According to a survey, only 14% of couples sleep in separate beds every night. And while many of us might believe in the saying “couples who sleep apart grow apart” there are studies that show the opposite is actually true.
We at Bright Side believe that there are no wrong or right sleep arrangements, because to some, sleeping in different beds can be as pleasing as for others sharing a bed with their partner.
A poor night’s sleep can turn lovers into fighters.
According to research, sharing a bed with a partner that has restless sleep behavior can deprive you of 49 minutes of sleep each night. And, when one partner doesn’t get a proper night’s sleep because of the other, it will most likely result in a conflict between them the next day.
Actually, the study even confirmed that couples who tend to have a poor night’s sleep have more severe and more frequent fights than those who wake up well-rested. People who get a good night’s sleep, on the other hand, are more likely to be in a good mood, have lower stress levels, and be more patient.
Resenting your partner because you can’t get a good night’s sleep can be destructive to the relationship.
Snoring, fidgeting, and bed or blanket hogging are just a few of many reasons why some couples choose to sleep in different beds or even in different bedrooms. Lying awake listening to your partner snoring while you beat yourself up to fall asleep can lead to a build-up of anger, tension, and resentment toward your partner.
According to Jennifer Adams, author of Sleeping Apart Not Falling Apart, sleeping in a separate bedroom can even help a relationship thrive because both partners are not sleep deprived.
Each partner can tailor their sleeping conditions to their heart’s content.
Tina Cooper, a licensed social worker, sleeps in different bedrooms with her partner because of their opposite sleeping habits. “I’m a night owl, he’s an early bird. I need soothing sounds to fall asleep, and he likes silence. He likes a hard mattress, and I like soft and full of pillows. And because I don’t like the early day’s sunlight, my boyfriend gave me the master bedroom which gets less light and he has the second largest room that gets the sunrise he loves.”
How you spend the nighttime in your shared bedroom with your partner can also influence your daytime functioning, marital satisfaction, and psychological and physical health. And when 2 people with different bedtime preferences and nighttime schedules end up together, changing themselves just to please their partner’s needs might harm their relationship in the long run.
Sleeping in different bedrooms with your partner means that the 2 of you will have a place just for yourselves where you can relax after an exhausting day. This way, both of you can satisfy your needs without tiptoeing around and worrying about whether your partner might wake up because you want to watch the latest episode of your show before bed.
Even if you don’t remember waking up, disturbed sleep can have a negative impact on your overall health.
During the night, our brain cycles through the stages of sleep several times: light sleep, deep sleep, and REM (Rapid eye movement sleep). But when you interrupt the cycle by waking up during the night, it means that your brain spends more time in the light sleep stage and misses out on REM. And without sufficient REM your emotional well-being and cognitive performance suffer.
Interrupted sleep can also have short and long-term health consequences, like hypertension, weight-related issues, mental health problems, reduced quality of life, and other health-related issues.
People on Reddit share why they decided to sleep separately with their partner.
- “Because a good night’s sleep is more romantic than sharing a bed. I snore and toss and turn. He gives off literal village levels of heat in his sleep and I can’t stand the heat. I read, he can’t stand light. We keep different hours to an extent. A million reasons. We get along so much better this way.” — crankyweasels
- “My partner and I have completely separate bedrooms. We ’sleepover’ occasionally in each other’s rooms. However, we both sleep exponentially better apart. He’s a night owl and I’m an early bird. He wants only one sheet on him, I want 10 lbs of blankets. In addition, having a separate room allows me to decorate it however I want, have my own personal space, and keep it to the level of cleanliness I prefer. People look at us sideways when I mention the separate rooms thing, but it’s been a game-changer.” — eriasana
- “Different sleep cycles due to different work schedules. We are still madly in love and we both agreed to this because it’s the best for both of us.” — AFishInATank
- “Early in our relationship, 90% of our fights occurred in the bedroom. I like to sleep in a cold room with the fan on and white noise like a box fan. I also like to go to sleep with the TV on. She likes to sleep in a warm, still, cave in complete silence and darkness. We started sleeping in separate rooms and all of a sudden 90% of our fights stopped. Also, because we were getting real sleep, other fights turned more into heated discussions.” — ttc8420
What are your sleeping arrangements with your partner? Do you believe sleeping in different beds can help a relationship thrive?
Can You Solve This Tricky Math Puzzle
Are you ready to challenge your brain with a fascinating math puzzle? At first glance, the equation in the image may look like a simple addition problem, but there’s a hidden pattern that makes it more complex than you think.
Take a moment to analyze the given equations:
- 9 + 2 = 711
- 14 + 6 = 820
- 17 + 11 = 628
- 12 + 3 = ???
Can you figure out the logic behind these numbers and find the correct answer? Give it a try before scrolling down for the solution!
Common Mistakes People Make When Solving This Puzzle
Many people approach this problem using traditional math rules. Since the equations involve addition, they naturally assume the answer follows basic arithmetic. However, these numbers don’t add up conventionally, leading to confusion.
Here are some common errors people make:
✔ Trying to use standard addition – When adding 9 + 2, the result should be 11, but the puzzle gives 711 instead. Clearly, something else is happening.
✔ Assuming a hidden multiplication or division – Some people think there’s a multiplication or division pattern involved, but that doesn’t explain all the numbers.
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✔ Overcomplicating the logic – Sometimes, the best approach is to look for a simple pattern instead of forcing complex mathematical operations.
If you’re stuck, don’t worry! Let’s break it down step by step and uncover the hidden pattern behind these numbers.
Step-by-Step Guide to Solving the Puzzle
To understand the logic behind these equations, let’s analyze how the numbers are structured.
Step 1: Look for a Pattern in the Results
Instead of performing normal addition, let’s break down each result:
- 9 + 2 = 711
- 14 + 6 = 820
- 17 + 11 = 628
Notice that each result consists of three digits. What could these numbers represent?
Step 2: Identify the Hidden Logic
Let’s analyze the relationship between the input numbers and the output:
- The first digit of the result seems to come from the sum of the two numbers.
- The last two digits of the result seem to come from the product of the two numbers.
Let’s verify this theory:
- 9 + 2 = 11, 9 × 2 = 18 → But the result is 711?
- Instead of 18, it looks like the product’s last two digits are considered.
- If we write 11 first, but take only the last two digits of 9 × 2 = 18, we get 711.
- 14 + 6 = 20, 14 × 6 = 84 → The result is 820.
- First part: Sum = 20
- Second part: Product = 84
- The final number is 820 (placing 20 first, followed by 84).
- 17 + 11 = 28, 17 × 11 = 187 → The result is 628.
- First part: Sum = 28
- Second part: Product = 187, taking the last two digits 87
- The final result is 628.
Step 3: Apply the Logic to the Missing Equation
Now, let’s use this pattern to solve 12 + 3 = ???
- Sum:
- 12 + 3 = 15
- Product:
- 12 × 3 = 36
- Final Answer:
- By following the discovered pattern, we place the sum first, followed by the last two digits of the product:
- 12 + 3 = 915
Final Answer: 915
So, the correct answer to the puzzle is 915!
Conclusion: Challenge Your Brain with More Puzzles
Did you figure out the pattern on your own, or did you need a hint? Either way, this puzzle is a great example of how thinking outside the box can help solve seemingly tricky problems.
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👉 Drop a comment below and let us know how long it took you to solve it!
👉 Share this puzzle with your friends and challenge them—can they solve it faster than you did?
👉 Try more brain teasers to improve your problem-solving skills and have fun while exercising your brain!
Math puzzles like these are excellent for boosting logical thinking and pattern recognition. Keep challenging yourself, and you’ll soon become a master at spotting hidden logic!
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