
“And the calamari, is it fresh or frozen?” Pop-Pop continued, raising an eyebrow.
“Uh, it’s fresh,” she replied, barely hiding her irritation.
An entitled waitress glaring at someone in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
This went on for about ten minutes. Pop-Pop held her captive, making her repeat things occasionally just to prolong her discomfort.
“What kind of seafood is in the paella?” Pop-Pop asked, still using the exaggerated accent.
“Um, it’s a mix of shrimp, mussels, and clams,” the waitress replied, trying to keep her patience.
“And the lettuce in the house salad,” Pop-Pop continued, “is it romaine or iceberg?”
“It’s mixed greens, sir,” she said through gritted teeth.
Pop-Pop nodded thoughtfully. “Mixed greens. Interesting. Is the dressing made here or bought from a store?”
Paella served with shrimps in a wok | Source: Pexels
“It’s made in-house,” she replied, clearly struggling to maintain her composure.
Pop-Pop leaned back and smiled. “Could you repeat that? I didn’t quite catch it.”
The waitress sighed, “It is made in-house.”
He nodded again, slowly. “Thank you. And how is the steak cooked?”
“Any way you like it,” she said quickly, hoping to speed things up.
“Oh, I see. And what sides come with the steak?” he asked, drawing out the interaction even further.
Steak with a side of french fries | Source: Pexels
“Mashed potatoes or fries,” she replied, her voice flat.
Pop-Pop turned to me with a grin. “Violet, do you prefer mashed potatoes or fries?”
I could barely keep a straight face. “I think mashed potatoes, Pop-Pop.”
“Ah, good choice,” he said, then turned back to the waitress. “Could you tell me more about the desserts?”
It was a masterclass in patience and subtle revenge. At one point, the waitress gave me a desperate look, but I just shrugged, trying not to smile too much. She had no idea who she was dealing with.
An elderly man smiling while sitting in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
After going through nearly the entire menu and having the waitress repeat everything so many times that I literally lost count, Pop-Pop leaned back in his chair and looked at me. “IT’S NO GOOD HERE. WE MUST GO,” he said loudly, still using the fake accent.
We gathered our things and got up to leave. The waitress looked stunned, and for a moment, I felt a little bad for her, but then I remembered her rude comment.
As we walked out, Pop-Pop switched back to his normal voice and said, “Violet, let’s find somewhere with better service.”
A woman holding a burger in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
We ended up at a cute little diner a few blocks away. The staff there was super friendly, and the food was amazing. Pop-Pop and I spent the rest of the evening chatting and laughing about the whole incident.
“Pop-Pop, you’re incredible,” I said between bites of my burger. “That was some top-tier revenge.”
He chuckled. “Sometimes people need a reminder not to judge others by how they look. It’s a small world, and you never know what someone is capable of.”
A grandfather-granddaughter duo laughing | Source: Midjourney
I nodded, thinking about how true that was. Pop-Pop had always been full of wisdom and humor, and that day was just another example of his brilliance. It was a lesson not just for the waitress, but for me too. It reminded me to always treat people with respect, no matter what.
As we finished our meal and headed home, I couldn’t help but feel grateful for Pop-Pop. His heart of gold, his wisdom, and his playful spirit made him the best grandpa anyone could ask for. That day at the restaurant was just another reason why I adored him so much.
An elderly man enjoying a game of golf | Source: Midjourney
So, what do you think? Did Pop-Pop teach the waitress a valuable lesson? Maybe you’ve had a similar experience with a wise elder. Share your stories in the comments below. And thanks for joining the ride!
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