When people fall in love, they often make big changes for each other. They might quit bad habits, eat differently, or dress better. But when it comes to pets, things can get tricky.
A 22-year-old man shared his problem on Reddit. His girlfriend of seven months told him he had to choose: give up his cat, Mittens, or end their relationship.
His girlfriend is a dedicated vegan and believes that having a cat goes against her values.
He explained in his post: “I’ve been dating my girlfriend for seven months. She’s amazing, and we get along great in many ways. She’s a strong vegan and told me early on that she wants her partner to share her cruelty-free lifestyle. Since I was already a pescatarian, it wasn’t hard for me to switch to a plant-based diet. She was proud of me for going cruelty-free, and we became known as ‘the vegan couple’ on our college campus.”
Vegan Girlfriend’s Shocking Demand: Boyfriend Must Choose Between Her and His Cat!
When people fall in love, they often make big changes for each other. They might quit bad habits, eat differently, or dress better. But when it comes to pets, things can get tricky.
A 22-year-old man shared his problem on Reddit. His girlfriend of seven months told him he had to choose: give up his cat, Mittens, or end their relationship.
His girlfriend is a dedicated vegan and believes that having a cat goes against her values.
He explained in his post: “I’ve been dating my girlfriend for seven months. She’s amazing, and we get along great in many ways. She’s a strong vegan and told me early on that she wants her partner to share her cruelty-free lifestyle. Since I was already a pescatarian, it wasn’t hard for me to switch to a plant-based diet. She was proud of me for going cruelty-free, and we became known as ‘the vegan couple’ on our college campus.”
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However, the issue of his cat, Mittens, was always in the background. “I’ve had her for three years and I love her. She’s so sweet and cuddly. But my girlfriend was always a bit nervous around her, saying it was because she didn’t grow up with cats. So, we kind of agreed to hang out at her place more, and we didn’t really talk about Mittens again.”
Their relationship grew stronger during the pandemic, and they started talking about moving in together. This led to a serious conversation where his girlfriend surprised him by saying she couldn’t see a future with him unless he gave up Mittens. She believed owning a cat went against vegan principles because cats hunt and eat meat.
“I was shocked,” he wrote. “I told her there was no way I would give up Mittens. I explained that I was doing my best to minimize harm by buying reputable cat food. Many vegans own cats and feel the same way. But my girlfriend got angry and asked, ‘How much meat does your cat eat? How many animals died to make that food? Would you be okay if it was human meat?’”
Frustrated, he left her apartment and went home to cuddle with Mittens. Later, his girlfriend sent him a link to a Reddit thread about why domestic cats should go extinct.
He ended his post by saying: “I’m not going to get rid of my cat. But it hurts to think our otherwise great relationship might end because of this. I don’t really get where she’s coming from, because lots of vegans own cats.”

In a subsequent update on r/relationship_advice, he clarified that his girlfriend’s extreme views on domestic cats were not representative of the vegan/vegetarian community as a whole. “I do think that, sometimes, new vegans can be a little overzealous. In reality, most of us are just doing the best that we can to not hurt animals!”
He also revealed that they had broken up. “I would never, ever give up my cat Mittens,” he said. Reflecting on the situation, he admitted: “Many users said that this situation was about control, not veganism, and looking back, I do see a pattern of control on my girlfriend’s part.”
Ultimately, he decided that parting ways was the best decision given the issues in their relationship. Would you have done the same in this situation?
Woman Unearths Astonishing Secret After Tracking Twin Girls Who Sit Unaccompanied in Park Each Night

Every night, Colleen saw twin girls in shabby clothes sitting alone in the park. When her curiosity got the best of her and she followed them, she stumbled upon a heartbreaking secret that would alter her life forever.
Hi, everyone! I’m Colleen, 32 years old and still single. No kids yet, though I’ve dated my fair share of guys. I love kids so much and can’t wait to have my own, but it’s so hard to find true love these days. But hey, no rush.
I decided to wait for the right man, unaware that my life would change in ways I never imagined.
It all began when I saw twin girls, about 8 years old, in old shabby clothes sitting on the same bench in the park where I walked my dog. Their eyes, filled with a haunting sadness, drew me in each evening as they sat alone on the same bench. No parents or adults were ever around, and their loneliness was palpable.
One evening, the chill in the air was sharper, and the girls were there again, shivering in their old jackets.
The streetlights flickered on as darkness crept in. My concern grew unbearable, and I decided to discreetly follow them to see who would come for them.

As the sun began to set, the girls stood up, holding each other’s hands tightly. They walked with hesitant steps and left the park alone. My worry deepened with every step they took, and I followed them, determined to ensure their safety.
To my surprise, they boarded a bus, looking even smaller and more vulnerable under the harsh fluorescent lights. I followed them and noticed how they huddled together and whispered softly. They traveled nine stops and each mile made my anxiety grow.
When they finally got off, I was stunned beyond words because they walked into a wealthy neighborhood. The contrast between their appearance and the grand houses around them was jarring. They approached a particularly large home and entered without hesitation.
I stood there, frozen in disbelief. What was going on? Why were these clearly neglected girls living in such an affluent area? Something didn’t add up, and my gut told me I needed to investigate further.
Taking a deep breath, I walked up to the house and rang the doorbell. A maid answered, eyeing me suspiciously.
“Can I help you?” she asked, her tone clipped.
“Yes, I’d like to speak with the parents of the twin girls who just came in,” I said, trying to keep my voice steady.
The maid hesitated, then nodded. “Wait here, please.”
Five long minutes passed before a man appeared at the door. His expensive suit and cold demeanor screamed wealth and indifference.
“What do you want?” he snapped.
I swallowed hard. “Sir, I’m concerned about your daughters. I’ve seen them alone in the park every evening, and it’s not safe—”
He cut me off. “That’s none of your business. Don’t show up here again.” The door slammed in my face.
I walked away, my mind racing. Something was very wrong here, and I couldn’t shake the feeling that those girls needed help.
The next day, I went to the park earlier than usual. Around 4 PM, the twins appeared, settling onto their usual bench. Gathering my courage, I approached them.
By choosing to get involved, I not only changed the lives of two wonderful little girls but also found a love and purpose I never knew I was missing.
To the people reading this, I urge you: if you see something that doesn’t seem right, speak up. You never know whose life you might change.
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